Thanks for sticking this thread (and asking for that) 😊
I got a solution to my dilemma and could watch the movie.
All the praise you can read here is justified (so I won't repeat it).
When I should give a subtitle to the movie than I would write:
"There are boundaries one should not cross."
Yes, there is romance (definitely not the usual one), there is revenge (though not one-sided), there is drama (you feel for Freddy) and it's a thriller (the second half...till the end)
And - like in Qala - something said by an adult overshadows the childhood of the protagonist (in Qala a woman, in Freddy a man) and that trauma determines the adult's life.
A dialogue I won't forget (subtitles):
She: You once said that I complete you.
He: It's only me who can complete me.
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