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Originally posted by: SweetAngel18

Hi,

Hmm... First thing that i would like to tell you is that i don't think it is a good idea to hate him by thinking bad thing about him. That will confuse you more and more.

From what i can see, all i can tell you is that, that guy does make an effect on you but only because he is staring at you and you feels that if he likes you then maybe you should like him. Well sweetie i don't think you like him merely because you said he did not came for 2 days and you are happy and you dont think about him.

Trust me if you'd like him even slightly, him not coming to college for two days would have affected you, if you'd like him you would have miss him.

Maybe when he looks at you that make you self consious about yourself and you are misunderstanding this as feeling. Thats all i can think of why him staring at you makes you question yourself.

The real solution here is that he did not come to college, did this affect you? Did you miss him? If YES then there is a chance that you might like him but if it is a NO then it is nothing!!

Good Luck.... Just don't make any rash decision, I mean you are 14 and these thing happen, when someone stare at you and all that. If you think you do have feeling for him then you might want to take it slow, be his friend first, get to know what type of guy he is then you will know your real feeling. Don't just make any judgement without knowing someone... :)

Originally posted by: Maz_4_life

I absaloutely agree with this!!

Maybe you don't like him at all!!

Perhaps you just THINK you like him because he stares at you and all. He may have some feelings for you but from what you told us .. of being happy when he didn't come .. then you probably don't have any feelings for him.

See what happens today .. maybe you might feel something!!

If you think you miss him then yes ... you like him .. if your feeling happy that he didn't come .. then you don't!!

Hope this helps hun xD

-Amira-

Originally posted by: MissSweetyPie

Noo You Guys Gettting me wrong i do kinda misss him but when i didnt see him its just like i am not happy its just i am Reliveed Basically I AM RUNNING AWAY😭

Originally posted by: Maz_4_life

Oooohh .. So you admit that you do like him then? 😉

Look hun .. i don't exactly know what your situation is here .. but all i can say is that ... you do like him and the guy does like you. He is just merely shy and i don't think he will make the first move either!!

Don't try to run away from him. It will just make you more and more confused!!

And DON'T think bad things about him ... you won't know your truye feelings for him untill you talk to him .. or become friends!!

Originally posted by: SweetAngel18

Ah!! Now i am getting what you are trying to say.. You likes him, you miss him and you think he likes you as well so why are you trying to runaway!!

There has to be reason for you to be relieved that he is not there, are u scared that he might refuse you or he might hurt you or maybe you are scared of feeling to deeply in love with him or it could be that you are not sure about your feeling for him yet..

Because from what you said, i can't see any reason for you to runaway from him, you likes him and he likes you, you should admit your feeling rather that trying to hate him or running away from him...

From what i can see the real issue here is why are you trying to run away from him, unless you solve this question, you will not be able to have a clear view of your feeling for him sweetie.