Abuse when alive shed tears when dead

I am confused about vanraj tears for winter 

When Samar was alive this vanraj called him nacahniya and what not humiliated him as uneducated treated him as filth hated him for supporting anupama etc 

Now suddenly hes found love for Samar after death and shedding tears(which are crocodile) 

Does vanraj really love him?

When alive you abuse than shed crodile tears after death 

I do not believe vanraj loves samar 

If vanraj truly loved samar he would treat him nicely last 25 years 

Only after anupama married and left hes treated him a bit better 

Was vanraj angry on samar for supporting anupama all life? 

Or was he angry on samar because he was not educated as toshu 

Anupama herself never supported samar when abused by vanraj or made fun by toshu and pakhi 

Anupama now i think is no damsel in distress ever, shes used samar, devika, kanta, anuj, malvika etc to fight for her while she herself looks good in vanraj, baa, toshu, pakhi eyes

Anupam appears more manipulative than vanraj or baa as a character now shes cleverly used others to fight for her rights than abondoned them or refused to acknowledge them and herself become saint in her abusers eyes 

Shes conveniently abandoned samar kanta mukku or anuj when she should have stood for them against vanraj baa toshu or shahs 

While fighting to give anupama rights samars relationship with vanraj, tosu, pakhi, baa have hit bottom and she conveniently abandoned him to his fate and walked off with anuj 

Same she did for kinjal and kavya and devika and mukku too who have supported her against vanraj and baa going against shahs shes just forgotten them or abondoned them when she should have stood for them 

Shes betrayed anuj, ankush, adhik too at various times anuj the most although they all have spoken up for her helped her at various times against shahs 

What matters most to anupama is she must look good in vanraj, baa, bapuji, toshu and pakhi eyes rest all bhad mein jaye includes anuj her current pati 

You are right. It doesn't seem believable in the slightest and what it actually is..... Yet another desperate attempt by Rajan TamaShahi to prop his protagonist Vanraj at the cost of everything else. Maybe he relates too much with this character for reasons that can only be speculated and hence repeated coats of whitewash are applied regularly. 

However, people still know that Vanraj is a jerk and will always remain one. The difference between the past and the present is that now Anupamaa is also the same as him 

Because dkp wants to ww vanraj

Samar was still his child, no matter how he treated him he would mourn the loss…itna bhi heartless nahi hai Vannu yaar…