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Posted: 17 years ago
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i just absoultely hate my life my family just nag my cuz just wont stop windin me up he just never shuts up. my mum always takes his side. i feel lik e smackin him. my skool life is so boring. i nearly messed up my life. i cant handle it. ii am not aloud out by myself. it is so sad. i get lectures. i feel like killin myself. to get things worse my parents dont like most of my mates. wat shud i do???

help!!!

thnx!!!

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I must say i feel sorry for you my friend. Just tell them how you feel and then ask them to give you some space alone.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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DO NOT SUICIDE

life can be a pain sometimes, I understand when u say ur parents don't like ur friends but they need to understand that u choose ur friends.

U NEED TO TELL UR COUSIN TO GET A LIFE.

Babi_angel u need to understand that life is not a bed of roses, it has its ups and down, & its good and its bad. Maybe now is the bad times. If ur think that u wana commit suicide then it means ur not strong enough to take life's challenge. I might not know u but I'm sure that theres a girl inside u who stronger. Life is precious and when u think u have things bad their are alot of people out there who has it worse.

Think about it😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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The best advice I can give you is to not to even think about committing suicide. It's never the way out... it may seem to be the easiest one but it's not. It's natural to think about such things in bad moods and when life's going in the direction you want it to go but really is not a good idea.

I know how you feel because at times I feel a lot of restrictions on me too. I can't go out alone... I can't hang out with friends... All of my decisions are influenced by my family. Sometimes some members of my family hurt me tremendously as if I am an outsider but I go through it and have been going through it since I was very, very young.

At times, I also think about how everything would be so easy if only my life ended but then I realize how foolish it is. Life is hard now maybe easy in future. Just work towards it - talk to your parents and/or your cousin as well to get things straight.

Get fun and happiness from small things - hopefully your family will realize that you need space for yourself.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angeleyes 2

DO NOT SUICIDE

life can be a pain sometimes, I understand when u say ur parents don't like ur friends but they need to understand that u choose ur friends.

U NEED TO TELL UR COUSIN TO GET A LIFE.

Babi_angel u need to understand that life is not a bed of roses, it has its ups and down, & its good and its bad. Maybe now is the bad times. If ur think that u wana commit suicide then it means ur not strong enough to take life's challenge. I might not know u but I'm sure that theres a girl inside u who stronger. Life is precious and when u think u have things bad their are alot of people out there who has it worse.

Think about it😊



awesome advice!

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Posted: 17 years ago
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thanx guys. but i still feel the same im so annoyed. i really wanna kill my cousin!!!
my mum still nags and i feel like im in jail!!!
thanx 4 ur advice!!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Thanks😃

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Posted: 17 years ago
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see wht i can tell u tht pls don't even think of suicide as ur life is given by god and if u try to take ur life u will be a sinner
second i totally agree with mestery life is always not filled with roses one always has problems in life u have sum problems with ur cousin i think u require to have a talk with ur family and think positive
all the best for tackling ur problem

sleya
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Posted: 17 years ago
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dont do nethn in hurry plz....i must say i feel vry srry 4 u...but listen all parents luv deir childs....bcoz v r like deir own body parts....watver dey do r always 4 gud....ask dem y dey dont like ur mates.....n tel dem KINDLY dat u feel vrry bad wen she takes ur cuz sides.....jst discuss ur probs clearly wid dem.....am sure dey wil understnd n make evrythn easier 4 u...n lst but not d lest always remember watevr God dus is always 4 gud.....so dere r may b grand surprises waitin 4 u in ur cumin life......so dont wrryy....
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Posted: 17 years ago
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do things...that u enjoy doing....dont bother about ur cousin too much...if he irritates u..dont get irritated... take control of ur life....spend more time with ppl u like....get more closer to ur family....n i m sure they'll understand u....jus dont be negative..try n see the positive side of things in life....make more n more friends...learn to enjoy life...n keep smiling... 😃

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