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Rajinder Sethi is a Very Impulsive Man n he behaves very unpredicatbly:_
I do remember the ashirvad event when Anita refused to touch Anuj's Mother's feet n ManjuJi was Upset,then Rajinder Sethi had explained ManjiJi that they need to ADJUST with the new generation ,they need to Prove Themselves etc etc......... But what happened on 1st Dec Episode...is not according to what Rajinder Sethi had told his wife...........he seems to be AFTER HIS SON nowadays😲!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Everybody knows the house belongs to Rajinder Sethi.....but can just a 'builiding' belonging to a person called a house..????????????A house,better called a home is in sharing it for n with your loving ones😲...........
but I found Rajinder quite unreasonable with Anuj....he is behaving rather Impatiently with his Newly married son... Anuj n Anita need some time to get adjusted to this New life.... Anita's from a totally different atmosphere n she has some basic needs..why did Rajinder compare Anita with Manju..? Was Manju from a similar family?? Manju might have needed or added something that her Mother-in-law did not need or have..like our grandparents did not have refridgerators in their times but Ranijder-Manju has it..right??And to be practical, nowadays households have many such appliances that our Mothers n Grandmothers did not even Need but that doesn't mean those are troubles!😲 It might be that anita's parents have gifted the items but again..it's just her Parents.....if Anita is expected to consider n love her in-laws as her parents why can't Anuj be expected to do the same???????????????😕
I did not find Rajinder's ultimatum to Anuj the action of a very understanding, mature father..!! He could've let anuj know that 'You ask your wife to adjust with minimum changes' but NO CHANGES WILL BE TOLERATED.. STAY OR GO😡 Wasn't a Bit too Much..??
Whatever Rajinder Sethi is doing is NOT RIGHT.. He should understand his son & Bahu and try to keep good relations with them..for his n his old wife's sake😕 as they're not going to be strong n young forever..then they'll need the support of their Children.. and what more can you expect if you,yourself preach n practice a lesson of Intolerance n Rudeness???????
I know one family where the SOn had to leave the father's house with his wife as the father would not allow him to make minor changes as installing Air Conditioner,Microwave etc etc and after just 2 years the stubborn Old Man is lonely(his wife died in this period) and now he's living with that Son of his whom he had Droven out!!!!!
BOTTOMLINE IS THAT BOTH THE GENERATIONS NEED TO BE EMPATHETIC N TOLERANT TOWARDS EACH OTHER BECAUSE BOTH THE GENERATIONS NEED EACH OTHER!
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