simbhi Age Gap-- Are the Creatives trying to show.

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KBfanNo1

@KBfanNo1

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

Are the creatives trying to show that when a young boy marries a elder woman -- The relationship does not work as Simi is always concerned for her family and he is mainly concerned for his love...

Is this what they wanna showcase that priorities change as you grow Old. i do understand that yes they do change and your outlook towards things change...

BUT --Your husband is always no 1. How can she have different priorities before him.. this is strange ..

she had been longing so much for her marriage and ofcourse someone who can hold her hand, love her, be with her ... make love with her... and now all of a sudden so much change.

Your views Pls.

I hope they should not show that this marriage was unsuccessful... pls pls never do that...

I should not matter as long as you are in love..

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Dhabu89

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Posted: 15 years ago

I know of a couple who have a 4 year gap between them with her being older. She is a little more mature and he is a little eccentric. But when he does romantic things for her she not only appreciates it she sends him thank you notes on beautiful stationary and sometimes gets him something small like his favorite ice cream or maybe a night on the town doing whatever HE wants.... It is possible. The CV's are so adamant on ruining this beautiful love story that they are not willing to listen to any kind of reason. I think they are all old thinking and old values and so that is why they show Simi doing so much for her maayka rather than her husband!!!!!

LOVE CONQUERS ALL.

IT DOES NOT DISCRIMINATE

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Shankar

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Posted: 15 years ago

CVS are trying, not necessarily succeeding, to show us that age does not matter. they should try in a different route though. that would be good. i hope simi shows abhi more love as a wife.

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ReadLo

@ReadLo

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Posted: 15 years ago

This then is my thought I do wrinkled person, say that I can try to understand the world, but it is still divided.

There is a dimension which accepts not, of the other ones are tolerant and accepting.

Then this is the question for those closed mind why don't do a story when an older man married a girl?

Love has no age and will never be broken barriers and live in his time there is need in 2010, then living in the same year.

Back to KB, for me the history will work if makers shows history in a context of style: Simi aine family fights for their assisted in all their problem even by being married to Abhi a young man younger than she. It can do both just by expressing the things when you're with your husband you don't think the problem of family, but when it is more the you can enable you to consider

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Bana

@Bana

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: KBfanNo1
Are the creatives trying to show that when a young boy marries a elder woman -- The relationship does not work as Simi is always concerned for her family and he is mainly concerned for his love...

I don't think the first sentence above has anything to do with the second. In other words, Simi's inability to cut the umblical cord is not because of her being older but her instilled values and upbringing where she is constantly expected to be a "badi didi" and appreciated for it. Since she is not appreciated for her other qualities (intelligence) she would naturally have clung to the one appreciated quality so as to feel needed and loved. Even if she had been 25 or Abhi 30 it would have been no different.

I hope the CVs do not mislead viewers into thinking it is the age gap that makes Simi not prioritise her marriage, it will give one more excuse to the parents who oppose such marriages!

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Ganga

@Avatarana09

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Posted: 15 years ago

I hope Bana, they dont want to show that such marriages dont work.

Simi is a normal woman at 30 not 60.

She was the one who told Abhi...tees ki hone wali hoon, aaj tak kisi bande ke aankh milakar baat nahi ki, haath nahi pakda,ghoomne nahi gayi, kisi ko dekhke dil me kuch kuch kya hota hai mujhe kya pata?

Simi could not bring her hands closer to Abhi's while he offered her flowers at AA wedding.

Simi wanted Abhi to propose to her and was irritated when he didn't.

Simi's pulse was racing when he held her close next day when he came home.

She was the one who initiated the closeness with Abhi at the park. She held hands first, got closer to him.

When Abhi drew her closer, she could have just hugged him and moved apart. She was the one who initiated the missed liplock. Come on yaar which guy wont get excited in such closeness. And still she backed out .

She was the one waiting to be kissed on her lips when he just wanted to say I love you. Since she asked, he gave a peck on her cheek.

A normal woman after getting married to the man she loves will still have this desire to be held,hugged and kissed by her husband.

But right now her need for physical closeness to Abhi is lost.

For illogical reasons. Her brother lost his job. Anita should worry. Cant believe she cant move close to her husband cos Anuj lost his job. I can follow if her parents are sick or someone is hospitalised. But then Abhi wont want it either in that case.

Illogical but thats what they show. She cant be happy until her maayka issues will be sorted. Well thats never going to happen.

Edited by mesimi - 15 years ago

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ssree

@ssree

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Posted: 15 years ago

This is the same question that i am having and i mentioned it some where , i cannot recollect which thread but, why is she worried about anuj and his job, yes being a sister one will be worried when u r brother looses a job or is going on a wrong path, but does not mean u should spoil u whole mood and be worried about it the whole day , after all he is a grown up and is married also, anuj can manage on his own, when anuj feel for anita did he ask simi, or when he robbed the bank money did he tell simi y he did it , or forget as a gratitude did he thank simi when she took the effore of bringing them baack home, if they r not worried y is she so worried, he husband dosent have a job, she is not worried about it , where more than anything she should be worried for this....forget her she is rediculous .

the credibility of a lady is to take care of herself, her husband, her job, her family and husbands family and if at all they have problems then that also, but here she is only thinking about her fly.specially of those people who are not worth her love, care and affection.

Yes there are people / ladies who cannot balance such things, these ladies are always insecure, and always have a low self esteem, where they think they r not worth any thing, here where required like in fron of abhi shes like iam the boss when it comes to her family , its low esteem.

she did better balalnce her self other wise she will loose a lot

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