Family Sabse Important Hai-Ruhi Birla

What a joke! Family like Goenkas who is afraid of Ruhi's tantrums & suicidal attempts is important for her? If Akshara caused Arohi's accident (which she didn't obviously) was that intentional to loathe her and punish her for a lifetime? Akshara was also a part of her family. Even if she couldn't forgive Akshara the way Naira-Naksh forgave Mansi for their mother's accident how can she disallow or emotionally blackmail others not to remember Akshara? After separating Goenkas from their granddaughter till her last breath she shamelessly claims that family matters to her the most. Manish is her family but when he wanted to celebrate Akshara's birthday by forgiving her, she created havoc because for Ruhi her pain matters the most not Manish's longing for his granddaughter. Does her behaviour in any way, signify that family or their happiness matters, to her?

She considers Poddars her family as that's what she makes Vidya believe on multiple occasions, so why does she hide the reason behind marrying Rohit? If the family must know about Charu's secret affair they must also know about Ruhi's intentions & her secretly doing couple rituals for their already married son Armaan. What applies to others should apply to her being a part of the family. Vidya is her new puppet beside Armaan whom she controls through her sob story regarding matashree and how important family is to her (which her twisted brain thinks is true). If Vidya is family and she matters then her grief of losing her son also matters or Ruhi's grief of losing her mother is only important? Can she come clean with Vidya about how she married Rohit but loved Armaan despite being Rohit's wife? Rohit is a nobody for her even after being her husband or a part of Poddar family. Won't family be hurt after knowing about Ruhi's manipulations? After destroying two families (Goenkas and Poddars) she kept lecturing Abhira regarding family. Ruhi doesn't have an iota of guilt or self-realization. Her only goal in life is to become Mrs. Armaan Podar. A little manipulation and sob stories here and there forgetting the existence of a life she destroyed (Rohit's life) holding a lifetime grudge against someone who supposedly destroyed her life. No wonder she is a cunning and manipulative vamp who will be whitewashed only because she is FL's sister. 

Ruhi isn't a mentally stable fictional character. Her vulnerable side isn't at all connectable as it's all about the trauma of convenience and manipulation. Writers are trying to show her trauma drama is the reason behind her twisted sense of love, obsessiveness & lack of self-worth to leave room for whitewashing the way they left the scope of whitewashing for Arohi even after medical malpractice & jeopardizing a child's life (Arohi's profession was mentioned in the episode).

Edited by ShadowImbue - 27 days ago

Each member of Kalavati’s clan gets more negative as the lineage continues.

Sirat (jaise bhi thi) was positive 

Aarohi was grey shaded (but turned positive later)

And then there’s Roohi who is downright negative (post her replacement)

Roohi has a trait from all her ancestors. She is crafty and manipulative like her Mahaparnani. She is evil and selfish like her Parnani. She is a two timing cheater like her Nani. However she is career oriented and ambitious like her mother.

One can only hope that she turns positive and becomes a good human being in the future (after becoming a mother like her MAA) well as long as the surrogacy track isn’t copied.

Edited by Criticiser - 27 days ago

I'm gonna repost what I wrote from the EDT:

"Parivar is everything". The greatest lie ever told by Ruhi Birla. Today she actually faulted her mother for being a career woman and that too a doctor.

Who is Ruhi Birla to to degrade her mother's hard earned skills? She herself is 12th grade pass homewrecker who has absolutely zero knowledge of what hard work even means? She worked thru nepotistic means. "I got job offers from so many places" as if anyone would hire her for her lack of skills. Throughout the show, this bina degree ka doctor was conjuring treatments out of her bum.

And besides she only knows how to take the easy way out, even for her tru lub. She didn't have the guts to fight for Ar and ruined his brother's life (and even ultimately proving herself to be the biggest panauti). She demeans Ab and belittles her when she can't even be even one iota courageous to tell the Pooddars that she loves her dead husbands elder brother.

Gawd, this jahil woman who disrespected her mother, even abandoned the Goenkas. Those immortal trio are freaking elderly and they need her to take care of them, but she is sitting rent-free in Pooddars house just so she can become Ar's wife. P A T H E T I C.

edited for Gen 3 comparison

Edited by LizzieBennet - 26 days ago

Exactly!!You have put up everything so well ! It’s a shame that a women who made Vidya’s son run away  and die for her selfish reasons (to stay near her jeth) is talking about family and family values. she doesn’t have guts to disclose why she married Rohit and why he left the house, she is such a cheap and characterless women who imagined  her jeth when her husband is hugging her from back side 🤮 she is the worst character  and a vamp in all 4 seasons.

She doesn’t even care for Goenka’s anymore , she is too selfish to say that she never wanted to go back to them just because she wants to stay with her 2 min noodles and have EMA with him . She forgot how Goenka’s gave her their life and blood for bringing her up when everyone else abandoned her.She made Goenka’s  leave their only grand  daughter who was pregnant. Now she left them too. The turmoil is happening in PH Only because of this selfish women the way she disclosed Charu’s truth broke everyone. 

  She knows how much Abhria craves for a family and how she lost her mom just because of Armaan but still she wants Abhira to leave the house so she can achieve her only life goal to be Mrs.Ruhi Armaan Poddar. She is busy manipulating Vidya , Dragonsa. 

Originally posted by: Criticiser

Each member of Kalavati’s clan gets more negative as the lineage continues.

Sirat (jaise bhi thi) was positive 

Aarohi was grey shaded (but turned positive later)

And then there’s Roohi who is downright negative (post her replacement)

Roohi has a trait from all her ancestors. She is crafty and manipulative like her Mahaparnani. She is evil and selfish like her Parnani. She is a two timing cheater like her Nani. However she is career oriented and ambitious like her mother.

She carries traits from all of them. Her mother was redeemed after the loss of her husband. How will she be redeemed?

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

She carries traits from all of them. Her mother was redeemed after the loss of her husband. How will she be redeemed?

Maybe she’ll move on with Rohit (if he ever returns) or they’ll whitewash her and then kill her after she becomes a mother. Her character in Ghum was never redeemed and just ran away so don’t know if they’ll do the same here.

Family ki important sirf ruhi dadi sa and fufa sa ko pta h 

Originally posted by: bangtanARMY

I'm gonna repost what I wrote from the EDT:

"Parivar is everything". The greatest lie ever told by Ruhi Birla. Today she actually faulted her mother for being a career woman and that too a doctor.

Who is Ruhi Birla to to degrade her mother's hard earned skills? She herself is 12th grade pass homewrecker who has absolutely zero knowledge of what hard work even means? Just like her uncle, she worked thru nepotistic means. "I got job offers from so many places" as if anyone would hire her for her lack of skills. Throughout the show, this bina degree ka doctor was conjuring treatments out of her bum.

And besides she only knows how to take the easy way out, even for her tru lub. She didn't have the guts to fight for Ar and ruined his brother's life (and even ultimately proving herself to be the biggest panauti). She demeans Ab and belittles her when she can't even be even one iota courageous to tell the Pooddars that she loves her dead husbands elder brother.

Gawd, this jahil woman who disrespected her mother, even abandoned the Goenkas. Those immortal trio are freaking elderly and they need her to take care of them, but she is sitting rent-free in Pooddars house just so she can become Ar's wife. P A T H E T I C.

Oh god 

Originally posted by: Supervampire

Family ki important sirf ruhi dadi sa and fufa sa ko pta h 

Why can’t Poo-Pa Sa go back to his own phemli? The guy who abandoned his own family and stays in his sasural is not one to talk.

Originally posted by: bangtanARMY

I'm gonna repost what I wrote from the EDT:

"Parivar is everything". The greatest lie ever told by Ruhi Birla. Today she actually faulted her mother for being a career woman and that too a doctor.

Who is Ruhi Birla to to degrade her mother's hard earned skills? She herself is 12th grade pass homewrecker who has absolutely zero knowledge of what hard work even means? Just like her uncle, she worked thru nepotistic means. "I got job offers from so many places" as if anyone would hire her for her lack of skills. Throughout the show, this bina degree ka doctor was conjuring treatments out of her bum.

And besides she only knows how to take the easy way out, even for her tru lub. She didn't have the guts to fight for Ar and ruined his brother's life (and even ultimately proving herself to be the biggest panauti). She demeans Ab and belittles her when she can't even be even one iota courageous to tell the Pooddars that she loves her dead husbands elder brother.

Gawd, this jahil woman who disrespected her mother, even abandoned the Goenkas. Those immortal trio are freaking elderly and they need her to take care of them, but she is sitting rent-free in Pooddars house just so she can become Ar's wife. P A T H E T I C.

In actuality she thinks being employed by family members means spending more time with family which isn't true. Workplace and home are two different places. Working somewhere else doesn't mean a person doesn't value family or spends less time with family or is at risk of unforeseen actions. Plus her mother didn't disappear from her workplace as she revealed to Vidya "one day she went to work and didn't come back" this whole situation/scenario is false.