Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza
No iam sure this new anupama will not tolerate kavya aur vee shit anymore she will fight back strongly
ya agree to stay in same roof even iam not liking
Yes, but there will be new drama everyday. Kavya vs. whole house. Anupama is going to be part of that drama and give lectures to Kavya. Why,just focus on your life. Why you want to do the moral policing everytime.
Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12
If you are saying Anupama ghar chodte tab Vanraj aur Kavya ko sab mil jata… It’s wrong… Vanraj always wanted to romance Kavya and someone like Anupama to take care of home… And now is that condition not the other way round…
Kisi ne yeh nahi kaha ki Anupama kyu chode… But Apne sautan ke saath ek roof main rehna is not even puke worthy…
And Kavya never wanted parivar she just wanted V… Parivaar ko toh voh tang karke bahar nikalne vale the vaise bhi…
Regarding Anupama cook nahi kare ya kare uske marzi hai and she can hire a maid that we know she will not do in her full life… 25 years itna I’ll treat hone ke baad bhi she was acting like maid toh ab toh sab usko pamper kar rahe hai toh ab toh vaise bhi karege… And no where is pachtava in anyone’s eyes… Baa Bapuji toshu and Pakhi ko pata hai Kavya Anupama nahi hai and na utna kaam karege na seva isliye voh Anupama ki side hai… true realisation kisi ka nahi dikhaya abhi tak… Baa toh mehandi pisvane waqt bhi taunt maar ke expect kar rahe the ki Anupama kar de… knowing ki uske sautan ki mehandi hai…
And now where we are saying ki bapuji ka gesture galat hai he is being progressive but Anupama ke Bhalla se zyada usne apna aur parivaar ka socha…
Agar usko bete manta toh he would have known ki bete ko sautan ke saath rakhna ek chat ke neeche sabse giri hue harkat hai… And bapuji always knew how Baa Tashu Pakhi and dolly treated her in these 25 years ab bhi vaise chal raha tha jab tak Kavya unke saath galat nahi behave kar rahe the… Apne bete ke alsi khushi dekhte toh usko jane dete ya kehte samne rehle but inn logo ke liye roka jo 25 saal toh value ki nahi ab kya karenge and bas khana bhi banane vale hai Anupama bhi yahi politics dikhayenge yeh log ab
I don’t know how can you say ki kundali maar ke baithna unke life main… but koi bhi ladki apne ex husband aur uske current wife ke saath nahi rehna chaiyege chahe kundali hi kyu na marne ho… there are other ways to torture them but sautan aur ex husband ke beech kundali maar ke baithna practically koi ladki nahi karege real life main…
And Anupama toh vaise hi mahan type dikhaye hai she would never thought about that….
And kisi ne Anupama ko bache and all chodne ko nahi kaha tha jab Samar Ana chahta tha she herself said no… jisko rehna tha voh Anupama ke saath samne vale ghar main reh sakta tha Anupama bhi toh mahan banke family tootne nahi chaiye samar ko mana kar dete hai… kisi ne nahi bola chodo but sautan ke saath rehna is so 🤢🤢
Kavya ka insecure hona yahan justified hoga because now she is the wife… and daughter in law of that house… koi bhi ladki yeh bardasht nahi kar sakte… jo cheez Anupama ko feel karne chaiye the 8-9 years voh usne ki nahi and usse ka nateeja hai… itna bhi impractical ya bharosa nahi dikhana chaiye tha Anupama ko… thode insecurity toh har kisi ko aate hai… so yahan pe ab Anupama royenge kisi cheez dekh kar ya I’ll treat hokar uske liye Bapuji and Anupama khud hi responsible honge… not the other way round… koi bhi ladki like nahi karege sautan saath rahe chahe Anupama ho ya kavya
And if this is the mentality of Indians that they are showing and if people are supporting this then I would say itna progressive India ho gaya hai toh slow clapssss 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Fir toh gharo main jhagde and all band ho jane chaiye and EMA ke baad sab sukhi parivaar bankar rahenge India main 🤣😝
Kavya ki soch ko dekh kar lagta hai ki usko bhi apne naye naye haqq ki zyada padi hai. Bapuji ne option diya that vanraj can leave and vanraj was ready to leave then why kavya stopped him?? Kavya vanraj chahe ghar mai rahe ya na rahe , vanraj ko already uska hissa to mil he gaya then why Kavya stopped vanraj????
Aisa to hai nahi ki Kavya ko anupama ke baccho se badi mamta hai isiliye ruk gayi yah baa bapujibse bada pyar hai isiliye ruk gayi. Haqq mil gaya na vanya ko? Toh ab wohi ghar mai rehne ki zidd kyun hai Kavya ki???
I am not at all in favour of divorcee woman stay under the same roof with ex-husband. BUT why this same rule is not applied to divorcee man?? He will also going to live with ex-wife under the same roof? That is also wrong na!! Second wife is also more interested in staying in the same house ! That is also wrong na!
Jaise anupama should not stay with ex-husband under the same roof waise he vanraj should not stay under the same roof in the pressure of so called second wife.
Kavya ko toh insecure hone ka bhi koi haqq nahi hai. Usko sab ne day 1 se bol diya tha that shaddi karna hai toh kari but we will not accept you and Kavya can’t force herself on everyone all the time. Kavya ko sirf uske and V ne accept kiya hai or kisi ne nahi so it was better for her to accept her V ‘s decision about leaving the house since hissa toh mil he gaya hai , an usi house mai rahe yah na rahe kya fark padta hai.
Originally posted by: sweet_tania
Kavya ki soch ko dekh kar lagta hai ki usko bhi apne naye naye haqq ki zyada padi hai. Bapuji ne option diya that vanraj can leave and vanraj was ready to leave then why kavya stopped him?? Kavya vanraj chahe ghar mai rahe ya na rahe , vanraj ko already uska hissa to mil he gaya then why Kavya stopped vanraj????
Aisa to hai nahi ki Kavya ko anupama ke baccho se badi mamta hai isiliye ruk gayi yah baa bapujibse bada pyar hai isiliye ruk gayi. Haqq mil gaya na vanya ko? Toh ab wohi ghar mai rehne ki zidd kyun hai Kavya ki???
I am not at all in favour of divorcee woman stay under the same roof with ex-husband. BUT why this same rule is not applied to divorcee man?? He will also going to live with ex-wife under the same roof? That is also wrong na!! Second wife is also more interested in staying in the same house ! That is also wrong na!
Jaise anupama should not stay with ex-husband under the same roof waise he vanraj should not stay under the same roof in the pressure of so called second wife.
Kavya ko toh insecure hone ka bhi koi haqq nahi hai. Usko sab ne day 1 se bol diya tha that shaddi karna hai toh kari but we will not accept you and Kavya can’t force herself on everyone all the time. Kavya ko sirf uske and V ne accept kiya hai or kisi ne nahi so it was better for her to accept her V ‘s decision about leaving the house since hissa toh mil he gaya hai , an usi house mai rahe yah na rahe kya fark padta hai.
That I agree… rules also apply to divorcee Man.. Kavya and Vanraj should have left…. And then Anupama staying there would have made sense…
But my point is agar Vanya ne decision le liya tha rehne ka toh Bapuji ko emotionally force nahi karna chaiye tha and ek na ek ko toh vahan nahi rehna chaiye be it Vanya or Anupama kyunki this will make everything complex and painful for all three…
I am not fan of Kavya but for any women this is wrong pehle Anupama ke liye kavya ka Ana and Ab Kavya ke liye Anupama ke same roof main rehna galat hi hai… pehle toh Anupama badh chad ke ignore karke usse bulate the jabki kisi bhi insaan ko dikhta tha even Devika and Rakhi ko pehle baar main pata chal gaya tha they are not normal friends, even baa knew ki kuch gadbad hai… and in current situation ab khud vahan rehne ka bhi sense nahi hai just for her self respect
And I am not saying ki Kavya ke karan but because yeh cheez Anupama ko hi pain denge and nothing else and she will be stuck in this family loop, politics, Vanya politics, Kavya and Baa politics, Pakhi and Kavya politics and all… uske apne life jo voh resort main alag rehke lead kar rahe the like book reading and all will be finished and will be full of pain…
Kavya Anupama aur uske family ki bonding se insecure nahi hoge… voh isliye hoge kyunki vanraj Anupama se bonded rahega uske khane ke liye bhagega, and all and family bhi sara din gungan karte rahenge and Anupama and Kavya ki compare karte rahenge specially these Baa Pakhi and toshu… And Kavya nahi chahte ki koi usse accept kare bas usse V chaiye and uske liye voh natak kar rahe hai otherwise resort main kabse voh keh rahe hai ki voh sabko ghar se nikal denge…
Aur kuch fight hoge Vanya ki ya Baa aur Kavya ki then Anupama will be like moral police giving mahanta lectures and all which we all know she can’t stop herself from…
Bas mera yeh point hai Bapuji ko agar teeno Vanya aur Anupama nahi ja rahe the toh forcefully nahi rokna chaiye kyunki Anupama hi pain bear karege and sab family members bhi Anupama se hi pehle ki tarah kaam karvayenge…
Kavya seems to be intent to put her evil plan in action and alienate the family. Her intent to stay back is not to blend but to break ties. If anupama is firm in her resolve not to bite the bait that Kavya casts, she has to stay aloof as she suggested to her kids. then we can say she walks the talk.
Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12
That I agree… rules also apply to divorcee Man.. Kavya and Vanraj should have left…. And then Anupama staying there would have made sense…
But my point is agar Vanya ne decision le liya tha rehne ka toh Bapuji ko emotionally force nahi karna chaiye tha and ek na ek ko toh vahan nahi rehna chaiye be it Vanya or Anupama kyunki this will make everything complex and painful for all three…
I am not fan of Kavya but for any women this is wrong pehle Anupama ke liye kavya ka Ana and Ab Kavya ke liye Anupama ke same roof main rehna galat hi hai… pehle toh Anupama badh chad ke ignore karke usse bulate the jabki kisi bhi insaan ko dikhta tha even Devika and Rakhi ko pehle baar main pata chal gaya tha they are not normal friends, even baa knew ki kuch gadbad hai… and in current situation ab khud vahan rehne ka bhi sense nahi hai just for her self respect
And I am not saying ki Kavya ke karan but because yeh cheez Anupama ko hi pain denge and nothing else and she will be stuck in this family loop, politics, Vanya politics, Kavya and Baa politics, Pakhi and Kavya politics and all… uske apne life jo voh resort main alag rehke lead kar rahe the like book reading and all will be finished and will be full of pain…
Kavya Anupama aur uske family ki bonding se insecure nahi hoge… voh isliye hoge kyunki vanraj Anupama se bonded rahega uske khane ke liye bhagega, and all and family bhi sara din gungan karte rahenge and Anupama and Kavya ki compare karte rahenge specially these Baa Pakhi and toshu… And Kavya nahi chahte ki koi usse accept kare bas usse V chaiye and uske liye voh natak kar rahe hai otherwise resort main kabse voh keh rahe hai ki voh sabko ghar se nikal denge…
Aur kuch fight hoge Vanya ki ya Baa aur Kavya ki then Anupama will be like moral police giving mahanta lectures and all which we all know she can’t stop herself from…
Bas mera yeh point hai Bapuji ko agar teeno Vanya aur Anupama nahi ja rahe the toh forcefully nahi rokna chaiye kyunki Anupama hi pain bear karege and sab family members bhi Anupama se hi pehle ki tarah kaam karvayenge…
Why anupama paid heed to bapuji’s emotional request???
It is anupama’s core nature to give preference to her children and baa-bapuji.
When someone is having such core nature, it will automatically put other people in bad light.
Kavya stopped vanraj from leaving the house that means Kavya made her mind to force herself on every one. kavya’s agenda is clear to force herself on everyone. Since property is divided, there is no more scope to throw others out of the house as per her previous plan.
On which grounds anupama made her mind to approve bapuji’s request? Only because of emotions , she made her mind??? If so who is more responsible Bapuji or anupama herself??
In anupama’s case , I have always felt , just because of her core nature of giving preference to others, sometimes other person automatically become bad/selfish even though they are not.
Originally posted by: Snowdrrop
Yes, but there will be new drama everyday. Kavya vs. whole house. Anupama is going to be part of that drama and give lectures to Kavya. Why,just focus on your life. Why you want to do the moral policing everytime.
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or vanya make their on arrangements for going upstairs same as the balcony and make their kitchen upstair ?
or vanya make their on arrangements for going upstairs same as the balcony and make their kitchen upstair ?
idk think so as baa said kitchen sabka same hoga waise kavya kitchen na de ussko khana bana kaha ata han
woh ghar ko jala dege
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