Wow. EMA is glorified in the Hospital

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Posted: 2 years ago

Wow how EMA was justified today in the Fish Market opps I mean the Hospital, its sad and crazy.


Its now has become a pro and against EMA at the Hospital.


Biggest hypocrite today was Abhay, who is happy that Vikrant took a stand for his BF Deepika was so stupid. On the other hand he was so disrespectful to Aditi, the cheated Wife. Has he forgotten that his Mother too was rejected by his Father for his love, the 2nd Wife. Opps I forgot that he was fed the story by his Father and his Mother's cannot tell her story as She is ill and cannot remember and tell her side of the Story.

Easy for Abbay to take stand for BF Deepika, is there a hidden agenda here.


Sia and the other Doctor standing by Deepika, because they know her, but what about the Wife, no one has tought of her feelings.


Nurses should not bring there personal feelings on this topic at work, but should address it in private and not in the Hospital.

At least they are thinking of the Wife, that being the generation desi thinking that Marriage is for life.


Deepika should be professional infront of Patients and not  taking advice from Patients on EMA is a joke.


Aditi was emotional and got hurt today and is using this to try and bring Vikrant back to her is wrong and will backfire on her and bring more pain to her in the end. Looks like it going to be hard on her.


Vikrant needs to tell his Parents about this affair with Deepika and that he cannot force Divorce on Aditi, when it suits him especially after he moulded, Aditi into the Wife that he wanted and suddenly discover his love for Deepika.

Is He going to try and make Deepika like Aditi, who will do everything for him like Aditi did. Somehow I cannot see this happening and his 2nd Marriage could be a disaster as well. This was shown when he was staying with her, when he was recovering and expected Deepika to cook him Breakfast before She went to Work and also in the Evening when he expected her to arrive early and cook for him. Shock waiting for him in the future if he thinks that Deepika is going to be like Aditi and do everything for him


Deepika is open about her love for Vikrant and is willing to break his Marriage, after finding out from dodgy Vikrant about how  unhappy he is. When is She going to talk to Aditi and hear what She has to say about her Marriage. She does not have the guts to speak to Aditi and sort out this mess but instead is leaving it on Vikrant. Pathetic.


It was a joke today in the Hospital, it felt more like a Fish Market with EMA being justified by the Junior Doctors etc and it was not acceptable by the Nurses, who stood by the wronged wife.


It was a generation desi gap  showing of the older Nurses and homely Nurses standing for what Indian Marriages are about, warts and all.

The younger generation is more into Love and not into what is right and wrong in a Marriage etc.


Not sure where the Writers are going with this Story but it's not good to justify EMA this way, as its never acceptable when there is cheating involved.


What was the need to show how Deepika struggled to get where is today in a Male dominated Society, only than to show her as the other Woman, the home breaker, does not flow with Deepika's struggles.

Pathetic really for her to end up as the other Woman.


If She is desperate for his Love, what was the last 10 Years all about with her struggles and loss of her Family etc, what was the point if it all.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Personally, I believe if you fall in love with someone outside of marriage/relationship you should completely break off relations with the first person before pursuing the other person. That's why Abhay didn't cheat Sia. He had feelings, but he didn't pursue them, and when he realized that he couldn't get over Deepika then he confessed to Sia. Vikrant, on the other hand, manipulated his way into getting closer to Deepika. Even Abhay knew this and warned Deepika, although she didn't listen. People can debate the ethics of EMA all they want but the fact remains he's a cheater... We don't know exactly what went down with Girija/Vinayak because Girija can't tell her side. I call BS on Vinayak not abandoning Abhay though. Just because Girija said no you gave up on your child. We have courts and laws, if he really wanted he could've gotten visiting rights. He just didn't care. This show conveniently glorifies 'true love above all', ignoring that there are other aspects to life and if love is more destructive than fulfilling it's better to walk away. 


The nurses are wrong simply because they can't bring their personal opinions into the workplace (especially on some half-baked story), it's against the ethics of their workplace. Also, they shouldn't blame Deepika alone, Vikrant is equally to blame. The rest is natural that they would be more sympathetic towards Aditi based on what they heard. 

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Posted: 2 years ago

Ema is not glorified in the hospitals,  infact all are blaming deepika , only 3 of her friends or colleagues are supporting her. They are not asking her to pursue vikrant , but giving her emotional support when she is attacked from every side.About them not supporting aditi , why should they ? They only know her as wife of vikrant , who is In an estranged relationship,  who humiliated deepika along with his sister. 

When a problem happens , people will take sides , its their choice.The nurses, patients all are taking aditis side, it's only her 3 colleagues who are standing up for deepika .These nurses knew deepika since many years,  but even without knowing the full story they started moral policing.but do  they had guts to speak the same to vikrant also. But no , the underlying fact is that its the woman who is the enemy of woman In this patriarchal society. Those nurses who are flag bearers of traditional Indian ideal woman would have hated deepikas attitude since beginning and when they got an opportunity they are just rolling out their toxicity .

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Posted: 2 years ago

I sternly believe that Deepika is yet to learn a big lesson overflowingly  listening to her 'dil'...she is the most strong lady in terms of her profession with no doubt...she never ever compromised her profession nor patient's well being for personal feelings or weakness..and even vikrant vis also a good mentor and guide in professional life...and so are others too..


But in  personal level she is totally weak in name of 'first love'...kabhi toh lagta hai woh itni badi badi baatein cabin mein karti hai vikrant se...but if she gets Vikrant to him in her home she would loose that sternness easily and let vikrant make her dance in own motion ...which will be the biggest disaster if it happens so..and vikrant from personal level is too weak and confused to be called as a charachter...



Aaj jo bhi ho raha hai vikrant agar back out karke apna life lead karta yaa pehle woh aditi ko convince karta toh yeh mess hota hi nahi ...


In nutshell Vikrant and Deepika is too weak on personal level, they dont have control to themselves to stick on their decisions...