does he like me..!??! ❤️

ashson thumbnail
Posted: 17 years ago
#1

hey guys :)

please give me some advice on this...i'm really confused =/
but please read ALL of it before advising anything

background info-

ok- so it started around last year- august...when i started like him😳
he's a junior-and i'm a freshman. our families are reallyyyy really good friends- we've known each other since forever. but i never really talked to him until i switched schools- i started going to his high school. on the 2nd day of school he came up to me between lunch and 6th period and asked me how i was adjusting/if i needed anything. he said that if i needed help/had questions i could come to him anytime.- and i think since then i started liking him.😳

everyday since then i kept glancing towards him and whenever we made eye contact i smiled and he returned the sweetest smile ever😳

and that went on for a while lol. - ok let me tell u that my parents are SUPER strict and don't want me dating. and the junior i like is pretty conservative.

then around march- i started volunteering at this place; and later i found out that he volunteered there too.
so when i first went there- he saw me and and smiled and we talked and stuff. our shifts both ended at 3- so we had lunch together. :)
we kept talking and stuff
then after that weekend i went to school and saw him in the cafeteria and he came upto me while i was getting a drink and we talked for 10 minutes...it was so sweet 😳

then the next saturday- i met him again at my volunteering place and we talked some more...and this continued for a couple saturdays. i think this got us a lot closer.😃

then april 19th (saturday) was my bday :)
i was the first one at volunteering- so i decided to start my work already. then as he opened the door to the room, i turned around and before saying anything - he put on the sweetest/cutest smile EVER and said happy birthday and gave me a HUG!!!!!😳
i felt so safe in his arms- and this was prob. the best birthday ever- only because i spent half the day with him :)
im telling you, i was on top of the world that day! lol
and the weirdest part is that i never even told him that it was my birthday
but later he told me that he saw me in the lunchroom the previous day and heard my friends singing 'happy bday' for me.😊


later i realized that "wowww, i really like this guy....prlly more than just a crush!" so i decided to tell a couple of my friends- because i've never felt this way about a boy before- i mean sure, ive had tons of crushes- but never like this. there's just something about this junior that makes him so amazinggg!

my friends started paying more attention towards him and everytime he would look at me they would let me know- and i never realized how much he looks at me! i thought i was the only crazy one who looked at him!
they told me that he looks at me every 2 seconds in the lunchroom (he sits 4 tables across from mine)- and whenever i pass by him in the hallways he always smiles.

sooooooooo- i want to know if he likes me!
what should i do?
i think about him 24/7- no joke
i look at his facebook picture everyday! i really LOVE him!
but whenever i see him- i get so nervous and butterflies in my stomach
i want to talk to him, but at the same time i get nervous!

any tips? what r ur thoughts on this? do u think he likes me?

reply back! xx

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Posted: 17 years ago
#2
befor u ask him whether he likes u i fink u shud get sum signs tht he really really likes u and for i think u shd get 2 no him befor u love him 😃 gd luck
Nisha.Z thumbnail
Posted: 17 years ago
#3
aw that is so cute

so my advise to you is:

first don't buy into what your friends say too much because our friends love us so much that they never want to see us getting hurt so they may just say what they know you want them to say like oh yeah he was so totally staring at you, those kinds of things.

secondly get to know him better like his likes dislikes, and more importantly casually slip in there oh so so are you dating anyone and what is your type of girl.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I am pretty sure that he likes you because I would look at someone every 2 seconds only if I like them or there is any feeling for the person. just find out some of the things as --- does he only help you all the time? does he only stare at you? Do the following ask him -- Can I ask you something if you don't mind? then try to ask him about his dream girl I am sure he'll say somethign about her maybe he'll give you some hints. ask him is she indian or from another country? I hope it helped you just try this and do tell me what happened after that.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I read through your whole story hun and oh myyyyyy that is sooooooo romantic!!!! I really think he likes you :)
as of now- just keep doing what you are doing, and get to know him a bit more (:
be yourself! 😳

and do keep us updated 😊
legallyzoya thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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aww that is so cute!!!! 😳 😳 😳
luks like he likes you...!!!!
but if ur parents r totally strict about tht...do you
think its worth ????
I think you need their permission first, advice and blessings..
befoe you make another move..
thats the safest and wisest decision....
Posted: 17 years ago
#7


Very interesting!

Why cant someone feel this way about me!!! 😭
I always thought it was the guy going crazy over the girl....(j/k).. 😉 😆

I guess i am in the same boat, its so hard to tell, everything is like in line, except the magical words "I like you" etc...

Its even harder when you are good friends/know the parents etc...My advice would be to look for strong hints, or talk to his friends....or people that know him...etc..

Hope for the best,
ashson thumbnail
Posted: 17 years ago
#8
thanks guys! ill reply to each post ASAP :)
but i have more stories! ill update on what happened..and once i do, pleaseeeeeee give me some more advice :)
legallyzoya thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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sure waiting for ur update...
@AsliiGuy.....its not always one sided...
Girls also have crushes n all 😆 we just dnt shw it 😆 😉 😃
Posted: 17 years ago
#10

Originally posted by: zoya24

sure waiting for ur update...
@AsliiGuy.....its not always one sided...
Girls also have crushes n all 😆 we just dnt shw it 😆 😉 😃

Awww you girls....So hard to understand sometimes 😭. Sometimes I wish I can read your minds...But that would take the fun away...😛

j/k!!😊 I am in the same boat too.......😛 but i will tell my story another day..Very similar to the story in this posting.

Sometimes I wish life was easy...But that wouldnt be fun huh? haha😆

look fwd to hearing more ashon...

Edited by AsliiGuy - 17 years ago

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