Bepannah~ My thoughts ~ep 108. 15.8.18 To lose one's heart..
To fall in love is to rise in the vital centre of one's emotions and sensibilities, that exist in one's heart. Love itself softens the hardened areas of the heart. The magical power of love makes the heart swell so, that it wants to contain the whole world in it. Losing one's heart makes the world a wonderful place to be in.
The episode is about loving one's parent, guardians. The commandment which most faiths profess, to love, obey and honour ones parents, sets the tone of the episode. its an interesting fact that Adi as the son has to bear witness to the longevity of his parents happy and stable wedded life. As the child he honours them publicly, as is expected from one in his position, with some heart rendering words that only raises Anjana and Harsh Hooda's profile because both are his parents.
I loved the fact that Adi was no public speaker. As such speech making seemed a daunting task to him. Affirmative as Captain Aditya Hooda, he may have spoken on the mic to the passengers and crew of the aircraft he was piloting. But bear in mind those brief directive speeches were rendered from the enclosure of his cock pit and not directly before public contact. To facilitate his very presence on the stage today, before the audience, is the feat of his first love Zoya Siddiqui .
Where Pooja via her diary stigmatized Adi as the son who failed to get along with his family. Zoya today nullifies all that through the speech that Aditya delivers about his parents. I wouldn't say it's a formality that Adi fulfils as the demand of the occasion. I would say it is a moment where Aditya fulfils his owns words,follow your heart! he does so, with a little help from his friend.
He follows his heart , well before his speech too. One look at Zoya and he is stumped by her beauty. Spontaneously he compliments her, she looks stunning. Just looking at her serves to calm his heart which nearly pops out of his mouth due to his frayed nerves!
Zoya's gentle tap on her heart is sign enough for him when he goes on stage, nervous and tongue tied. Let the heart take over, let the heart pour out the words!
Adi s opening words are a dead honest admission of being no orator. However someone encouraged him with the tip, tweak your heart about the one you hold close to your heart. Surely words will tumble out spontaneously about the cherished relationship you share with them. Adi ,thus, showers his maa and pa! with A humbling homage for bringing him into the world. Followed by the confession of being the black sheep of the family! Yet a big thank you to his parents for coping, patiently with his bad times. He admits, that if he is standing tall and straight today, its due to their unfailing stalwart support. Zoya's supportive smiles, encourage, Adi, to rather stoically ,confesses his own inability of abiding by emotional relationships. He, goes further and praises both his parents for bearing up both with the good and bad times of which he himself today is a witness to. Adi makes an public oath to his parents that when he too, finds the person whose presence means the ultimate for him. A love that completes his existence and makes him the richest person on earth! Then he too, like his parents will treasure, protect and honour his relationship ,just like the example his parents have set before him. Zoya's presence in the audience, and his love for her, makes Adi delve in own past experiences . Quite openly he talks about, friendship being a prerequisite of love itself. How even little things matter much in friendship and love. How from his past he has learnt not to overlook both minute or magnified issues in relationships, as in totality they complete the circle of love, that he now sees in his parents life! who have worked at their marriage from early stages to where they are now! Much applaud for Adi's heartfelt speech! It moves not only his parents hearts, but many hearts greatly. Here stands a humbled man, who loses his heart to love!
But really, Arjun is so correct when he quips to Adi, seems Zoya had a hand in it. Truly we as the audience, see it vividly that its Adi's love for Zoya that half makes him admit ,confess to many issues related to emotional attachments and messed up past relationships. There is hope in his words.. almost a veiled admission, to his parents. That he has found his new lease of life.. Zoya! Zoya! who foiled his attempt to run away from his loved ones. The fact he is here to celebrate their anniversary its courtesy of Zoya ! his promise of hanging on to love like dear life this time, is all about not letting Zoya go out of his life now that he has found her! His FB's, reveal all, about how Zoya featured in his heart felt speech.
Can Harsh and Anjana sense where Adi's bravado comes from today? Will they appreciate Zoya's fantastic event management? Or will Adi have to face the music again? Like Zoya does in her home? Sakshi is at Anjana's doorstep. What bad tidings does she bring? One regret Wasim should have heard Adi's well turned out speech. How come Arshad comes to this private event?
The episode was a fantastic effort by the cvs. Very moving.. all about loving your family as my bhai jaan SK would say. Harshad!what can I say about the actor. Sooo credible! in his speech was he acting or was he for real? As for Jenny.as Zoya. picture of sheer grace and beauty... like a lioness.
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