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Malini

@Rumii

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

I had already added posts about Rajinder Sethi being toooooooooooo strict with Anuj{GOOD PAREiNTING?I}..... now it's Simmi's turn.... MANY people on this forum have been ALL PRAISES FOR RAJINDER...... WAH,What a man of Principles that he kicked his son out👏{I agreed n still agree that Anuj had comitted a Crime but that was not a MATURED PARENTAL WAY to deal with that}.... I JUst hate the look on his face he gives😡 with big eyeballs n a rough frown😵

And Is this the way a loving,sensitive Father deals with his daughter's case? SIMMI HAS COMMITTED NO CRIME,RIGHT?????????????

Now look at Rajinder's response at something that his DEAREST DAUGHTER Simmo has done.... He didn't even Bother to look for her..!!!!!😲 THIS MUST BE OnE OF RAJINDER's many fantastic Parenting skills/ways?!😲 What say Rajinder Fans????????????????????????????????????????

On the contrary,ManjuJi might be very Partial towards ANUJ as he is her ONLY SON Buyt she is ALSO CONCERNED about her daughters!!!!! She got the same 'shock' as Rajinder But she DID NOT LOSE HER SENSES so much as to HATE her own child!!!!!!!

Simmo might have done something that hasn't made her parents very happy or proud but ManjuJi is franatically wishing to see her daughter back!!

I like ManjuJi muuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuch better than a father like Rajinder who's an EXTREME

character!!!!

THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH IMPULSIVE,Hot Tempered People like Rajinder...... They Can NEVER EVER be Good Parents!! Parenting means Thinking n Acting according to situation...... even if Rajinder's angry/shocked,he could look for Simmi,made sure she's alright n then he could've shown his anger!!!!! The issue could've been dealt with later??!!BUT LOOK AT HIM..... His young daughter's wandering on the streets ,unsafe..... and he's not even letting other people look for her..... WAAH😲!!!!!

My perception for Rajinder's character was Not very wrong!!!!!

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Ganga

@Avatarana09

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

Both are not good parents.Both of them have not taught their children self respect.In a way they are responsible for their children's fate.

Father expecting his educated son to take up his cloth business and being very strict. This bias forces the mother to pamper him by all means.

Mother is abusive towards Simi, always doubting Neetu, asking Mili to shut up when she speaks her mind.

Result is Simi lacks self confidence. She is never speaking her heart.

Anuj turns selfish, finds an easy solution out to rise above the middle class tag by choosing a rich girl as wife.

Neetu does not realise facts and is always day dreaming. She has not been given the necessary mental capability earlier to understand the risk of love, pregnancy, if not she wont be in this mess.

Parents have not encouraged the children to discuss their problems. Otherwise by now either Simi or Neetu should have confided in them.

Currently an exception is Mili. Rare finds are always around.

An impulsive father, biased mother.

What else can we expect.

But an exception is Abhi. In spite of indifferent parents and sister, he is a confident young man, helpful, caring, mature, cool, confident and persevering.

Wish Abhi had given the father one deserving knock on his head (of course with the hand he is not hurt) before he started his hard hitting( to an otherwise normal hearted) statements

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ramas

@ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree Both are wrong as parents and both are at one extreme or other and blind in love. manju is more blind though.

They trust their children too much and have too many restrictions. Both too mcuh freedom or too much restrictions are bad.

Most of all they change theri mind each day and give no chance to explain.

most parents ask children they dud something tor not nd why?

they don't beleive others and accuse. RS lost my faith. I mean there is nothing like perfect parenting. But any situation should be handled carefully. you always trust your children over others.

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Tas

@Tas

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

RS is a very good father and at5 the same time i will never question parental skills of manjuji coz no parent will anytime want bad of their children...bt the point is anuj did wrong so RS was angry with him..bt manju supported his wrong deeds..and now though i agree i love abhi-simi jodi bt if we see it frm the point of view of a parent thn any father wld react the way RS is doing right now...he will obviously be furious..bcoz they way anita brought out everything in a dirty manner has spoilt the situation...RS always believed in simi..bt she didnt tell him abt abhi..her biggest mistake was to stop abhi frm asking her hand from RS..if she wldnt have dojne tht abhi wld have calmly talked with RS and he wld have agreed..bt now in everyones eyes simi-abhi r wrong...so we cant blameRS for it...whn children suddenly get a boy/girl and declare this is our life partner..it is a shock for the parents...mainly whn there r religious issues involved..and here the age facto is a sensitive issue...so RS is reacting as per the situation....and manjuji loves her children..all of thm..i agree..bt at the same time we cant forget tht she cares for the society equally..and this time too she is more worried abt wht will the society say if they come to knw abt this coz of anita who is putting all tht rubbish thoughts in her mind............ 😡

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

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+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: iamindian
I had already added posts about Rajinder Sethi being toooooooooooo strict with Anuj{GOOD PAREiNTING?I}..... now it's Simmi's turn.... MANY people on this forum have been ALL PRAISES FOR RAJINDER...... WAH,What a man of Principles that he kicked his son out👏{I agreed n still agree that Anuj had comitted a Crime but that was not a MATURED PARENTAL WAY to deal with that}.... I JUst hate the look on his face he gives😡 with big eyeballs n a rough frown😵
And Is this the way a loving,sensitive Father deals with his daughter's case? SIMMI HAS COMMITTED NO CRIME,RIGHT?????????????

Now look at Rajinder's response at something that his DEAREST DAUGHTER Simmo has done.... He didn't even Bother to look for her..!!!!!😲 THIS MUST BE OnE OF RAJINDER's many fantastic Parenting skills/ways?!😲 What say Rajinder Fans????????????????????????????????????????

On the contrary,ManjuJi might be very Partial towards ANUJ as he is her ONLY SON Buyt she is ALSO CONCERNED about her daughters!!!!! She got the same 'shock' as Rajinder But she DID NOT LOSE HER SENSES so much as to HATE her own child!!!!!!!

Simmo might have done something that hasn't made her parents very happy or proud but ManjuJi is franatically wishing to see her daughter back!!

I like ManjuJi muuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuch better than a father like Rajinder who's an EXTREME

character!!!!

THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH IMPULSIVE,Hot Tempered People like Rajinder...... They Can NEVER EVER be Good Parents!! Parenting means Thinking n Acting according to situation...... even if Rajinder's angry/shocked,he could look for Simmi,made sure she's alright n then he could've shown his anger!!!!! The issue could've been dealt with later??!!BUT LOOK AT HIM..... His young daughter's wandering on the streets ,unsafe..... and he's not even letting other people look for her..... WAAH😲!!!!!
My perception for Rajinder's character was Not very wrong!!!!!

I am amazed at how you are able to draw connections between actions and situations and come up with such perpostrous notions. While I agree RS has behaved incorrectly by not giving Simi a chance to explain herself, and then abandoned her after she was insulted by Anita, that does not discount the way he behaved with Anuj. I still stand behind his actions and agree that Anuj should have been removed from the house for stealing the FD, failing to admit it, failing to return the money and allowing himself to be a Anita's puppet especially since she still hasn't had sex with him (Anuj).

Also Manju's sudden conern about Simi doesn't make her a better mother; she still focused getting her daughters married to the extent that she continally demans Simi and expects her to marry someone of her choice. Manju also insulted Abhi; she failed to give him a chance to speak, accused him at a moment's notice.

I still side with RS as a better father than Manuju as a mother.

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ssree

@ssree

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

Even I woldnt blame RS for what he has done . he was quiet shocked when he came to know about simi and abhis relation. any fahter would, especially he kept on asking her , and she never told him. simi is his favourite daughter amongst his kids, and she never told him any thing, and suddenly when u hear about that person from some one ( third party ) , one will naturally be shocked.

agreed RS did not give simi a chance to explain. which he should have done.

About manju I have no words for her. I wont say she is a perfect mother . She only wants her son always with her . she is worried as to what the society will say, their name will get spoilt. when u r daughter is missing, at that time who will think about the family, but every one should go in search of her.

As of now i find RS ok , but later on now idea how the creatives will make out of him.

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