Nala has told the truth. A rape victim wouldn't forgive the rapist or tell he deserves a second chance.
We have to accept a rape victim will be sensitive about the sufferings of rape victims and so would not forgive the rapists.You say it like it's a bad thing - if dead bodies could talk, I have a strong feeling murder victims would feel the same way about their murderer. Why would you even expect or want a rape victim to forgive her rapist? Victims are not being "sensitive" about their suffering - they are entitled to demand justice for the agony and suffering they have been put through. All those responsible should be punished, that is the whole point of the justice system.What about those persons who are suffering because false cases are filed on them by their wives? Those persons include myself or Rukma Chari and we both will be sensitive to the problems faced by males. We can't look with respect persons including Kiran Bedi making anti male remarks in the public.How do you know which statistics are true and which are false and what is the ground reality? In every case, there are many confusing statistics. After all we are not against punishment to a rapist or punishment to a person who is really an offender. But we genuinely have concern over the way the law works. We accept they have made new laws, because the old laws did not help the females who are raped or harassed as wives. But the new laws are easily misused unfortunately and we have statistics to show that most of the women come with false rape cases and most of the women come up with false cases against their husbands.Care to please share those statistics? And when you do, please do elaborate how we should believe those stats over others since you claimed earlier that there is no way to determine which stats are true and which are false. Your claim that "most women file false rape cases" is sickening, especially when you refer to the Indian Subcontinent where most rape cases go unreported and rapists are rarely ever brought to justice. And when victims do attempt to report the crimes committed against them, they are humiliated and mistreated by the police. Once all those women and little girls are brought to justice and their rapists are rotting in jail for the rest of their lives, we can talk about the few who have been wrongfully accused.In any case, I thought marital rape wasn't even a criminal offense in India. When victims are forced to suffer silently because they are married to their rapists, where does the problem of women filing false cases against their husbands stem from?Will this situation help women? Unfortunately 'No'. This is something true feminists themselves accept. The old laws would definitely have helped women if only the judiciary were more efficient. But the judiciary is very lazy. The new laws are painful because they believe every woman is good and every male is a potential rapist or a wife-beater. True feminists are not happy with the laws behaving this way. If someday when everyone starts believing women put up false rape cases or false cases against husbands. the court could at times overlook the concern of a woman who has genuine concern. How will she get redressal for her grievances?Look up the definition of feminism. You sound ridiculous here - on a subcontinent that is known for the violence against women whether it's acid throwing, bride burning, honor killings, sexual violence, domestic violence, human trafficking etc etc etc - you've got some audacity there to demand to be going back to "old laws" to help women. What are these old laws? Please elaborate - do they involve turning a blind eye and allowing women to suffer through all this silently?The only way women could be helped is showing them their innate powers and how they can use their powers. the laws can help them only if the judiciary works efficiently.Women don't need you to show them what their "innate powers" are, they already know - it's the same powers bestowed upon men. The only purpose of a criminal justice system is to bring justice to those who have been wronged, regardless of their gender. That's it.
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