Well ,he is distancing himself from her because whenever they will come together, he would not tolerate anything against his mother. Second ,you want her to stand for herself for what? To leave him,to divorce him ? Ohk if this is your defenition of 'stand up for herself' then congrats ,tab to ho gayi vo koi relation nibhane me success ,fir to shaadi fir divorce yahi chalta rahega uski jindigi me. Problem se bhagna nahi chahiye usko face karna chahiye.
You talked about trust , so aap chahti ho ki uspe trust karne ke liye vo apne maa ya apne pariwar pe trust na kare kabhi . Esa kese chalega yaar. Purane serials ki tarah bana do aap log ,jisme saas bahu ke jhagde me pati phas jae,ki agar vo apni maa pe trust kare to matlb vo apni wife pe trust nahin karta ,aur agar wife pe trust kare to mtlb vo apni maa pe trust nahin karta.
Hume pata h ki abhi kon galat hai ,kon sahi ,bihaan ko ni pata . Jese abhi hum uske maa pe trsut ko blind keh rahe h ,agar yeh vese hi thapki pe karega to tab to hum nahi kahinge ki bihaan uspe blind trust kar raha hai. Jo hum chahe,vo vahi kare yeh sahi nahin na ,ye realastic nahin h .dusre baat yeh ho sakti h ki baad me jaake vo thapki ko bhi console nahin karta to ,vo iss liye kunki thapki misunderstand nahin ,accuse karti h kosi ko, vo unka sath deti h jinhone aaj tak use dhoke me rakha aur jinhone uske father ko maara. Me yeh ni keh raha ki vo sahi kar raha h, vo galat hi kar raha h , par ye bas hum ,aur thapki jante hain
Sorry agar aapko ko bura laga ho ,par me serious nahin hu ,me bilkul maje me bol raha hu ,emojis add karne me aalas aa raha tha ,aapko to pata hi h ki me kesa hu 😉
Edited by sanju15k - 9 years ago
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