Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan
Parents don't force me but they would still suffer taunts from relatives which would make me feel guilty.
My friends and cousins... older, younger and even of my age have got or are getting confirmed. So yeah...it is a pressure, not direct but in an indirect way it is.
Well that's where I differ then. All my life I've been critical of God and religion. Getting confirmed would make feel like an opportunist and a hypocrite. And I would care even if nobody does. Like I would loose respect for myself if I do it.
If I were in your place, I would put my family's happiness above mine and for their sake get done with the ritual.
I would have to answer to my conscience later - you are right. But I would tell myself that I chose to prioritize my family's well-being and mental peace over my ego. And I can live with that.
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