What will Sai do if Vinu gets affected by Patralekhas departure? - Page 3

Originally posted by: looseseal

She didn't marry Satya to fix his family. For that staying away from Virat would have been enough. Thats excatly what she was doing. Leaving the house and the town. There was no talk of her marrying Satya or anyone for Vinu, and  until Virat went full blown crazy, would not stop following her, locking her up. She married to stop getting harassed by Virat....honestly it seems to have worked.

Thats how it happened on the show., right? Unless I watched the show on wrong chronology....

Problem is.. how dare the FL remarry a respectful man. She should have considered loser ex's proposal as the biggest blessing for her, remarried him, looked after the children and his toxic family while he played dosti with ex-bhabhi/ ex-biwi/ permanent dost and pyari cheez. 🤪 Since she didn't do all this, now shame her for every single thing and label her as a wrong mother.

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

This like men get to put there last name at the end of the kids

While they do nothing to bring up the said child just sit at the side and criticize the mother on her upbringing 

Our society true color be showing 🤣

Yep after all the only purpose of a woman's existence is to put up with abusive husbands and take care of children. How dare any woman think of their self respect.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Yep after all the only purpose of a woman's existence is to put up with abusive husbands and take care of children. How dare any woman think of their self respect.

How dare women do anything 🤣

The fact that virat even said that words 

"Tumhari Himmat Kaisi Hui Mere Sath Aisa karne ki"

Women at all time be doormats too men around them 

Originally posted by: looseseal

Forget fixing Sai-Vinu relationship, forget guilt and regret, forget making up for past crimes. Sai se bache chinne ka toh hobby hi hai mahashaye ki  but..

He couldn't even allow his son to be happy with his adoptee mom. For us Pakhi is evil, but for Vinu and Virat she is Devi right? Even Sai had to give her fight for Vinu after seeign how attached Vinu is to Pakhi. But Virat gives a damn about his children. Vinu loves Pakhi and wants his samll happy family? Virat ko kya? Usko toh bas apni aaiyasi tru lou ki padi hai. 

Jis din mann kiya Sai ko nikaldiya, jis din man kiya Pakhi ko divorce diya and spineless POS doesn't even have the guts to talk to his partner any of the time....

Remember, Sai is selfish, immature, atleast 10 years younger (aadhi Umar ki) than her ex while the mature pati, who is so selfless just gets to self victimise and blame and drink when things don't go his way.

Originally posted by: nikita05

Remember, Sai is selfish, immature, atleast 10 years younger (aadhi Umar ki) than her ex while the mature pati, who is so selfless just gets to self victimise and blame and drink when things don't go his way.

While I have always wonder how did no one had problem with their age difference it's creepy

Age difference between couple are only acceptable when both are above 28+ 

Marrying a barely out of school teenager is soo gross 

Like ewwwwww itv is disgusting like that 

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

While I have always wonder how did no one had problem with their age difference it's creepy

Age difference between couple are only acceptable when both are above 28+ 

Marrying a barely out of school teenager is soo gross 

Like ewwwwww itv is disgusting like that 

Arrey dont worry. Virat reminded her everyday that was immature, her points weren't worth listening to and she was wrong by default and had to prove herself every time even though she was vindicated every single time. 

And also he tauhgt her how to be an obedient bahu, do ghar ka kaam kaaz, even if she was a med student, how to deal with abuse given by dil ke ache people... As an adult he gave her the real parvarish taht an anaath like her otherwise wouldnt have had.  

Originally posted by: janecastle

Problem is.. how dare the FL remarry a respectful man. She should have considered loser ex's proposal as the biggest blessing for her, remarried him, looked after the children and his toxic family while he played dosti with ex-bhabhi/ ex-biwi/ permanent dost and pyari cheez. 🤪 Since she didn't do all this, now shame her for every single thing and label her as a wrong mother.

Problem is not FL marrying a respectful man, problem is marrying into a family who has high hopes and who did not accepted her past and kids. Why sai needs to struggle again to convince and make everyone accept her and her kids. She has done this in her previous marriage too, she is young and alone at that time but now she is a mother of 2 kids and she doesn't need to convince and act like a new bahu when she is not happy with all these changes. If sai is very happy and if she really wants to move on then we all r happy for her. She needs happiness in her life too. Nobody wants to go back to a toxic family like Chavan's. But main thing is, is she happy with her decision???.

Originally posted by: looseseal

Arrey dont worry. Virat reminded her everyday that was immature, her points weren't worth listening to and she was wrong by default and had to prove herself every time even though she was vindicated every single time. 

And also he tauhgt her how to be an obedient bahu, do ghar ka kaam kaaz, even if she was a med student, how to deal with abuse given by dil ke ache people... As an adult he gave her the real parvarish taht an anaath like her otherwise wouldnt have had.  

This all sounds like grooming 🤢

He is such a trash  don't know how people didn't see when he is such big red flag from day 1 

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

This all sounds like grooming 🤢

He is such a trash  don't know how people didn't see when he is such big red flag from day 1 

Grooming? I think you mean farz nibhana, ehsaan karna on an anaath, true love....

Originally posted by: janecastle

Savi is Sai's responsibility, Vinu is Sai's responsibility. Wonder what Virat's role in all this. Just claim that he's father and do nothing. 🤪 Next people will say entire Nagpur is Sai's responsibility too. 🤪

To be honest, this question is raised only because sai, apparently, married literally a stranger to fulfil her son’s wish to preserve his family. Now that after her self-sacrifice the condition has still not changed, vinu’s make believe family has come undone.

 So the reason of her marriage has become inconsequential and has fallen into a trap herself from where there is no escape. If only she hasn’t been hasty she could have entered into a matrimonial alliance which wasn’t devoid of love and expectations. Instead, she is exactly where she was at the young age of 18, trapped in a relationship she did not want.