Reporter - Because we have a wonderful, stunningly beautiful looking Sanaya with us, everyone want to know what this beautiful gal from Mumbai is going to do on Valentine's day.
Sanaya - OMG!! Everybody is asking me that. So nothing really. I have never really celebrated Valentine's day. But I am sure, I will be with Mohit on that day and, I don't know, we will go out for dinner or something.
No we have not planned anything. We never really celebrate it as such, but , like, we are making time to just be with each other on that day.
Everybody was eager to know about their Valentine plans when they had actually not decided anything regarding it except for being with each other. They would have dinner or something together.
Reporter - They say, everyday is a valentine's day when you are with your loved ones...
Sanaya - It is. I completely believe that. I don't think you need a day. but some people need it. The ones who are not very expressive, they need a day to express their love. So, I am also the kind of the not expressive one...
So she does believe that everyday is a valentine when you are with your loved ones. She does not need a specific day to express her love. She can do it any time she wants.
Reporter - Really??
Sanaya - Yaa.. yaa, I am not. I am really ... I am just not an expressive person. I do it through gestures, but not like...I find it really hard.
*ahem ahem* She really does not express it but do it through gestures *sounds too romantic*
Reporter - That is a very sweet thing for a girl, right??
Sanaya - People, they tell me like, you are like a stone, you have no reaction. Like sometimes my friends would be like, don't you have a heart?? Don't you get hurt?? I am like, No, I mean, everything happens, i feel everything, but I just can't express it.
Everybody has its own way to expressing emotions.
Reporter - One thing you remember, someone has done something special for you. Even if you don't want to name that person, on a valentines day, or in love...
Sanaya - No, no, I have had a very sad life. Even though people find it hard to believe that...like you know...oooh, she must have been wooed by a lot of guys... No...Never...
I remember Valentine's Day that used to go by in college, people used to be like planning their days, and I would be like, even my friends don't ask me. You don't need like a date to ask you...somebody... and I, my father would be like...baby, you come with me. we will do dinner on valentine's day. So yaa, no, I have not really been wooed.
Yeah, of course it is because she was waiting for him to be with her.
Reporter - Any unforgettable stuff??
Sanaya - No, I mean Mohit now does a lot of...
Aww, that's why he is her sweetheart.
Reporter - Writing in blood and all that??
Sanaya - Eww, no. Mohit does a lot of sweet things for me and this completely applies to him, that you do not need valentine's day... for him everyday he makes...yaa, he does a lot of things. Don't really want to say what all he does. he is the one who has made me feel, that it is ok. There is a boy in my life now.
Everyday is special when they two are together, so they really don't need Valentine Day. He makes her everyday, a Valentine Day. He makes her feel the most special by doing lot of things for her. She did not mention them because they are too personal for her.
Reporter - Love exists...
Sanaya - Yaa yaa, it exists. People don't just ignore me. Yes I am here.
People can't ignore you ever. You are our barbie doll and his baby.
Reporter - That is so sweet Sanaya. You are actually like pouring your heart out. That is quite cute. Sanaya, 5 things...you have been in a relationship for quite long. Every relationship has its stages of ups and downs. You fight and you argue and you still make up. The 5 do's and don't when you are in love.
Sanaya - I am the worse person to say this. But, don't lie, that is one thing I am very against and it is not about relationship, it is generally about life. I think, cowards lie. I think when you are not strong enough to say the truth, that's when you lie. So don't ever lie.
And I think being loyal comes as a part of that. So be loyal in your relationship. Do express... from somebody who doesn't express, I am telling you, do express, because it feels very good.To express and to be expressed to. So be expressive in your relationship. What do you think?? (she asks the reporter)
Totally agree with her. One should never lie in relationship and be loyal to the person. May be she herself is not so expressive but she likes it when he expresses his feelings to her.
Reporter - I think, trust.
Sanaya - But trust comes with the part of not lying, being loyal and all, I think all of that comes. That is one of the most important things.
Yes, you can only trust when the person is true to you and remain loyal.
Reporter - Space??
Sanaya - Yes, very important in a relationship, but, not to the extent where you completely space that person out of your life. So I understand when people say, oh, he gives me space and she gives me, but I feel that, after some time, that's the reason where the disconnect happens.
Sometimes we feel that we have lost out on the other person because of this giving space business. So I am not saying be overbearing, but, it should be a balance, I think.
You are cent percent correct. Too less and too much space ruin a beautiful relationship. Omg! She is too good in understanding true meaning of relationships and give so much value to them.
Edited by aashuu07 - 10 years ago
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