Ahem's character is officially butchered!

After today's episode, I just hate Ahem! 🤢 Can his character ever be redeemed, no matter how much he apologizes to Gopi later on (if he even does)? He insulted her in every manner and treated her like a speck of dirt on the floor. I wish Gopi goes along with the divorce even before him and demands a high settlement. That would teach him and Kokila a lesson. 😉

Yeah, Ahem character is butchered. I want gopi to throw divorce papers on his face nd leave mm. Bcz so ahem wil marry his beloves witch radha. Kohem seriously deserves that radha. Koki nd radha wil be perfect MIL nd DIL. Gopi deserves much better.

RKJ, Ahem has always had a streak of selfishness in him but before, inspite of all his hatred towards Gopi, he did have some kind of pity for her.
But the man today was beyond redemption. I really don't mind him saying that he wants to divorce Gopi. I honestly don't but the one thing I cannot accept is throwing Radha on Gopi's face like that..

Ahem can be angry a lot for all he cares.. But throwing his wife's own sister at her face and saying that he would marry her, a girl who has lived in MM for 8 years and more, a girl he was about to be married only a days back.. How can he ever justify himself.

Hetal should be questioning Ahem on that.. She should tell him how low he has gone in his need to lash out. He not only has humiliated Gopi but he has also humiliated his relationship with his saali with whom until now he did not seem to have any kind of relationship.

There is no justification for Ahem and if Gopi questions his loyalty later, he cannot act victimized. He has dug his own grave.

While Gopi and Ahem will get together for sure, I don't think it will be the same. Ahem has crossed the line in the worst way possible.

Ahem wants to hurt Gopi as he believes she kept him away from his kids . First Meera then Vidya for 8 years . In both the cases she has a hand from his pov . He regards her as somebody who blocked him from his kids .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Ahem wants to hurt Gopi as he believes she kept him away from his kids . First Meera then Vidya for 8 years . In both the cases she has a hand from his pov . He regards her as somebody who blocked him from his kids .

Ahem told her he wants to prove to her he does not need her . What does this mean ? Why this necessity to prove this so forcefully to her ?

Simple . Coz he DOES need her and is ashamed of it . He does not want to prove to her anything , its more proving to himself .

He needs the woman who took his kids away from him . He is ashamed of this emotional need and is angry about it and wants to prove to himself that the need does not exist any more .

Also Gopi walked out on him . She did fine without him . It was he who remained in a vaccum , he who never was the same again . He did not walk out on Gopi nor did he do well after she had left .

He lost interest in living while she built a happy life . He was not part of this happy life .

That has angered him . Its not just the kids . He would have felt something if he had mattered but he sees it as if he did not . She seemed fine without him .

Now she has come back but he does not wish it like a child who hates the cause of his ardent need when furious . She has hurt him [ acc to him] so he wants to hurt her and unsettle her as much as he was so he rubbed her sister in her face .

See how he told her unconsciously to make green tea . See how he lived life like a dead log for the past 8 years .

Please , this is no attempt to say he is right , justified yada yada . Thats simply the way i see him . A deeply hurt man . Cruelty in emotions only comes to the fore when emotions r crushed .

He seems to do a tit for tat, you hurt me so I will hurt you back, it's childish behaviour, he should be resolving the issue not complicating it, Radha is already obsessed in gaining him and he is playing with fire.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

He seems to do a tit for tat, you hurt me so I will hurt you back, it's childish behaviour, he should be resolving the issue not complicating it, Radha is already obsessed in gaining him and he is playing with fire.

Thats how i saw him . He has been terribly hurt by the leaving and not needing him , together with the kids issues . He wants her to hurt as badly as she did . He is not in any frame of mind to resolve any thing . Radha is not even in his normal day to day scrutiny . He only sees her as a tool to hurt Gopi and he wants to hurt Gopi as SHE matters to him . One does not want to hurt the heart of someone one is indifferent to .