Hello everyone!!! So I have been reading many comments - some in favor of MisHaan and some Veer and it's great to read everyone's perspective.
But personally I feel there's more to what has been shown and here are my two cents on the current situation.
I condemn any sort of violence against anyone and hence wouldn’t side with Veer if he really turns out to be the kidnapper. I also don’t support how he is publicly insulting Mishti. But I do believe his reaction is pretty normal and it doesn’t mean he never loved Mishti and it's more out of his ego.
I agree, when some of us still try to defend some of Veer’s actions it does seem like that we have a problem with Mishti. Not at all. But the main problem is just like Veer is a very realistic character for whom you feel sympathy yet get disgusted with his cheap tactics, personally, I have the same feeling for Mishti.
When the show began, I liked Pari better than Mishti. Both the sisters had serious misconception about love and life. But what made me like Pari more was that she had blocked one aspect of her own life. She tried to stay away from love that could hurt her entire family. While Mishti tried to avoid heartache but she included others also in her life. So when she backed out, ultimately it affected others also and in those people’s eyes she would never be right.
People have different perception. I am not comparing, just saying, even Kunal was right in his opinion because he chose whom he loved. But this one RIGHT decision destroyed Mauli and now we can see how his daughters lives also got affected.
Mishti’s one stubbornness that everything has to be perfect –ultimately led to this mess. Had she been like a regular girl, going on dates, realizing what she wants and acting upon it – no one would have been hurt. But she met a perfect guy according to her expectation, stayed in a relationship with him and then suddenly told him she didn’t love him. Relationship is bidirectional.If she thinks Veer never told her about his friends then she also never disclosed her true identity in front of him or his family. So these were the things that made me sympathize with a girl who was so afraid to turn into her biological father yet I could not support her because she involved too many people who got hurt eventually in her own journey to discover herself.
When Season 1 was airing, I always found Kunal even Mahek to be much better parent or parent figure than Malhotras and Ishaan. Some people bashed Pari saying how she was selfish since she was a baby and was the bigges thurdle to MauHaan. But they conveniently forget that when she told Mahek that she thought Buddy loved Mishti more than her and Mahek explained that her wish couldn’t be fulfilled since Mauli auntie was already engaged but Mishti’s wish could be fulfilled so Kunal chose to do that – she smiled and understood it. But it always seemed to me Mishti was overly pampered and no one could control her.This is continuing in Season 2 also. She is responsible and a good sister no doubt about that. But she is also the same person who doesn’t pay heed to anyone. Pari repeatedly cautioned her about her true nature but she never paid any heed. We have never seen Radhika being strong enough to stop her or question her and ultimately she became the control freak she is now. So more than Mishti, I actually blame the family here because both the girls grew up with serious misconception which have affected others also.
As far as dealing is concerned. Men and women deal differently when they gets to know about cheating. Mauli was shattered but Kunal became aggressive.
Another thing is the atmosphere. Mauli had her mother who turned vengeful too. She shook hands with Rajdeep and publicly humiliated Nandini. Because that was in her power. Then think from a mother’s perspective who saw her son’s dream shattering. But yet her stand is deemed inappropriate by some.
Another important thing is Mauli was comforted by Radhika. In S2 Arnav was comforted by Su Bua. Two people who were sensible enough to show their kids the bigger picture and helped them move on. But when you have aggressive parents who are continuously rubbing it off on your face, is it really possible for a vulnerable man to keep his calm?
Maui had multiple clues and warnings. So she was devastated that she blindly loved someone and that person actually proved how blind she was. Kunal realized Mauli’s inclination towards Ishaan, so he was somewhat prepared for it. But Mishti till the end kept on assuring Veer and then broke up one fine day without any prior notice or giving him any hint that they weren’t the same. If in that state a man is fed the idea that there was someone else and actually discovered the same, how civil would he react? Even Ishaan pinned Mauli down to the wall when she broke the engagement after Sandhya’s demand. An action highly criticized by MauHaan and Ishaan fans themselves.
And the fact that if you love someone you can’t insult them. Believe me guys, I am saying this from my personal experience, had a serious tiff with someone who was very close to me and at times I wished for that person’s destruction like I was shattered. Took me almost 5-6 years to get over it and I was finally like okay, be happy wherever you are but don’t ever enter into my life. I didn’t go around insulting but yes, at that time I didn’t have any positive wish either.
So Veer’s action in today’s episode was horrible but realistic. There was a dialogue in ONCE UPON A TIME that you take the most precious gift (LOVE) and turn it into weapon. Love is a powerful emotion. But at the same time it yields the power to burn down everything.
A man only doesn’t go berserk because his ego is hurt. The fact that his heart has been broken can also turn him into a monster. Here I would like to quote one dialogue from SAAWARIYA – YEH KAMBAKHT MOHABBAT CHEEZ HAIN HI AISI JO KABHI PATTHAR KO INSAAN AUR KABHI INSAAN KO PATTHAR BANA DETE HAIN.
I am not justifying Veer’s action. Neither I have blind hatred against Mishti or MisHaan. But the Fact is all are somewhat wrong in their tracks. It’s not my bind love for Veer’s character neither I am a fan of Rohan. But when I look at Mishti, she started it long before due to her misconception. And at the end of the day when your one decision is responsible for so many chaos, you just can’t look at the person with love or compassion.
Even if it wasn't someone like Veer but someone like Ishaan or Arnav who are more sensible to deal with the heartache, the truth would always be the same - a calculated decision of her is the mother of all problem.
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