I cant get behind a character like kuhu who constantly emotionally abuses mishti. If a lesser person took everything she has said to Mishti to heart they would have depression or committed suicide by now. Kuhu is very mean spirited toward her. There's a saying that u start having feelings for an animal u take care of... Over here Mishti is a person that she has abused with words her whole life. How do ppl think kuhu has evolved? She's the same person she was b4. Kuhu has her dad and varsha where as Mishti has BM and BP. Why does she feel jealous of Mishti all the time. She got attention from her parents and Mishti got attention from her parents. Kuhu seriously needs to be redeemed and she should contemplate how she would feel if someone constantly put her down all the time...
It surprises me how one track can undo all the positive things done by a character. Post leap we have seen an evolved Kuhu who was positive and put in effort to make each character happy and I completely agree how the makers are bringing her back to square one with this track post NishMish wedding. It hurts.
It surprises me how one track can undo all the positive things done by a character. Post leap we have seen an evolved Kuhu who was positive and put in effort to make each character happy and I completely agree how the makers are bringing her back to square one with this track post NishMish wedding. It hurts.
Totally agreed!! Frankly, not even square one, it's somewhere past that. Before this, I understood the not getting along and mean undertone, however exaggerated it was. But I don't get the randomly spewed out mean comments.
The "hate" track somewhat even made sense till she said that Mishti ne mere apno ko hurt karne ki aadat bana li hai after Nishant left because she hurt Varsha and Shaurya during Kuhu's haldi, Kunal se uski vaise hi nahi banti thi and now Jasmeet and Nannu even after Mishti had several chances to cancel the wedding but DKP needed TRP. The random mean comments like the ugly duckling one need to kind of stop. I need my supportive Mishku back. The one that we got to see on Mishti and Nishant's raat jaga and the one in this video😣😔.
https://www.instagram.com/p/B8LgPtGBfdo/?igshid=vsdajcgzwjoj
I cant get behind a character like kuhu who constantly emotionally abuses mishti. If a lesser person took everything she has said to Mishti to heart they would have depression or committed suicide by now. Kuhu is very mean spirited toward her. There's a saying that u start having feelings for an animal u take care of... Over here Mishti is a person that she has abused with words her whole life. How do ppl think kuhu has evolved? She's the same person she was b4. Kuhu has her dad and varsha where as Mishti has BM and BP. Why does she feel jealous of Mishti all the time. She got attention from her parents and Mishti got attention from her parents. Kuhu seriously needs to be redeemed and she should contemplate how she would feel if someone constantly put her down all the time...
100% agree with this post..today episode was worst what is awesome and kuhuness bullying someone and body shaming and trying to kill..makers pls dont white wash kuhu she is the worst character in the show everyone called out for their mistakes except kuhu, mental harassment is more criminal than physical harassment(she did both for mishti) dont try to justify show her proper redemption
100% agree with this post..today episode was worst what is awesome and kuhuness bullying someone and body shaming and trying to kill..makers pls dont white wash kuhu she is the worst character in the show everyone called out for their mistakes except kuhu, mental harassment is more criminal than physical harassment(she did both for mishti) dont try to justify show her proper redemption
I totally agree with u!!! I hate how thy white wash the bad ppl in the show. Be it Nishant, big Ben or kuhu. I've noticed kuhu has never repented and she never told anyone about what she did during that time she pushed Mishti from the pyramid. She's a disposable character. Nishant is just as bad, he left a man at a an accident scene. Wth is wrong with this bro/sis duo? And don't get me started on BB. Right now she's crying and all but she has something up her sleeve
I totally agree with u!!! I hate how they white wash the bad ppl in the show. Be it Nishant, big Ben or kuhu. I've noticed kuhu has never repented and she never told anyone about what she did during that time she pushed Mishti from the pyramid. She's a disposable character. Nishant is just as bad, he left a man at a an accident scene. Wth is wrong with this bro/sis duo? And don't get me started on BB. Right now she's crying and all but she has something up her sleeve
She did. It was shown that she felt guilty for hurting Mishti during Janmashtami. She made kadha for her and promised Mishti that she would never behave like that (in a cryptic manner) because she never owns up to doing it but she was definitely shown repenting.
She definitely has not been whitewashed. If you see the scenes, everything she says or does has been given a reason. It may not be the right reason but there is one, except for this week's Mishku scenes. Usme kuch bhi ho raha hai. Also, their relationship goes two ways. Mishti was shown to be meek in the childhood flashbacks when she came to the Maheshwari house but the innate character is pretty bold, be it in YRKKH or in this show. She can stand up for herself. And when need be, she does give it back to Kuhu and has been mean to her a few times too. You need to understand that all 4 characters are pretty layered. They don't just have 1 or 2 defining traits. The problem with Mishku is that their childhood rivalry backstory hasn't been told properly. So, we're all just assuming how those 2 must have felt based on their inner monologues.
Getting back to the white washing:
Big Ben - Yes, but no one really knows till what extent. We've all still been doubtful of what she'll do next.
Nishant - not really. According to how his character arc was shown in YRKKH, his character was layered in a similar way. Leaving Abir to die was an extreme move but the behaviour shown after that was in accordance to the drugs track in the parent show. The mandir scene was super confusing because NishBir were talking ek doosre se rather than addressing the whole family. His exit was 100% weird.
Disclaimer:
I do not hate Kuhu. For the most part, I understand her.
She is not my favorite character.
I love Kaveri and I find her brilliant as Kuhu!
Being an Abir and Mishti fan, I am just trying to give you an insight into how I view Kuhu and what really bothers me with respect to her character.
----
Pre or Post leap, Kuhu has always been bubbly, positive and nice to everyone - all except Misthi. At best, she tolerates her.
So I wouldn't say that she evolved post leap in that sense.
The main evolution we saw in her post leap was how she handled things gracefully with respect to her marriage and tried to remain happy on her own, without expecting anything from her on-paper husband.
She has always loved her own family and she extended that love to RVs too since the time she got married. RVs also accepted her with all their heart. Post leap, she tried to compartmentalize things #KeepItSeparate and remain happy with whatever she got.
So, while we did see changes in her post leap, they were not with respect to other. They were for her own self - like part of her coping mechanism, an extension of her survival instinct.
She is basically loving and caring - a nice person and her relationship with everyone is great, but we cannot deny the fact that she has never liked Mishti. And even that is fine. Not everyone gets along with everyone else. But disliking someone and being a bully to them are two different things - and Kuhu definitely forgets that more often than not.
She has been pretty mean and downright abusive to Mishti almost on a constant basis. She eased up after the Janamashtami incident and was also sympathetic towards her for a while when Abir broke up with her - but that was the extent of it.
Kuhu generally never leaves an opportunity to let Mishti know she does not belong to the family and she does so in a very hurtful manner. I agree with the TM in that regard that you start loving an animal also if it is around you long enough - then Mishti is a person. Misti is strong minded, otherwise a person would start to feel inferior if they were subjected to such taunts.
She knows that Mishti too loves this family, but she always feels the need to treat her like an outsider as if she doesn't want Mishti to forget that.
And the thing is, she doesn't even have a good enough reason for how she behaves with Mishti!
Kuhu's grandparents showering their attention on Mishti more than Kuhu leading to Kuhu's insecurities is a very lame reason for Kuhu's resentment towards Mishti in my opinion. She has doting parents who love her enormously. And if that's the case, Mishti should have far more insecurity than Kuhu.
Regarding Kuhu's random mean comments to Mishti... well, I have read here far too many times that Kuhu is the only real character in the show. By that regards, her calling Mishti a charity case, or a stray puppy or ugly duckling is as real as it can get! That is what she actually thinks of Mishti! And like she has said that before, she wants Mishti to #disappear
I would like to believe that most viewers and MishBir lovers, do not hate Kuhu. But her behavior towards Mishti is really mean and abusive enough to not really love her either. She just discounts Mishti, as if she has no value and should just stop to exist. Now in such circumstances, unless people who are true Kuhu lovers, these constant chants of Kuhu, her awesomeness and amazing Kuhuness by multiple characters is bound to irk the viewers.
Abir is the best example of someone who is always praising Kuhu almost to the point that he comes across as gullible and stupid for trusting Kuhu to a fault. No doubt Kuhu likes Abir and means well for him, but there have been instances in the past where she was clearly operating against Abir's happiness! Also, it is bothersome that Abir keeps Kuhu on a pedestal when clearly she is abusive to the love of his life!
Lastly, I would like to say that if we want makers to try and stop giving random abusive words from Kuhu to Mishti, we also want other characters to stop this Kuhu awesomeness jaap. It is as irritating as those random insulting words they give to Kuhu.
On a separate note, right now MishBir fans are just generally upset since it's their pairs wedding track but makers are hellbent on showing token under 20 seconds ceremony with KuKu centric drama. So viewers are bound to get frustrated and on top of that, if they keep hearing how awesome Kuhu is, they find the need to vent out.
Also, editors obsession with intermingling the couples, be it songs or scenes is so off putting. You can't enjoy either couple as you constantly have to keep switching emotions as the two pairs are on a different stages of relationships.
But how to tell them? #KeepItSeparate!
Edited by SheThought - 4 years agoDisclaimer:
I do not hate Kuhu. For the most part, I understand her.
She is not my favorite character.
I love Kaveri and I find her brilliant as Kuhu!
Being an Abir and Mishti fan, I am just trying to give you an insight into how I view Kuhu and what really bothers me with respect to her character.
----
Pre or Post leap, Kuhu has always been bubbly, positive and nice to everyone - all except Misthi. At best, she tolerates her.
So I wouldn't call that she evolved post leap in that sense.
The main evolution we saw in her post leap was how she handled things gracefully with respect to her marriage and tried to remain happy on her own, without expecting anything from her on-paper husband.
She has always loved her own family and she extended that love to RVs too since the time she got married. RVs also accepted her with all their heart. Post leap, she tried to compartmentalize things #KeepItSeparate and remain happy with whatever she got.
So, while we did see changes in her post leap, they were not with respect to other. They were for her own self - like part of her coping mechanism, an extension of her survival instinct.
She is basically loving and caring - a nice person and her relationship with everyone is great, but we cannot deny the fact that she has never liked Mishti. And even that is fine. Not everyone gets along with everyone else. But disliking someone and being a bully to them are two different things - and Kuhu definitely forgets that more often than not.
She has been pretty mean and downright abusive to Mishti almost on a constant basis. She eased up after the Janamashtami incident and was also sympathetic towards her for a while when Abir broke up with her - but that was the extent of it.
Kuhu generally never leaves an opportunity to let Mishti know she does not belong to the family and she does so in a very hurtful manner. I agree with the TM in that regard that you start loving an animal also if it is around you long enough - then Mishti is a person. Misti is strong minded, otherwise a person would start to feel inferior if they were subjected to such taunts.
She knows that Mishti too loves this family, but she always feels the need to treat her like an outsider as if she doesn't want Mishti to forget that.
And the thing is, she doesn't even have a good enough reason for how she behaves with Mishti!
Kuhu's grandparents showering their attention on Mishti more than Kuhu leading to Kuhu's insecurities is a very lame reason for Kuhu's resentment towards Mishti in my opinion. She has doting parents who love her enormously. And if that's the case, Mishti should have far more insecurity than Kuhu.
Regarding Kuhu's random mean comments to Mishti... well, I have read here far too many times that Kuhu is the only real character in the show. By that regards, her calling Mishti a charity case, or a stray puppy or ugly duckling is as real as it can get! That is what she actually thinks of Mishti! And like she has said that before, she wants Mishti to #disappear
I would like to believe that most viewers and MishBir lovers, do not hate Kuhu. But her behavior towards Mishti is really mean and abusive enough to not really love her either. She just discounts Mishti, as if she has no value and should just stop to exist. Now in such circumstances, unless people who are true Kuhu lovers, these constant chants of Kuhu, her awesomeness and amazing Kuhuness by multiple characters is bound to irk the viewers.
Abir is the best example of someone who is always praising Kuhu almost to the point that he comes across as gullible and stupid for trusting Kuhu to a fault. No doubt Kuhu likes Abir and means well for him, but there have been instances in the past where she was clearly operating against Abir's happiness! Also, it is bothersome that Abir keeps Kuhu on a pedestal when clearly she is abusive to the love of his life!
Lastly, I would like to say that if we want makers to try and stop giving random abusive words from Kuhu to Mishti, we also want other characters to stop this Kuhu awesomeness jaap. It is as irritating as those random insulting words they give to Kuhu.
On a separate note, right now MishBir fans are just generally upset since it's their pairs wedding track but makers are hellbent on showing token under 20 seconds ceremony with KuKu centric drama. So viewers are bound to get frustrated and on top of that, if they keep hearing how awesome Kuhu is, they find the need to vent out.
Also, editors obsession with intermingling the couples, be it songs or scenes is so off putting. You can't enjoy either couple as you constantly have to keep switching emotions as the two pairs are on a different stages of relationships.
But how to tell them? #KeepItSeparate!
Awesome post Yaar pali
You said every right thing 👍🏼👏
Disclaimer:
I do not hate Kuhu. For the most part, I understand her.
She is not my favorite character.
I love Kaveri and I find her brilliant as Kuhu!
Being an Abir and Mishti fan, I am just trying to give you an insight into how I view Kuhu and what really bothers me with respect to her character.
----
Pre or Post leap, Kuhu has always been bubbly, positive and nice to everyone - all except Misthi. At best, she tolerates her.
So I wouldn't say that she evolved post leap in that sense.
The main evolution we saw in her post leap was how she handled things gracefully with respect to her marriage and tried to remain happy on her own, without expecting anything from her on-paper husband.
She has always loved her own family and she extended that love to RVs too since the time she got married. RVs also accepted her with all their heart. Post leap, she tried to compartmentalize things #KeepItSeparate and remain happy with whatever she got.
So, while we did see changes in her post leap, they were not with respect to other. They were for her own self - like part of her coping mechanism, an extension of her survival instinct.
She is basically loving and caring - a nice person and her relationship with everyone is great, but we cannot deny the fact that she has never liked Mishti. And even that is fine. Not everyone gets along with everyone else. But disliking someone and being a bully to them are two different things - and Kuhu definitely forgets that more often than not.
She has been pretty mean and downright abusive to Mishti almost on a constant basis. She eased up after the Janamashtami incident and was also sympathetic towards her for a while when Abir broke up with her - but that was the extent of it.
Kuhu generally never leaves an opportunity to let Mishti know she does not belong to the family and she does so in a very hurtful manner. I agree with the TM in that regard that you start loving an animal also if it is around you long enough - then Mishti is a person. Misti is strong minded, otherwise a person would start to feel inferior if they were subjected to such taunts.
She knows that Mishti too loves this family, but she always feels the need to treat her like an outsider as if she doesn't want Mishti to forget that.
And the thing is, she doesn't even have a good enough reason for how she behaves with Mishti!
Kuhu's grandparents showering their attention on Mishti more than Kuhu leading to Kuhu's insecurities is a very lame reason for Kuhu's resentment towards Mishti in my opinion. She has doting parents who love her enormously. And if that's the case, Mishti should have far more insecurity than Kuhu.
Regarding Kuhu's random mean comments to Mishti... well, I have read here far too many times that Kuhu is the only real character in the show. By that regards, her calling Mishti a charity case, or a stray puppy or ugly duckling is as real as it can get! That is what she actually thinks of Mishti! And like she has said that before, she wants Mishti to #disappear
I would like to believe that most viewers and MishBir lovers, do not hate Kuhu. But her behavior towards Mishti is really mean and abusive enough to not really love her either. She just discounts Mishti, as if she has no value and should just stop to exist. Now in such circumstances, unless people who are true Kuhu lovers, these constant chants of Kuhu, her awesomeness and amazing Kuhuness by multiple characters is bound to irk the viewers.
Abir is the best example of someone who is always praising Kuhu almost to the point that he comes across as gullible and stupid for trusting Kuhu to a fault. No doubt Kuhu likes Abir and means well for him, but there have been instances in the past where she was clearly operating against Abir's happiness! Also, it is bothersome that Abir keeps Kuhu on a pedestal when clearly she is abusive to the love of his life!
Lastly, I would like to say that if we want makers to try and stop giving random abusive words from Kuhu to Mishti, we also want other characters to stop this Kuhu awesomeness jaap. It is as irritating as those random insulting words they give to Kuhu.
On a separate note, right now MishBir fans are just generally upset since it's their pairs wedding track but makers are hellbent on showing token under 20 seconds ceremony with KuKu centric drama. So viewers are bound to get frustrated and on top of that, if they keep hearing how awesome Kuhu is, they find the need to vent out.
Also, editors obsession with intermingling the couples, be it songs or scenes is so off putting. You can't enjoy either couple as you constantly have to keep switching emotions as the two pairs are on a different stages of relationships.
But how to tell them? #KeepItSeparate!
Pali 1💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I second you !! Agree with each and every word of yours .... same thoughts
Additionally I am also upset with the way they are chopping off mishbir's romantic scenes and light hearted scenes....
Segments are more interesting than the episodes...😛
Disclaimer:
I do not hate Kuhu. For the most part, I understand her.
She is not my favorite character.
I love Kaveri and I find her brilliant as Kuhu!
Being an Abir and Mishti fan, I am just trying to give you an insight into how I view Kuhu and what really bothers me with respect to her character.
----
Pre or Post leap, Kuhu has always been bubbly, positive and nice to everyone - all except Misthi. At best, she tolerates her.
So I wouldn't say that she evolved post leap in that sense.
The main evolution we saw in her post leap was how she handled things gracefully with respect to her marriage and tried to remain happy on her own, without expecting anything from her on-paper husband.
She has always loved her own family and she extended that love to RVs too since the time she got married. RVs also accepted her with all their heart. Post leap, she tried to compartmentalize things #KeepItSeparate and remain happy with whatever she got.
So, while we did see changes in her post leap, they were not with respect to other. They were for her own self - like part of her coping mechanism, an extension of her survival instinct.
She is basically loving and caring - a nice person and her relationship with everyone is great, but we cannot deny the fact that she has never liked Mishti. And even that is fine. Not everyone gets along with everyone else. But disliking someone and being a bully to them are two different things - and Kuhu definitely forgets that more often than not.
She has been pretty mean and downright abusive to Mishti almost on a constant basis. She eased up after the Janamashtami incident and was also sympathetic towards her for a while when Abir broke up with her - but that was the extent of it.
Kuhu generally never leaves an opportunity to let Mishti know she does not belong to the family and she does so in a very hurtful manner. I agree with the TM in that regard that you start loving an animal also if it is around you long enough - then Mishti is a person. Misti is strong minded, otherwise a person would start to feel inferior if they were subjected to such taunts.
She knows that Mishti too loves this family, but she always feels the need to treat her like an outsider as if she doesn't want Mishti to forget that.
And the thing is, she doesn't even have a good enough reason for how she behaves with Mishti!
Kuhu's grandparents showering their attention on Mishti more than Kuhu leading to Kuhu's insecurities is a very lame reason for Kuhu's resentment towards Mishti in my opinion. She has doting parents who love her enormously. And if that's the case, Mishti should have far more insecurity than Kuhu.
Regarding Kuhu's random mean comments to Mishti... well, I have read here far too many times that Kuhu is the only real character in the show. By that regards, her calling Mishti a charity case, or a stray puppy or ugly duckling is as real as it can get! That is what she actually thinks of Mishti! And like she has said that before, she wants Mishti to #disappear
I would like to believe that most viewers and MishBir lovers, do not hate Kuhu. But her behavior towards Mishti is really mean and abusive enough to not really love her either. She just discounts Mishti, as if she has no value and should just stop to exist. Now in such circumstances, unless people who are true Kuhu lovers, these constant chants of Kuhu, her awesomeness and amazing Kuhuness by multiple characters is bound to irk the viewers.
Abir is the best example of someone who is always praising Kuhu almost to the point that he comes across as gullible and stupid for trusting Kuhu to a fault. No doubt Kuhu likes Abir and means well for him, but there have been instances in the past where she was clearly operating against Abir's happiness! Also, it is bothersome that Abir keeps Kuhu on a pedestal when clearly she is abusive to the love of his life!
Lastly, I would like to say that if we want makers to try and stop giving random abusive words from Kuhu to Mishti, we also want other characters to stop this Kuhu awesomeness jaap. It is as irritating as those random insulting words they give to Kuhu.
On a separate note, right now MishBir fans are just generally upset since it's their pairs wedding track but makers are hellbent on showing token under 20 seconds ceremony with KuKu centric drama. So viewers are bound to get frustrated and on top of that, if they keep hearing how awesome Kuhu is, they find the need to vent out.
Also, editors obsession with intermingling the couples, be it songs or scenes is so off putting. You can't enjoy either couple as you constantly have to keep switching emotions as the two pairs are on a different stages of relationships.
But how to tell them? #KeepItSeparate!
Oh ho Pali🤗
Awesome post. Loved it. Tumne toh pura essay hi likh diya. Woh bhi Kuhu par.😆
I have absolutely nothing to add. I agree with each and every sentence of your post.👍🏼
