Why is Kainat hated?

Am I the only one who finds S's relationship with Zaroon a little bit inappropriate? Saltanat knows Zaroon obviously has feelings towards her and she is leading him on a little. Even though she said they are friends, is it so harmful to keep a little distance? I know its not her fault but knowing how traditional Kainat is, can't she understand her feelings? I find Saltanat very arrogant about her modern outlook. 

Everyone was hating Kainat for being so rude towards Saltanat but S is also very rude, especially in that kitchen confrontation. She insulted K's upbringing and her mom. Is it so wrong to obey your parents? I understand Zainab may not be the best mom and has controlled her daughter but S has no right to insult her like this. What makes S think that her upbringing was the best and K's was the worst?

Put yourself in K's shoes. How would you feel if your sister was overly "friendly" with your fianc? I would be pretty angry too. I know K has always had resentment for the freedom S was granted but that is her upbringing. Instead of trying to gently teach her, S is always so quick to rudely dismiss her upbringing. 

Please don't hate me. This is not a hate post. I have nothing against Saltanat but I just thought it was really unfair how everyone thinks she can do no wrong. Similar to K, S has also has flaws. There are 2 sides to every coin.

K's heart is going to break the most especially after tomorrow. According to posters/promos, it seems to be a SaRoon endgame. I will always appreciate K as a character more even if CVs make her negative later on. She will always be my favourite.

both have different personalities and upbringing and Sal shouldnt taunt her, its good to be traditional if you are its good, if your modern thst is good. 

One thing being tradition doesnt make you less mondern either.

so people have to realise that.

Brilliant thread again, buddy. What's your name?

Am gonna reserve here, cos gonna reply to your points, and put a few more from my analysis.😃

But I also liked the way Saltanat said that water can distinguish any type of fire.. Hope she uses water more and doesn't add fuel to the fire ..

I'm dark, darker than Kaynaat and little fat, with does not in anyway meet society's beachmark whereas my cousin is a girl who matches that beachmark in all ways ...So I completely understand Kaynaat inferiority complex...(This is what society makes you feel inspirit of having great parents who teaches you to be strong and a sister (not cousin, to be frank my cousin never behaves badly with me, loves me and even I love her but still you do feel jealous when people keep praising her and inspirit of trying to look your best no one even compliments you...)   who understands my feels and make sure i don't take things too seriously) But just because I feel inferior and sometimes let it out (only to my sister) it does not mean that I'm bad or evil or that I don't like her...

I understand Kaynaat as only little time presence of my cousin can give that effect on me that what much Kaynaat be going through with constant presence of Saltanat... 

I blame this society for Kaynaat inferiority complex and her family to not understand that and fix it at early age and not Kaynaat...

And for me all those who hate Kaynaat (whom we have seen till date) belongs to that part of society and form that family member who fail to understand Kaynaat and thu hate her...

secondly what exactly is being modern...

I will continue post later as I have to go now...

I really hope I made some sense and could pen down my feeling in a manner you don't misunderstand me... 

Cmon u cant be gussa 24 by 7 with someone and that too your sister

Maybe thats why saltanat spoke a little harshly. Am not saying she spoke the right things..but why is kainat blaming only saltanat

When actually zaroon is the one to be blamed

And she only went once with him that too to clear all misunderstandings. Saltanat is innocent here

 Her mentality is unlikeable.  Kainaat herself is arrogant. Behaves as if being religious only makes one desirable. I see girls who are not traditionally dressed are s**t shamed every point of life. Just like Saltanat is labelled as arrogant to portray Kainat as a victim. Kainaat's self victimisation  is annoying. She unnecessarily taunted Sal and deserved that retort from Sal. Sal can not babysit Kainaat. If she is judged in her household for her modern dress up then why can't she judge others? Both of them judged each other  so both are wrong andt Kainaat went ahead and thought being friends with a guy is wrong too (train scene where she saw saroon shaking hands). That kind of thinking make me dislike her, nothing to do anything with her looks.  So let's just stop assuming that every viewer dislike Kainaat is from wrong end of the society. If Sal was wrong to comment on her upbringing then Kai is wrong to insult her like that. 

And about likeable traits in Sal. There are many. I may be belong to minority here but obeying parents blindly does not make some1 Saint and likeable too. S has her own mind and thats an admirable quality IMO. She knows how to respect and also how to voice her own thoughts. Her looks has nothing to do with it. Ironically even Saltanat is only being judged by her look and that too negatively. 

@Tm my reply is notonly In response toyour post but to few other comments as well. I can't quote since I'm unable to do so.  

Completely agree with you 😊