As we all know there was a show in 2017 which glorified marriage between a little boy and an adult woman called pehredar piya ki which was banned(thankfully).
Having a few things in mind I would like to state here my opinions on barrister babu. First of all, the situations in which the marriage happened made sense nd i understand why he married her. Second the relationship was platonic between them. And third obviously the different time period makes it different from ppk
1. But as I watched the show, the show at many times was pretty hypocritical. At one place they showed how child marriage was harmful to children on the other they glorified child marriage in many instances. I mean, the bond to me is not a problem when it's between two friends, between a mentor mentee. But they did show them as a couple, even though as a platonic couple in some instances. In short they glorified a platonic child marriage in many points. And the audience of the show were very supportive of it all. Were even protesting to make an adult call a girl child his wife. Also the romantic vms nd creepy fan fics nd all, the intent of the producer could be good or bad but the effect it had on people was problematic as hell. Specially the young people, believe or not it did influence people in a negative light. Maybe such a delicate topic for this reason should be a finite series not more than 100 episodes. And the worst part, not once did the writer/producer/director/adult cast of the show came forward to maybe address people that it isn't cool to ship neither anirudh bondita nor aurra pravi as both bondita and aurra as kids!!
2. And specifically the romantic relationship. People may say the romantic relationship between them is not problematic as it started when they were both adults.That's exactly the excuse ped****** use when they prey on kids. They choose their victim, a child and groom them into a relationship with themselves slowly and after they are off age pounce on them and romance them. It appears consensual but sadly it's not. Now it would only be ignorant to say that the feelings which came into bondita as an adult were harmless nd not problematic. Don't tell me if anirudh had taken her responsibility like a brother nd not a husband at the point nd then taught her, gave her wings, would she have still fallen for him? No. She would have seen him as nothing but a brother figure or most to most a friend but not a potential romantic mate she wants to marry. So is it not a problem? And anirudh?? How is it so easy that you mentor a child and fall in love with them when they're off age? And the way his feelings were shown, that confession in front of vaijanti when exactly did he fall in love with her? When the 12 year old went away from him? So the 22 year old fell for the 12 year old after he parted away from her was what he confessed to adult bondita. Infact he was seeing her as a potential mate. The romantic angle itself is problematic but the way it came makes it worse. This is potentially the definition of child grooming.
Now we know this is itv nd the clinched trope of romance was quite foreseen but does that make it non problematic? So my question is should shows like this even be made, specially on TV when trp can make people do anything? Nd did it do people any good? Max people never watched it for the social messages but for just the couple.
These are just my views on the show, if anyone wants to put out theirs please be respectful
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