Zoya...the imperfect wife.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I like this Zoya more than the old one. Once she didn't want to accept her husband's infidelity; now she is accepting it and also accepting that she was at wrong too in her relationship. Her marriage failed and somehow she played a role in that. It was not completely Yash's fault that their marriage failed. Same with Adi but he is not ready to accept it.

They both are two different people so their way of thinking differs, differences cause difference of opinions and that causes clashes between people but at the end, it is that clash what makes the bond strong. I do not mind this separation because I feel soon it is going to bring Adiya closer. After all, distances make people realize other's worth.

After the jungle track viewers believed that Zoya changed, she became strong but they were wrong and they were upset because she let Mahi bad mouth her and she didn't let Mahi's reputation get spoiled. Zoya is like that, I must say, was like that. She would let others bad mouth her but she would never bad mouth other. If she does the same what Mahi did to her that what is the difference between them?

Now Zoya changed. The innocent doll died, Papa Hooda killed her in the court. Now she is fighting for her and the first step is that accepting her faults, she succeeded in that, the second step is accepting Poosh affair and she is going to acquire that too soon.

I can completely understand her state of mind. She is guilty of letting Yash suffer so much in their marriage, be it personally or financially. As a wife it was her duty to support him, yes I agree Yash didn't tell her but as a wife, she should know her husband in and out, she should have read his behavioral differences. We can read our friends, and we find when they feel dull and how a wife couldn't get the idea of her husband being unhappy. I can't digest that.
Zoya and Adi were equally responsible for this failure, but EMA was not the solution. Poosh were wrong in having an affair but they were not bad people. The cheater is a better tag than a murderer, that too someone who killed his love.

For Zoya, she failed in so many ways, Papa Hooda opened her eyes. He outright told that Zoya was a bad wife so Yash had to go out for an emotional support, that was a failure as a wife. Though Yash was wrong in doing so. Yash might have never wanted to fall in love with Pooja same as with Pooja too, they sought an emotional support from outside and they fell in love. For me, falling in love is not wrong, despite being married or not. You can never control that feeling. You can never plan when to fall in love, with whom to fall in love and how to fall in love.

I want Zoya to reopen the case, whatever her reason behind this, I want her to dig deeper and find what really happened so I support her.

Then I support Adi too, to an extent. Here if Zoya is strong, Adi is weak. He is scared of facing his mistakes, he is scared of losing his family, he is scared of facing the truth. He is not ready to accept he made mistakes too, he is not ready to accept he played a role in the failure of his marriage.

Somewhere I feel, if the role was reversed, I mean if it was Pooja's character butchered in the court Adi would have made an effort to make it clear. Otherwise, he would have never raised his hand on Zoya when she spoke ill about Pooja.

I spoke my mind, not intending to hurt anyone. I hope I made sense. 😳
Edited by Sovereign_K - 8 years ago

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Posted: 8 years ago
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yes u made sense to me😳 lovely analysis.. ur analysis matches with wat shruti said in her analysis n nw i m getting the point of view of zoya clear.. i found her reason to reopen the case lame becos she wanted to clear yashs image which cant b cleared, bt nw wen i read shruti n ur anlaysis it became clear to me that she just want to clear yashs name frm murder charge, she doesnt want to clear his image completely bt just want to clear the wrong charge n wrong name put against him i.e of a murderer.. thanks 4 making it clear to me.. i ws very disappointed abt the same since yesterday bt nw i m happy to get a clear view😃
p.s so much "clear" word in my post😆 becos i got clarity😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post dear. Today zoya accepted her failure and told this is her battle. To her dad she made it clear she won't forgive yash for ema but she won't allow whatever good memories she has of him drowned in false accusation of murder. Yes aditya is not ready to accept his flaws. But he will when he sees zo suffering beyond a point. Just like he owned up his mistake in the jail and zo put him at ease. He knows he can bare it with her. She won't mock or question him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree...I am glad CVs showed us Zoya's perspective 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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yes they both need to realise their mistakes n learn from them
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Super post dear :)... and this is exactly what i have been thinking. The only problem is probably that the way people are looking they think Zoya is doing it for Madhu, which she is not!
Marriages fail, it is normal. It just means they were not compatible or over years they grow differently. And yes, it's also normal to have different expectations from your life partner. Sometimes people stay in loveless marriages because of their values.

Everyone is different, the problem with Zoya is that she was too naive and clean hearted, she hasn't dealt with the grey world in real terms. She only knows white and black and sees everything like that and that's her personality.





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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: peacenfun

yes they both need to realise their mistakes n learn from them



Yes They need to realise their mistakes...

But that does not mean they r bad...

Aditya and Zoya believe their partners blindly... Pooja and Yash r their world...

They didnt see anything else in the world...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very well said I love zoya the way she is ! It is very easy to blame others but it is very difficult to accept our faults she has immense courage it is very difficult for a wife to say that her husband loves someone else none can understand how she is feeling now she did not want to hurt adi she poured her whole heart in front of him why is she doing this they both made their choice I know her decision affects Adi's life too but it is also a truth they are only friends and Yash was her husband whom she loved once most at present Pooja is mire important for adi too the way he talk about after all they spend quality of time with each other they shared a strong relation
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lovely post. I can totally understand and relate to her emotions right now. She is under guilt of not able to understand Yash and be a good wife to him , which led him to seek emotional support from another woman. She loved him truly but never tried to get out of her own world and understand how he's managing everything. She understand that its her fault too ( which Adi hasnt yet and blames pooja alone Till this day). Thus when Mr Hooda dropped the entire blame on Yash and gave a clean slate to others, she couldn't digest that injustice meted out to him, coz her love was true for him.
EeEven when yesterday she was speaking to Adi , she was actually bearing her heart out to him. She acknowledged the special plave they have in each other life and their friendship. But she also wanted to make him understand that whatever she's gonna do with reopening the case its got nothing to do with her disregard for his feelings. she just wanted to rectify her mistakes she did with Yash, and clear his name as his wife who loved him for real. she actually feared Adi wouldn't understand her, and take it wrong, thats why she found it difficult to speak out about this , and was hard to control her tears when she was speaking to Adi. I felt the tears were more like her pain coz she was knowingly going against Adi, afterall he did for her) more than it was for herself and Yash.

I can see a lot of changes and development in both, even with all the conflicts they have... Im actually liking this phase.. coz i feel its gonna make their bond even more stronger!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv_PaRiAnSh

Lovely post. I can totally understand and relate to her emotions right now. She is under guilt of not able to understand Yash and be a good wife to him , which led him to seek emotional support from another woman. She loved him truly but never tried to get out of her own world and understand how he's managing everything. She understand that its her fault too ( which Adi hasnt yet and blames pooja alone Till this day). Thus when Mr Hooda dropped the entire blame on Yash and gave a clean slate to others, she couldn't digest that injustice meted out to him, coz her love was true for him.

EeEven when yesterday she was speaking to Adi , she was actually bearing her heart out to him. She acknowledged the special plave they have in each other life and their friendship. But she also wanted to make him understand that whatever she's gonna do with reopening the case its got nothing to do with her disregard for his feelings. she just wanted to rectify her mistakes she did with Yash, and clear his name as his wife who loved him for real. she actually feared Adi wouldn't understand her, and take it wrong, thats why she found it difficult to speak out about this , and was hard to control her tears when she was speaking to Adi. I felt the tears were more like her pain coz she was knowingly going against Adi, afterall he did for her) more than it was for herself and Yash.

I can see a lot of changes and development in both, even with all the conflicts they have... Im actually liking this phase.. coz i feel its gonna make their bond even more stronger!


This is what made me make this post. Zoya was in tears bcoz she was going against Adi. She wanted Adi to understand her and support her but he didn't, as he is still not accepting his faults. He will once Zoya or other outright tell him. Papa Hooda literally proved that Zoya was a worse wife, she is not only fighting for Yash but for her too. She wants to be that wife who supports and understanding to Yash for once.

Adi and Zoya are learning through their mistakes which is a common thing and real too. That is how humans work. Zoya is not a mahan bahu, she is a woman who failed her husband and in front of the whole world too, she is the same. She is going to accept that failure to give Yash a bit of respect, for once she wants to succeed as a wife.
Edited by Sovereign_K - 8 years ago

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