Software Symphonies 5--Spice Route on 148 - Page 12

I agree with you about some of the things regarding appa point of view. II did not lie, she did not inform that R&B came to see her but on the same if she wanted to lie or hide, she won't come home with him.😭

There is huge socio-economic difference between the families for sure and it will make any parent nervous about it. Especially when Bhallas are crme de la crme of the society. They are page 3 types agree, but still they are people, just because there is private affairs becomes public, we as outsiders have no right to judge. Look at Appa's brothers, they don't care about perri appa at all. Now that be judged too. He is still thinking about his good for nothing sisters. (Appa's thoughts). We as people are way to concerned about the society norms etc. We are judging people based on are our pre-convinced notions. Appa thinks R&B will run to Paris after he is bored of II. Here is another insight, we can't guarantee anyone's fidelity. When parents make a call about shaadi, we all feel comfortable as we feel they have done their due-diligence. But then again, why there is so much abuse of women in the society.

Family dynamics is different in every house, Subbu was perfect on the surface but he was not a man enough to stand against his mother and believed that his kids could have special needs as it runs in II family, (dumbass). Sree was nice, but had OCDC about cleaning(I am making that up🤣) and II would have dominated him. "Sometimes ignorance is a bliss" things could have worked with Sree if she had not met R&B had she not experienced the touch of live-wire.😳

Chacha and party will be typical show off family that she is going to anger both II & appa. Even R&B doesn't like them, he has already called him a scumbag. As I said before we think too much about the XYZ people in our life, who have no relevance in our day to day life. We just meet & greet them on weddings & funeral. I hope Nisha you are able to show who the core family is. And not give importance to all the faltu people. Maybe R&B will take a stand say something to his Chachu and is listened by appa, who will let go of his prejudice against him. Appa is logical person, though ruled by norms (people of that age are) but will have a glimpse of the caring R&B. I don't want to see my hero in a bad lights.

Flaws I can take but no ego trips.

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

I'm still not sure if he loves her you know. I know he really cares about her but he's just so nonchalant about everything! I don't think he takes the concept of marriage or love that seriously. I just can't eliminate the thought that if anything went wrong between them and the marriage never happened, he'd just be able to go away and move on. II will be devastated and miserable without him but I don't think the reverse is true.

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

It was serious😕

How much more serious can it get, she told him whats important to her he gave her a glimpse of what he thinks of his Dad's business... is se zyaada kya baat karenge yaar.

They are in courtship, nahi?

When u are married 10 or 20 years ALL u do is TALK😆

Not when your wedding is three weeks away

Sorry! Thats how I see it... let them float into the wedding and live in la la land for a few months uske baad they can figure out how insane they were for doing this😆

Ranjan has found someone to talk to... From II pov, hone wale fil hai,...you like it or not, your fianc likes it or not, by common etiquette rules that apply, you will hear the man out.

and the fact that II has the liberty to take an unbiased approach helps his cause.

For us readers, this is the only window to Ranjan that we have;

It's pretty evident that Ranjan was perhaps framed and will eventually be acquitted of the scandal. But what will be mighty interesting is how R&B will ride through that tide; surely a tremendous amount of self-introspection will be in play.

Cushion Play - Clearly II has a lot of learning to do😆

R&B and Chocolates - a huge tick to R&B courtship skills 😉