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Will Dr Anant and Anandi marriage happen ?
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They can be friends, but at the end it is serial.Originally posted by: Pams1234
## Such old fashion views. Girls can be friends with girls and boys as well.
Just because they talk and help each other does not mean marrisge numbet 3.
Let it be what happens - but I feel there has to be a conculsion.
Anant had his feelings, let it be conveyed and replied back by Anandi. Then it is upto her whether she prefers to remain as a well wisher or curve into a relationship.@Aparna,
Agree, everyone needs emotional and moral support from time to time from friends and family. But every relationship also has it's boundaries and priorities.
For example, one's spouse has the first right on any person, then comes their children, then their immediate family, close relatives and friends, then business colleagues, neighbours etc.
Whether in west or India, the circle of priority almost remains. Nowhere does an ex-husband and his family top the chart.
Is jagya and his family the only relation left in Anandi's life that for 12 years she only breathes with them?
Taking occasional or temporary support from male friends and colleagues is not the same is living with one of them in their house with their family for 12 years.
It would have been perfectly ok, if Anandi was living with Shekhars or even Khajan, because it would have been her right as DIL / daughter and within the boundaries of her relationship.
Anandi living with Dadisa outside of BH too wouldn't have been objectionable.
But living in the same roof as one's ex, and that too when the woman is fully capable to live on her, how justified is that?
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By the way, please let's not compare Anandi's well-fed lifestyle with other single women who have strived hard for their lives and made someone out of themselves.
It takes a lot of efforts to lead and maintain a progressive life. And if one has got there without much support - hats off to them. I truly respect such single women / mothers and I wouldn't want to compare their efforts or sacrifices with Anandi's
What has Anandi done to deserve any applause as a single woman / mother post Shiv? In the most difficult times of her life, she went back and parked herself happily in her ex-husband's house. Took benefits and support out of that.
If she anyways needs support then why is re-marrying a bad option?
Dadisa too was a single woman, but I never felt that she should remarry for the sake of support, simply because she made someone out of herself in the most adverse situation and even today she holds the capacity to run her life without any support.
Anandi is far from that. Even with all the legacy left behind by her husband, Anandi is not capable of leading her own life. She always needs support. She can't run and operate her own, neither financially nor emotionally.
By the way, Mangala nandini relationship is not the same as Jagya Anandi. Mangala Nandini is similar to Sumitra Anandi.
Just as Sumitra became Anandi's saas due to JaAn balvivah, Mangala became Nandini's tai saas due to Nimboli Kundan bal vivah.
After these girls Anandi and Nandini were ditched by their respective husbands, these women (Sumitra and Mangala) redefined their relationships with these girls. However Just as Kundan Nimboli cannot be turned into bro-sis, neither can JaAn.
Sumitra's son is not Anandi's brother and Mangala's nephew cannot become Nimboli's brother.
So syaing that if people can accept Mangala Nimboi, the why can't they accept Ja-An as friends is not one and the same.
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