Originally posted by Nisha0604
Unfortunately Taara real life is not clean cut, OK I have everything in this hour so I better be in my best behavior when something goes wrong at 2 PM I will show some anger and when 3PM the thing gets resolved I will be happy again, anger, resentment, disappointment, elation, phyiscal attraction, worry over unresolved issues float side by side in our brains
Atleast in MINE, i dont jump from one completely clear emotion to another, while a person can be happy husband bought candy on the way home, it doesnt negate the resentment over the fact that he was three hours late
The joy of him volunteering to stay home during lunch hour to sign on a courier that u were expecting will not take away the frustration that the oven was left on too long and the bread was burnt despite your telling him texting him and calling him a million times to turn it off
He is unwilling to touch her voluntarily, or make any moves, he refused to go pick up kesar badaam milk when she asked him to, they have a million unresolved issues between them (I WANT IT THAT WAY) so when she discovers he has been helping some random wannabe chick with her career it ticks her off
It might seem artificial to some but it is what it is
In Paris, I didnt have her be angry with any of his coworkers' wives or girlfriends, SHE COULD HAVE
But she didnt, she was happy "Satiated" so to speak in his love... only Marliese was the thorn on her side...
This is actually one of the reasons I absolutely LOVE the story and Nisha.
II is just like any of us.
If I were to put myself in her shoes - husband/partner hasn't ever really made his feelings clear. He's not quite had the best track record with relationships, especially emotional & long-term commitments. And. He's practically from a different world.
For me, just these facts would be enough to fuel my insecurities for years.
Add to that the fact that he is almost ignoring you (not just verbally, but physically also). And it seems like he's gone out of his way to help someone else.
That would drive me insane!!
It'd be maddening to figure out where you stand in his life, if you're even a permanent fixture, if he's in it just for the sex, and a zillion other insecurities.
Which is why...
To help her deal with her insecurities...
I'm still rooting for #TheDhamaka