Three women in Anhsuman's life and their impacts

Hey All.
Happy valentines' day!!

Back after a while today.
The episode today was awesome Kudos to the entire cast and crew of Tumhari Paakhi...
My post today might look very boring and may even look annoying. but somehow just felt like sharing the thoughts I got after watching the show.

Anhusman has 3 important women is his life who loves him, but in their own way. Each individual has different thoughts and how they affect a vulnerable person like Anshuman. Just felt like sharing what I see and learn from those characters.. Sometimes these help in judging oneself...

Paakhi:
Woman of substance. Her character proves that anything can be achieved and or be changed with pure love and selfless thoughts. All needed is positive determination. That is what happened with Anshuman and Ayaan, her behaviour has affected both of them to a great extent. As we can clearly see the change in Anshuman and Ayaan before and after Paakhi's existence in their lives.
There are times I used to feel that in this present world following ethics and being honest does not work so we tend to change ourselves to fit in to the present life structure, But seriously Paakhi's character which is very rare to find and I think could only be seen in imagination proves that with pure and selfless thought anything can be be achieved all needed is just patience and positive attitude and approach. Even the obstacles in this path get cleared on its own by making the individual more stronger and wiser.

Tanya:
She is Beautiful, Talented, Educated and Rich but??? She lacks the main ingredient called character. As Paakhi mentioned she just loves herself and nothing. All she wants is Anshuman at any cost inspite knowing that Anshuman does not really having feelings for her she just manipulated him for getting married. In today's episode the way she lied to Anshuman despite seeing his suffering from guilt. Is that love Tanya? and you did this even after Paakhi's advice??? These sort of people go to any extremes to get what they want.
Her character shows that inspite of having evrything a self-obsessed person truly has nothing. By the time they realize what they have done it would have been very late.

Lavanya:
She is another typical women, who has her own perception on everything, She lives in Black and White world where only she decides what is what and never dares to judge self nor listens to anyone. She sometimes appear very funny and sometimes very irritating . Its hard to judge these sort of people her character portrayal is to remind : Not to be too haste in judging anyone, And to think before you act/speak.

Let me as well post the famous and beautiful quote I got reminded now

"Watch your thoughts. They become words.
Watch your words. They become deeds.
Watch your deeds. They become habits.
Watch your habits. They become character.
Character is everything."

How True it is...every individual's destiny is set based on their thoughts.
Just want to mention Sorry if in case this post looks stupid..

A well thought out post⭐️

The three women in Anshuman's life as you rightly put it have been influenced by the others they grew up and live with.

To a person like Paakhi, family, relationship, truth, honesty and love are imbibed and forms the crux of her existence. That is what she brought with her to Anshuman and Ayaan. these concepts were completely new to Anshuman and Ayaan but they saw the beauty in this very quickly. I have a feeling they probably craved for these values themselves but until Paakhi, they never understood what they missed.

Now Tanya is probably an example of others who surround Anshuman and that is Anshuman himself was like Tanya only a short while ago. I cannot completely fault Tanya but I think it is not right of her to put the lives of others in risk to get what she wants. To want something and fight for it is human but when it crosses a line, then it goes into a grey area.. 🥱 The moment Tanya started playing with lies and manipulation thus hurting Paakhi, Anshuman and Ayaan in the process, she lost her credibility to argue for her love towards Anshuman.

As for Lavanya, she is a confusing character. I pity her at times for the huge burden she carried. But she manages to make me irritated by her highly hypocritical approach towards who she considers as lesser mortals. If only she could empathize as a woman with Paakhi, she will be in a much better place.

All three women have had varying impacts with Anshuman. Tanya is Anshuman's female version. Anshuman will see himself in the mirror when he starts to see Tanya for who she is in the coming episodes. He will realize just how ruthless and manipulative he has been.
Lavanya, being the elder sister has to her credit stayed by Anshuman through thick and thin but the problem is that her morals are skewed and hence what she teaches Anshuman is also skewed. Being a wrong guide, she has managed to give more trouble to Anshuman than otherwise but I do believe that Tanya wants only good for Anshuman. There is no doubt that she loves her brother without conditions.
Paakhi has brought a whiff of fresh air to Anshuman's way of thinking and that is going to be his savior in the end. To his already existing skills, Anshuman will add a conscience which will only serve him better in the future.😊

really loved your analysis😊😊😊

@Justlikethat1

Originally posted by: skm27395

really loved your analysis😊😊😊

sanju what an analysis loved to read it It was far from borig or annoying In fact i am poor in expressing that agreed with your views

Awesome analysis.

yup agree with you thoughts

Coudnt agree more on the analysis by everyone! well said and the impact on his life of these three women is seen quite deeper and he behaves and do things like these women ask him to.

loved ur post,very thgtfull one😃