Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312
Obsession has many forms and Anuj's love has to lean a little towards obsession that's the back story the makers decided to go with when they made him declare how he has loved Anupama for 26 years despite having no contact with her in those years, except for glimpses and possible updates from Devika. That's not normal, although when he was first introduced, these deep desire never crossed boundaries to make Anupama uncomfortable. it's just my take on the backstory of Anuj. But in any case I agree that the show has lost its charm (because of the FL's nonsensical/shameless karname.)
Honestly this entire America track was introduced so makers could whitewash Anupama and turn the story around to make Anuj the villain in all of it.
So they take Shruti, make her a nice, sensible woman, who takes care of his kid and is wiling to accept his past and then show Anuj day dreaming about Anupama all the time when he's around her. A plot to justify Anupama's own action during the Maan marriage where she was doing the same thing, except in her case it was less day dreaming more straight up showing at SH and then talking about SH once she's back in Kapadia Mansion.
Not to mention the brilliant master stroke of KM becoming Pakhi's 'sasural' I am pretty sure its not sasural if your mother's right there in front of you, defending all your nonsense. Matlab BB ko kabhi bhi respect di hai Pakhi ne as the woman raised Adhik, was his sister/mother both?
All trouble was invited by Anupama, AB and BB were leaving but she asked them to stay on. Only to turn around and disrespect them at every turn. BB wasn't the nicest woman in the world but she was damn sensible who always understood the underlying intentions of the Shahs and was on point whenever she opened her mouth about it. Wasn't she elder to Anupama? Where were Anupama's 'sanskar' then? Why no respect to BB or AB for that matter as the elders of the house?
Then Anupama lets Maya stay on. Makes a bet over a living child (disgusting in my opinion) In sab me Anuj ko bolne hi kaha diya isne. Anuj kuch bole toh panic attack, drama, pallu se aankh, naak, kaan pahuchna etc. All emotional blackmailing.
Then she let a kid believe she was the cause of the fights between Maan so she should just get out of their life. And stans still have the audacity to say she was a good mother, that she did her best. No she did not! If she had, she would have never let CA leave, she would have told Anuj what CA thought, but usse toh uski biggest achievement Maa hu ne pe question uth jata na. Toh dedh shaani ne kuch nahi bola.
I don't blame Anuj for choosing his kid over a toxic woman who was forcing him to be okay with his kid leaving with another woman. The next track was again an attempt by the writers to justify Anupama's actions by showing Anuj as the villain, making it appear as if he cheated on her with Maya. They think we somehow are going to forget how Anupama spent 90% of her time with her ex-husband and continued to do so in Anuj's absence. Muh se Vanraj se bolegi duur raho but khud SH me hi padi rahegi.
Anuj should have put his foot down, but I feel somewhere he was always worried that making Anupama choose between the Shahs and him would end in him losing her. And he was not wrong, the moment he decided to voice how he really felt, Anupama packed her bags and just left him hanging,
The problem has been and continues to be Anupama. She is unwilling to let go of the past, to acknowledge her own unhealthy obsession with Shahs, to actually attempt to move on in life. Matlab ek baat hoti hai, ki appko khud hi dal dal me pade rehna toh Bhagwan bhi phir kya kare?
Anupama could have been a queen, instead she continues to be a maid, all by her own free will. What even is the point of watching this show anymore?
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