Aarti what makes you worship shukla ji

Although i was supporting shukla ji..

But for last 2 episodes i m a bit disappointed with him.

He is showing lots of aggression plus he is always shaking his body...he seems have issue...

Now coming to Aarti...

Shukla's behaviour with aarti is not gud..

She is always behind him but he does not respect her

In one episode when aarti n sid were having a convo..

Sid said " Haan aage bol " it was very irritating from his end then aarti was angry for first time..

I thought she would at least raise a voice now against his behaviour ..i dont know why but she is afraid of him..

She is not raising her voice although she is not liking it either...but isme agar galti shukla ji ki h toh aarti ki b coz she is allowing him to treat her lyk dis...

He is always lyk Haan aage bol..

Villian vamp thing then shukla ji was lyk u r not dat imp..u r not even in frame..

When aarti was hurt on her foot ..shukla ji dint come..

Aarti ko shukla ji ne jab se first task me support kar diya wo pagal hi ho gayi h..

Sid talks to sana in nice way in fact very nice way .

Aarti can see d difference clearly n even she said d same but sid has another explanation..

May b he is not doing it purposely but even if he is doing ,oOfcourse he won't accept this ever..

Kahin na khin khud ko b pata hota h but kya fark padta h shukla ji ko...

Bas aarti ko shukla ji nominations se bacahte h.

But she should give it a thought ki waise b with this kind of personality agar wo bachti b gayi n end me shukla ji n wo b bache in worst case scenario then of course shukla ji will be winner...

Then why is she doing so..

She claims to be a sherani but she does not even seem even a bit of dat..

I liked her ch as seema bhabhi in parichay but seeing her real personality i dislike her coz she does not respect herself...

Plus she was saying to one member in her initial days..she is not able to play..she is afraid kind of stuff..

Why r u saying this ...when u tell all these things then person actully start treating d same way...

Shukla ji is clearly a leader,dictator,dominating...

But i prefer dominating one over the doormat..

Although it's not gud to bully others but at least shukla ji have his own personality..

It is very bad thing to be chamchi of someone..

Highly disspointed with aarti..

I hope someone enlighten her...

I guess this started when Shefali insulted her by calling her divorced. She insulted Rashmi too saying "old". But Rashmi is strong , nothing effected her. But Arti broke down. Now she is searching for a shelter under Shukla. THis happens after a break up/divorce. Many get over it, many go through self destruction and "atma nigraha". Who is more better option than SS here to help her in this suicidal mission? Rashmi as a friend tried to help her during "saand ke lath" act. But Arti sang a song which showed her mental condition. She is not in her self. I felt pity for her at that time. Right now she should go out of BB, take time , work and when she will get a new bf/hubby I'm sure she will laugh at SS and her stupidity. SS doesn't help people. He sabotages all who stays with him. Sana is also acting crazy this days. Neither is Asim. SS is very poisonous guy, a narcissist . He sucks the courage from other people and make them look useless. First by kindness then by ignorance. He is a very bad influence .

I don't think any of her well wishers outside would be happy about the way she has turrned into a dasi of Shukla...

Yes, she doesn't respect herself. If she likes someone, she prioritises him/her more than herself.

She has psychological issues. She has fear of losing. She lost her mother when she was newborn and her father when she was just five year old.

I sympathize with her but I cannot respect someone like her who is such a doormat and pushover. I myself had childhood issues, my Mom is a bipolar, so I turned into a doormat and people pleaser. On top of it my ex-bf was abusive and kept telling me how ugly I am and how pleased I should be that I am with him

But our fate is in our hands. We cannot blame our parents or destiny for our behaviour. I knew I had issues so went for therapy and after two years of therapy, look at me, from a coward doormat, I have turned into a fighter and women activist

I told about myself here, not to brag but only to put across this point that even a doormat can change with psychological and therapy.