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Posted: 16 years ago
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okay..so. i've been with my boyfriend for 3 months..4 months in one more week..
but..
i really wanna get out of this relationship..i just feel like im not ready for one.. and everytime i talk to him about it..he never really listens to me..
so 2 days ago..i told him..i didnt want to be in this relationship anymore..and lets just be friends.
that was like a break up for me..
then i find out he thought i asked for a break..
and he wont let go of me..
idk what to do

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Posted: 16 years ago
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well..i think u need to make it clear..that ure nt ready 4 a relation..n u wanna call it off..what u need is just not a break..!..

If he does'nt unnersan..den try ignoring him..den maybe he'll get it..!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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ooo I understand, sometimes its really hard to get our message across guys.....i think guys are like babies who don't understand what we're trying to tell them until we break it down into words......try to explain it to him in a different way perhaps.......try to may be break it down into words, that might make it clear to him.
Best of Luck!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Tell him loud and clear "I'm not interested anymore! I don't want you in my life anymore! I told you before that I don't want to be in this relationship!" [If you want to get rid of him for ever] (It's Sort of harsh)


If you want to be friends the say "I don't think it's working out anymore. I don't want this relationship anymore. I hope we can still be friends"
If he ignores it. Ignore him. If he doesn't respect your thoughts then obviously doesn't deserve your friendship. Hope it helps.


Best of luck.


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