Originally posted by: iamindian
It really depends on how much you trust your partner and how he would be there for you and your sister. In some cases it is best not to discuss anything, but in some instances, you can and it's sometimes good for everyone. It is not clear if Simi wants to tell or if she is just shown to have something on her mind everytime she talks with Abhi.
Actually TRUSt in between husband and wife also has/should have it's limits..... I mean as long as you don't Do something that might hurt your husband or you're Cheating on him..it should be enough;as long as it's YOUR details you can share ..... trusting or loving doesn't mean You HAVE TO OPEN ALL PAGES of your FAMILY MEMBERS' LIVES ,otherwise it means that you Don't Trust oR love your Wife/Husband😲..!!
Every relation needs a li'l SPACE in between and I strongly believe that even a Husband-wife's relation has/should have some space.....and that's very much necessary to maintain each other's dignity,importance n required privacy🤓!!
After all can a woman share the crude details of her parents' divorce with her husband? Or can a Man REALLY 'share' the raw facts with his Wife of his mother going through physical abuse in his father's hands?? 😕There''s a Very important Word called SHAME that we all care about a lot as we do care about Family Prestige!! So,Sharing facts also have a limit..!😲
Iamindian, you can share many things with your spouse if you are close friends😊 You will be surprised. Plus there is nothing to be ashamed about when you share these things. I have a friend who shared her mother's abuse with her husband, her father's alcoholism and her own physical, verbal abuse by her own father. She told him many things over time. He's very loyal and supportive to her. In relation to Abhi and Simi, Abhi was very private regarding what happened to Simi with Rajeev Bhala. It was only after she signed the affidavit and the family knew did he talk about it He respected her privacy; he always has respected it. Even the conversation he overheard between Simi and her mother. Abhi knows what Simi is going through; he knows her better than anyone.
Of course Simi is embarassed about what her sister has done; but if you love and trust the man with whom you are going to spend the rest of your life, you can tell him things. If you can't share your most intimate details of your life something is definately wrong with your marriage.
I don't know if you are married, or if you have ever been in a relationship, but it can happen and I have seen it.
