love or attraction????-please help

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Posted: 17 years ago
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hi guys
i am 17 and a girl...i know a boy since 9th and he is my friend...we cant speak face to face cause of some society problems...but in 11th we started to chat in messenger and then he told me that he loves me from 9th....till now after 1 and a half year..he is still there waiting for my answer....i also like him... he makes me laugh and we had a great time togather...but what haunts me is the question"do i love him?" or this is just an attraction cause he is the first guy in my life....so please help me out... i am really confused

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Neetaldesai thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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no one wants to help me? 😭
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Posted: 17 years ago
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aww don't worry I'm sure alot of ppl wants to help u.

I honestly feel that ur the only person who can answer that question.

Ask urself how u feel about the boy and if u think u like him, then give it a shot. Please don't delay coz if he moves on and u realise u like him then it will be too late.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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hey thankss a lott
😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i agree with angel eyes
its something only you know
gd luk.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neetaldesai

hey thankss a lott
😊

ur welcome😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I agree with everyone else. You need to listen to what your heart tells you.

Also, do you konw this boy from somewhere or is this some Internet thing? If you know him from the Internet, all I have to say is be careful. It's better if you meet him before thinking you love him.
Edited by tulipbaby53 - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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^^^^ exactly, be carefull hun

if he goes to same skul as you u can meet him in school and ask him out and then u can figure out he is a nice.
dont fell in love with someone if u dont see them most of the time

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Posted: 17 years ago
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ask uyrslf wen u r alone......u wil get ur answer by urslf 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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yeah in your loneliness or leisure time, think about your thoughts and feelings about him.
if it's love, you'll experience the following:
- can't eat
- can't sleep
- always think about him
- your heart beats faster when you see him
- he gives you the butterflies
- you miss him a a a lot whenever you don't see him
- you want to meet him whenever you don't see him.
if it's attraction, you might experience:
- you get excited only whenever you see him
continue chatting in messenger but don't meet alone in person especially if you don't know him well.

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