What's Simi's and Neetu's problem

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Time and again Abhi has been there for Simi
She is seeing how much Abhi is taking interest and participating in Mili's marriage details,willing to talk to Vishal, deciding on cards, wanting to give Mili a surprise.
Now a date 27th is also fixed.
Then what is Simi's problem.
If I were Simi I would tell Neetu that she is not eligible to advise on such things and to shut her mouth.
Neetu is a new generation girl. Wont she know the value of platonic relationships between two people. And Abhi had advised her only that he is older in relation to her and to take his advise. Wont her own conscience prick that she should not be advising and Mili was not the one who came back pregnant after a one night stand.
Or is it that both the daughters are just like that narrow minded mother of theirs who even after so much Abhihas done for her family is disowning him again and in spite of her blessed son trying to kill her own husband is saying he is gonna shine wherever he is.
If not for Abhi and Simi, he would have been shining in his own worth at the jail

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Posted: 15 years ago
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except RS and milli any body else in this family do they have thier own brains to use no one , and about "conscience pricking" do they have one ?if they had one then i think every body in this family will be and should be great full to him for saving them in many critical situations and nearly killed.when his wife itself is not great full towards him then how do we expect from others😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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neetu is a god damn hypocrite, i never ever liked her character very much anyway so have no expectations from her.
As for Simi, I did not see her reaction fully so would also like to give her benefit of doubt. but she always has a confused look on her face. Feel like shaking her up and saying open your mouth when it is most needed.
I just hope the cv's dont show her suspecting Abhi. He will be shattered, but he will stiil love simi. He made a promise to her yesterday "vada karta hun ki tum, main, or yeh ghar ki khushiya hamesha saath rahenge" and he will stand by that promise no matter how much he is humiliated and will forgive everyone all over again. that is our hero ABHI. and that is why i am watching this show only for him.😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kalabhi

neetu is a god damn hypocrite, i never ever liked her character very much anyway so have no expectations from her.

As for Simi, I did not see her reaction fully so would also like to give her benefit of doubt. but she always has a confused look on her face. Feel like shaking her up and saying open your mouth when it is most needed.
I just hope the cv's dont show her suspecting Abhi. He will be shattered, but he will stiil love simi. He made a promise to her yesterday "vada karta hun ki tum, main, or yeh ghar ki khushiya hamesha saath rahenge" and he will stand by that promise no matter how much he is humiliated and will forgive everyone all over again. that is our hero ABHI. and that is why i am watching this show only for him.😃

it was not vada dear he said that if tajmahal will exist or not and if saif and kareena 's relationship exist or not "i , u and KB's so called kushiyan(problems) hamesha saath rahenge ". and that we agree abhi ,simi aur unki kushiya saath hi rahengi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Neetu is an idiot and so is manju and simi is insecure. Simi has always been insecure from day one and the fear in her mind of loosing abhi has even made her more insecure.
It is common thing for women who love their husbands too much to feel this way. Simi is no exception.
She feels no other woman should be as close to abhi as she is and seeing mili closer to abhi she feels jealous.
She has given reasons after reasons
First mili giving him peck on the cheek
mili going with him to movie
mili sitting close to him holding his shoulder abhi singing to her
mili and abhi chasing each other in living room
all these things have made simi insecure
on the top she hears from neetu telling manju about abhi mili getting closer
Simi is acting like a jealous and insecure wife. Once jealousy enters the relation any loving wife forgets all and start suspecting her spouse/ Simi is possesive of abhi. This is also a part of loving some one and being possesive of the person.
Let us hope abhi calms her and make her understand mili is like sister or sibling to him. He is getting the love and attention that anita used to provide him from mili. He misses that brother sister bond and he gets that love from mili.
that will put simi's mind at ease
Any way what mili is doing with abhi is very wrong they are sali jiju.
She is going to get married to vishal. If she continues this even vishal would feel what simi is feeling. Creating problems in their relations to begin with.
I understand Even mili is getting that brotherly love from abhi that has been absent from anuj since he got married to anita
So both mili and abhi are fulfilling their needs of getting brother sister love and nothing else. Since both anuj and anita are ignoring their siblings and hurting them.
Still mili as a woman should stop this and make abhi aware to. since we live in the society where women are criticized for these things more than men
Simi should tell abhi the same that mili is goiing to marry vishal and such behavior of him and mili may create misunderstanding. rather than suspecting him I am sure abhi will understand.
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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simi is getting on my last nerve & if this friendly banter turns to something more, then simi will be entirely responsiable for ruining her marriage. i cant believe an educated woman likew her can be so insecure & jealous. yes she knows shes not all that & abhi is far too good for her, but for heaven sake he had seen all your sisters, but he still fell for you, doesnt that tell you something

her behaviour every time she sees abhi/milli having funis a disgrace & milli is beginning to get very conscious, every time simi walks on them having a laugh

the time when he was playing a guitar & she innocently put her arm on his shoulder, the jealous witch gave her dirty look & the poor mite moved away & today again she gave her dirty look to, i find simi's behaviour disgraceful.

she is only doubting & disrespecting her lil, but at the same time her hubby to & now i wish for her degrading & insecure behaviour, draws milli/abhi even more closer, or the least since milli is out spoken to tell simi to get a life

you disgraceful woman your sis has been through such a major trauma that every respect woman dreads, is to be on the verge of loosing you dignity, but thanks to some unforseen power you get saved. but after all that your own elder sister treating, like some sort of tart & makes you feel that you behaving cheepily, is nound to make her explode or totally loose it
as for neetu what a hypocrite, get a life you sad dumbo, look who is talking. you dudnt even know the thief that well & never mind that you didnt even know his full name, but just nick name & on the very first date you slept with him & here you acting like a respectful devi.what a disgrace the only sane in the family are mr shetty & milli the rest 3 are as dim & narrow minded as there mental mother
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

Neetu is an idiot and so is manju and simi is insecure. Simi has always been insecure from day one and the fear in her mind of loosing abhi has even made her more insecure.

It is common thing for women who love their husbands too much to feel this way. Simi is no exception.
She feels no other woman should be as close to abhi as she is and seeing mili closer to abhi she feels jealous.
She has given reasons after reasons
First mili giving him peck on the cheek
mili going with him to movie
mili sitting close to him holding his shoulder abhi singing to her
mili and abhi chasing each other in living room
all these things have made simi insecure
on the top she hears from neetu telling manju about abhi mili getting closer
Simi is acting like a jealous and insecure wife. Once jealousy enters the relation any loving wife forgets all and start suspecting her spouse/ Simi is possesive of abhi. This is also a part of loving some one and being possesive of the person.
Let us hope abhi calms her and make her understand mili is like sister or sibling to him. He is getting the love and attention that anita used to provide him from mili. He misses that brother sister bond and he gets that love from mili.
that will put simi's mind at ease
Any way what mili is doing with abhi is very wrong they are sali jiju.
She is going to get married to vishal. If she continues this even vishal would feel what simi is feeling. Creating problems in their relations to begin with.
I understand Even mili is getting that brotherly love from abhi that has been absent from anuj since he got married to anita
So both mili and abhi are fulfilling their needs of getting brother sister love and nothing else. Since both anuj and anita are ignoring their siblings and hurting them.
Still mili as a woman should stop this and make abhi aware to. since we live in the society where women are criticized for these things more than men
Simi should tell abhi the same that mili is goiing to marry vishal and such behavior of him and mili may create misunderstanding. rather than suspecting him I am sure abhi will understand.



very nicely put
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Posted: 15 years ago
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🤣 Mesimi you make me laugh so much, you are so right about everything.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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🤣 🤣 you are all making me laugh but your views are so true, I could not have said it better.

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