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Posted: 9 years ago
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To understand such thing people need brain and nerves buddy
jo iss manusya i mean iss prani k pass upalabdh nahi he...
so kripaya aise prakar k prashna puch ke logo ko aur sharminda na kare
welll
he is like this stubborn dumb and egoistic from beginning.he never identifies b/w right or wrong.he is nt only throwing sanky out bt also makes swara sad cz at dis moment she needs him the most...
raha sawaal swasan ka to they r enough mature to deal wd shekhar naam ka aafat...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Swara and sanskar is suffering the pain of separation. But Shekhar is not understanding it.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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yeh swaragini ka logic hai 😆
if it's ragini"s fault blame swara
if it's lakshay's fault blame sanskar
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aamias



dearie if u r talking abt swasan then its fine and if u regard shekhar as a father thats ur thoughts i dont think so what he did for swara other than blaming her for evrything?
he is blind for ragini and it is his ego which matter to him . when swara was crying what he did for swara was a question he didnot call ragini even when lakshya doesnt want to stay andhe didnt fight for swara when she cried and cried even in kavitha track.
even when he is slapped i said shomi should have done that .not Lakshya . he is aspineless character and now his ego is evrything. he always does wrong with swara and shomi bcoz they regard him or respect him others just dont care. he is foolish so i dont have any hope. abt swara she will talk after the crisis is solved she cant shout i want to do sr though my father is insulted and my sis is in crisis .


now coming to the bold portion i might not sound religious or something but i have different pov no offence intended.

ur lines say that a parent should forsake all the duties by marrying the daughter which is itself a faulty idea so when the wife is abused or under domestic violence or his husband is cheating then the parent's mentality is what u told and always should stay in husband house even if they are mentally or physically tortured .now also
at that Ram's time divorce is not acceptable. even i will tell lord Ram when left Sita for society is itself wrong and janak Raja didnt fight for her and take her home was also a crime .

what do u mean by leaving both the girls do u mean if girls parents family is in crisis she would just not get into it bcoz she is a girl . that means girls dnt have any responsibilty towards their parents they would say my husband is GOD so he can leave me for society for heartbreak but i cant go to my parent's house or stay there even in case of crisis and if I go my laws will throw me out .
as a girl my parents r my responsibility and i will regard my marriage but my parent have given me birth and led me into this world taught me i am thankful to them and i should always regard them more and i will care for them .



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aamias



dearie if u r talking abt swasan then its fine and if u regard shekhar as a father thats ur thoughts i dont think so what he did for swara other than blaming her for evrything?
he is blind for ragini and it is his ego which matter to him . when swara was crying what he did for swara was a question he didnot call ragini even when lakshya doesnt want to stay andhe didnt fight for swara when she cried and cried even in kavitha track.
even when he is slapped i said shomi should have done that .not Lakshya . he is aspineless character and now his ego is evrything. he always does wrong with swara and shomi bcoz they regard him or respect him others just dont care. he is foolish so i dont have any hope. abt swara she will talk after the crisis is solved she cant shout i want to do sr though my father is insulted and my sis is in crisis .


now coming to the bold portion i might not sound religious or something but i have different pov no offence intended.

ur lines say that a parent should forsake all the duties by marrying the daughter which is itself a faulty idea so when the wife is abused or under domestic violence or his husband is cheating then the parent's mentality is what u told and always should stay in husband house even if they are mentally or physically tortured .now also
at that Ram's time divorce is not acceptable. even i will tell lord Ram when left Sita for society is itself wrong and janak Raja didnt fight for her and take her home was also a crime .

what do u mean by leaving both the girls do u mean if girls parents family is in crisis she would just not get into it bcoz she is a girl . that means girls dnt have any responsibilty towards their parents they would say my husband is GOD so he can leave me for society for heartbreak but i cant go to my parent's house or stay there even in case of crisis and if I go my laws will throw me out .
as a girl my parents r my responsibility and i will regard my marriage but my parent have given me birth and led me into this world taught me i am thankful to them and i should always regard them more and i will care for them .




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If we go back to swaragini I think Shekhar is being totally unfair to swasan because he should have made clear in the beginning that swasan relationship is conditional to ragya


These are serious issues I only wanted to discuss Shekhar and swara ... Not the greater ills of society ..
Because no solution Is applicable to fit all .. Let's only stick to swaragini
Edited by msin - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin




Husband is not God
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If we go back to swaragini I think Shekhar is being totally unfair to swasan because he should have made clear in the beginning that swasan relationship is conditional to ragya


These are serious issues I only wanted to discuss Shekhar and swara ... Not the greater ills of society ..
Because no solution Is applicable to fit all .. Let's only stick to swaragini


true and u talked abt Ram so i said all this if it is shekhar plz dont even hope he is good for nothing . i have only hope from shomi and ofcourse for him not Ragya but Ragini is imp
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: reeyacute

Jis insaan ne apna dimaag daan mein de diya hai wo kanyadaan kya samjhega

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I do not know the exact literature meaning, but i know that father of the bride gives away his most precious wealth (Lakshmi) to the groom, thus acquiring salvation.
But it is also true that the parents always standby their children to protect them.

Here Shekhar is angry because of Lakshya and his daughter committing suicide. His anger is justifiable. But he also should understand that everyone were equally shocked as they had no inkling of what Lakshya was planning.

The cv's have always shown him a weak character, like Lakshya with instant reaction to situations and not stopping to think. He is not acting in the best interest of both his daughters. Though the relation and responsibility between daughter and parent don't end with marriage, but there is always a fine line which both need to understand, and not cross it.


Edited by NiViren-Raj - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wow how can you say Swara doesn't deserve Sanskaar?
just coz she is living with her parents doesn't mean she has given up on Sanskaar...

Whatever Swara is doing is a natural reaction expected from normal human being.

We are talking about Swara here... she is selfless..
And Sanskaar fell for this Swara only..

And yaa just coz you are married doesn't mean you have no responsibilities towards your own parents.

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