Isn’t it strange that when a man falls for a woman against his will he invariably blames the woman?
If a committed man has an affair then the other woman is blamed for attracting him, more than he is for straying.
Or if he abandons his wife she is blamed for not being good enough to keep him by her side.
When Sage Vishwamitra was doing tapasya & faltered, Menaka got the blame ‘tapasya bhang kiya’.
Likewise when our devdas Rohit has tried to bury himself in his past but feels the desire to move on, blame Sona for... what? attracting him? demanding his attention? keeping him busy? coming in his thoughts?
To blame the woman, even in a hasty thoughtless moment, is to cheapen her as if she had seduced him.
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