I Dont Really Blame Simi

Hey Guys ,

I wont call myself silent member of this forum , caz i hardly comes to this forum ... i been wattching this show since it started and kinda like it though even after having some loophole scenes ... the story went aheam aheam with vickeys entry .........................

HOnestly why blame simi here ?? welll audience loves to see a female lead role whose main agenda in life is to try and be overly sacrifising ..... i kinda understand simi but at times she proves wat i can bet anout her , that she is a confused soul ....

Personally i think at times simi tries to stand for her love for abhi but poor gal c an never make it the only time she made me proud was when she tellls RS about her lo

I dont rem a show where a main lead ever been strong or used her head , its like ppl would never accept for some one being more o f human then saint ...can i say give us a break and ask us wat we need to see ..

Simi herself is responsible for being SIMI ....if she has to change it has to be by herself and not by some one .........may be all her life being elder sister of the house she was taught being sacrifising ....and being taunted with being fat and etc one looses believe in one self in most cases nd just listens to other like living being played on their tunes ... simi she did try to stand for her love with anitha and her hubby...but neetu she couldnt its like it s easy to fight with whole world as its easy but fighting with family needs strength .................. not justifying simi but cant resist making this post ...................

yes...its a sensible post and nothing i wanna say as sab log mujhe pakad kar jutte marege as t'day i m saying lot of weird thing so,i will post u tomorrow😃 ..!!!!

Love your post....totally agree...

There are two things....Firstly as you mentioned....The audience (a major portion) is still not ready see the lead protagnist standing for herself and fighting against her own family. They would rather prefer her to sacrifice her love, happiness and life for the sake of others (who apparently happen to a family).....After all its a TV drama....

Secondly. Simmi has been grown that way....it has been set in her mind that she is the eldest of all and it is her responsibility to take care of her siblings, no matter even if it is at the cost of her own happiness....it would take a lot of courage and strength for her to stand up and say her heart out...moreover with the given fact that she is relatively fat and aging and loving someone younger to her, she is left with no choices from the society....No one would tolerate anyone to say bad about his/her family....Obviously we all want her to ask her mom to not to force her for Nakul's rishta. But because of the life she has lived so far, her mind is too much occupied with her family reputation and brother-sister's happiness....

Now its Abhi's Love that needs to teach her that life is always not about living for other...that its not about sacrificing one's own happiness for others's sake and at times it is important to stand for oneself. But this is going to take a little more time. It's not been very long that they have got into a relationship and it is yet not fully developed. Yes, they have just accepted that they love each other but they are yet to experience each other in day to day life. I mean, with the present circumstances only, Abhi will come to know that to what extent Simmi can go for the sake of her family and Similarly Simmi will come to know that Abhi might look kidish but is not and is very dedicated and determined towards his love and perfectly knows what he wants from his life.

Originally posted by: JayaV

i agree but i never said i support simi .... just kept my thoughts in post ........

iam not a CV of KB to be giving excuses as i dont have a master mind like them , but i can try to think in their ways and i did think and said all that besides if i was CV simi would never been so like her and neetu would have never misunderstood simi forget going for blood .....

Originally posted by: JayaV

iam not a CV of KB to be giving excuses as i dont have a master mind like them , but i can try to think in their ways and i did think and said all that besides if i was CV simi would never been so like her and neetu would have never misunderstood simi forget going for blood .....

iam just playing along but i do see -ve sides of each character of this show