To those who wonder why so many people dislike Anupamaa...

The show was advertised as the journey of empowerment of a woman trapped in an abusive family who fights her way successfully out of the societal cage imprisoning her. The claim was that the tale would be refreshingly progressive and feminist.

Everyone here was rooting for it at the beginning and wanted Anupamaa to succeed in this journey.

However what they actually showed was a woman who is extremely regressive in many ways who actively chooses to stay in the cage even when someone turns up to open its door. A woman who is offered a thousand opportunities to bring her projects to life but abandons every single one of them within a few days/weeks. A woman who is given second and third and fourth chances to step forward in life and build something strong and beautiful but chooses to take these chances for granted and let them slip away. A woman who forgets to care for her current family because she is still living in her past. A woman who despite all her privileges always sees herself as a victim. A woman who loves lecturing others about how an ideal person/husband/wife/child/etc should behave while she fails to hold herself to the same standards or listen to others' points of view. A woman who doesn't understand or respect boundaries.

None of this is feminist or progressive. Empty baashans cannot make up for a badly written character who is repeatedly the cause of her own misfortune and never seems to learn from her mistakes. Instead of character growth we only see the character declining and becoming worse with each episode.

The people who dislike the character now actually do so because they are disappointed at how the makers have spoilt such a good chance at portraying something constructive and revolutionary on screen. Now this serial is indistinguishable from any of the hundred other rubbish serials on TV.

This is why all the care has turned to ridicule. The audience does not appreciate false claims or being taken for granted for TRPs and money.

In short Upma is a ⬇️ who no one likes

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You nailed it. Just want to add that the other shows don't go around claiming to be an example of women empowerment and what not. Moreover, here thoo thoo shahis preach and show the exact opposite with glee and zero shame. Their ego will be their undoing

People still wonder why we hate Maa? Like seriously? Show nahi dekhte kya?🙄

Like karne layak kyu hai us aurat me

Mujhe to wo aurat nahi pagal khane se nikli huyi chudail lagti hai

Vampire se bhi zyada khoon choosti hai ye pama

Lecturer of college bhi iske aage fail hai

Ye to ek poori gyaan ki book likh sakti hai lekin log usko padh ke gyani nahi shahi ho jayenge

And yes

The story line is all about SHAH because producer is himself rajan SHAHeeee

Exclusive only here people dislike hate anupama so much

Other wise in other place there is not so much hate .for anupama instead they are calling out anuj to yeh tha anuj ka 26 year ka pyaar Jo choti ke liye anupama ko chod Diya .h?ow easily he move on

According to you Anuj should have not left Anupama ( which he didn’t this time she left herself).

What was Anuj supposed to do that time. Just remembered he didn’t blame Anupama for accident or for saving her last in there conversation.

What Anuj said wrong that day. If you are saying that Anuj was wrong than you should also know the exact line which Anuj said wrong. Which triggered Anupama to leave.

The main reason why I dislike Anupama is,

she can't even stand for herself when her own kids (Pakhi and Paritosh) taunt her. In India, it's not the reality where maa would be tolerating all the abuses gives by the children. I mean, she doesn't hold any authority in correcting their mistakes or pointing it out. She helps them to develop such bad habits.

I really, totally don't like Anupama. First of all, she does not listen to anyone other than V. So many times, Anuj told her to keep the distance between Shah, even MD told her, Devika advised but she does not hear. When V blocked her from totally, she agreed. Even I don't lke Baa but many times she advised don't keep Maya and MD in her house, but she did not care. Even Romil told MD is upto something, be careful, no, she did not care. She herself villian for her life and spoiled everybody's life.