Ingoring-Update page 22-feel like killing myslef ! - Page 13

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Posted: 14 years ago
I'm actually starting to doubt if you both should have started dating in the first place... I'm not trying to sound harsh or anything... But... to me it's like you're wasting your time when really you should be enjoying your freedom with your friends, family and studying for school.
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Posted: 14 years ago
at first i thought u and the first guy had sumthing buh now starting to think ur not really ready for a relationship quite yet..u need to enjoy life and focus on ur studies...like misskatrina (sorry dont kno her real name) said dont worry about guys ur time will cum.... :) well with watever decision u make hope ur happy with it :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
Febuary 21,2011

Update

If u guys rember the guy i am dating ?????

so the guy iam dating he broke up me
u know why ?????

why because he thinks i don't love him he still thinks i like the frist guy (the guy who i used to like and he used to ingore me) so he broke up with me and i went and tallked with him and i said that i dont like the first guy .... i like u but he said he does not belive me and he said to leave me alone... and he wants to break up with me


what should i do
and today he was in the school in the moring and the afternoon he left home he did not come to school.... iam very woried about him
i dont know why he is thinking like that ????

Plz help
My life sucks
why does love have to be complicated.

Plz help
can anyone give advice ????
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Posted: 14 years ago

just because you broke up with your bf after one date doesnt mean that your life sucks...

i mean, love is not everything in life... there is a place for friends and family too
dont be sad and just forget abt love... when its the right time you will REALLY fall for a guy..
at this time you should just enjoy ur life while you cann...
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Posted: 14 years ago
I agree with Shehnaazz.👍🏼 You're saying you're life sucks?! In what way, exactly?
You have all the freedom and yet you're wasting your time thinking about two lonesome guys who have no care in the world about you.
I think you should think about something...
Lay off guys for a while because you're still 15 and like you said you're not allowed to date until you're 18.
Plus,
To me it was like you were deluding yourself into moving onto the second guy when clearly you are not over the first guy.
The second guy must have suspected some sort of thing in you.
He may have broken up with you because of that reason.
I'm thinking he's still confused and so are you.
He thinks you don't love him?
Do you even know what love is?
You're throwing all these words without the actual meanings.
Do not get LOVE mixed with LIKE & LUST!
I'm sure you and the second guy must have had some sort of attraction (or still do) but he's clearly not worth it.
If you're saying you're over the first guy,
then fine tell the second guy about it.
He clearly doesn't believe that fact and maybe you should clear the air.
To tell you the truth,
I think you're too immature for a relationship.
You're muddling love over lust, you're confusing yourself over two guys.
You're 15!
You should be having fun with friends and family.
Studying! Did you forget that part aswell?
Anyways,
Hope everything works out because this issue has been going on for a really long time now.
Good luck!
Mikki
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Posted: 14 years ago
thank u for replying evryone

now we are broken up and i am trying hard not to focus on him.
but at school we still meet and she show me he has feelings for me
he acts all sad..... and he is very alone by him slef and i see him always wondering stuff... He keeps on looking at me when iam not looking at him.

i asked him whats happening ,,,, why he is still showing feelings and he said he does not show feelings.

but my life is going on if we meet each other we look at each other but now we dont tallk.

dont know how can i focus on my studies if he is on my mind all day...


Help ????

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Posted: 14 years ago
u knw mite sound like ur mom on this one but its true studies come first especially at ur age. Guys will come nd go and when ur time comes ull find the right by just work on urself. And concentrate on ur studies cause real men like women who knw what they want and r clear on things

u only like him u dont love him ure not gonna spend te rest of ur life with him
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Posted: 14 years ago
i think u should just ignore him
telling u from my personal experience, i once used to like a guy n he used to act like he liked me but couldn't ask me out so that freaked me out
but u know i just then went to learned to ignore him
u know, guys love to make a girl feel like that he likes her so that she can fall in love with him n then just say that "oh i thought of u just as a friend"
my friend told me to totally ignore that guy n look at other guys and think that they r hot and cute just for fun
that made me forget my crush so hope that works for u
it also helped me pay more attention into studies so u should try that
n when ever u see ur ex bf pretend that u didnt even c him
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Posted: 14 years ago
ingoring not helping
i miss him very much

i cannot ingore him and he cannot ingore me
he stares at me evrytime and when ever he tallks with he friends and when i wallk by he becomes very quite and just looks at me.

its hurting me
i really dont want to lose him ..... what shuld i do
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Posted: 14 years ago
i dont understand this thing.... first, he broke up with you because he thought you still liked the first guy.. and now he is missing you and staring at you.. he shudnt have broken up if he couldnt ignore u.. but i still think you should just keep him as a friend and enjoy ur life..

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