||DABH- Celebrating 2 Years of Magic||

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*Journey of Sandhya Kothari to Sandhya Rathi*

(by shrutiravi; Siggies - ramasuresh)

P.S:- Sandhya K = Sandhya Kothari; Sandhya R = Sandhya Rathi.

Phase 1- Sandhya K marries Sooraj Rathi

• Sandhya K a young ambitious girl is orphaned at a young age of 19 and her brother in his greed to migrate to US decides to marry her off. The girl who is under severe trauma of her parents unexpected death goes through the painful thing of losing her dream of becoming an IPS officer during her marriage. If that was not enough more trauma awaited her in the knowledge that her husband is actually only school educated and is a sweet maker. Her brother has not only lied to her , but also to her in laws about her educational qualifications. Her frustration aggravates when her MIL asks her to forsake everything she has and sacrifice the rest of her life only and only for her husbands  family in addition to providing a heir within a year. Sandhya K is battered and bruised emotionally and she takes all her frustrations on her husband thus ending a phase with a disastrous SR.

Phase 2- Sandhya K falls in love with Sooraj Rathi

• Slowly  Sandhya realizes that her husband is good at heart. Irrespective of his mothers tantrums he tries to help her in every possible way. Sandhya K starts respecting him. Her respect for him grows when he stops her from being thrown out of RP by sharing the blame with her. She takes the 15 day test laid out by her MIL with his help. But at the end of it when she hears her MIL again taunting her sanskaars and calling her a liar she loses all control and again shows all her frustrations on her husband. This combined with divorce papers he saw make Sooraj take the decision of liberating Sandhya K from the suffocating marriage. But actually the divorce papers given by her friend had made Sandhya K think about the relationship status with her husband and she had decided to start loving him. Whereas she tries to tell her feelings he tries to throw her out and finally after the bus accident the lovers unite involuntarily expressing their feelings for each other. This phase of their lives culminate in Singapore when both profess they love each other. But even at that point Sandhya K is a girl who is enjoying all the attention Sooraj is showering on her, but still not yet ready to take their relationship to next level. We can say she is happy being Soorajs GF  but would not prefer to be a wife yet.

Phase 3 " Sooraj Rathi decides to support Sandhya K dream

• Now Sooraj knows about Sandhya K dreams and decide to support it. As far as Sandhya is concerned at this point Sooraj is actually doing a favour to her parents by deciding to support their dream. Hence Bhabos disapproval creates a problem for her. Sandhya K wants to prove herself to be a good bahu so that Bhabo never questions her parents Sanskaar. Hence she goes on trying to impress Bhabo. Even when Sooraj says he will shut his shop if she doesnt  join night college she waits for Bhabo to ask her to go and stop him. Then comes the matka challenge. Sandhya K feels that if she wins the challenge then Bhabo will also be happy in supporting  her dream. So she runs around taking challenge after challenge . Though Sooraj is supporting her we can see that it is she who is trying to prove herself in front of Bhabo. This running around continues till she knows LC and understands that Matka challenge is a farce. Her MIL does not want her to be IPS and whatever she does she will not get Bhabos approval for IPS. Sandhya K is tired and defeated running after this. She does not want to continue and decides to give up her dream for being an ideal Bahu.

Phase 4- Sandhya K becomes Sandhya R

• When  Sandhya K decides to throw away her dream she had expected it will be impacting her only. But after 2^nd MP the husband she sees in the ghat brings to her a new realization. She sees Sooraj shattered for the first time. She hears him pleading to her to have faith and try to save the last matka as it has become his dream to make her IPS. He wants to be known as the husband of Sandhya Sooraj Rathi IPS. After this Sandhya K sees a rejuvanted Sooraj arguing for her rights in front of his mother. When he gives the last matka as guarantee to Bhabo telling that it is a husbands trust on his wife she realizes for the first time that her dream has another stakeholder and she no longer can take decision about it alone. For the first time we Sandhya R when she goes for SBC. More than her abilities she keeps her trust on him. Slowly but steadily she allows him to carry her. Now again when Bhabo does EA before the finals Sandhya K takes charge and she decide to go in sacrifice mode. But when again Sooraj asks her to keep her trust on him and to concentrate on the competition she becomes Sandhya R again and Sandhya R for the first time wins over Sandhya K.

• Now her expectation of what Sooraj will do was that he will pacify Bhabo. Instead he decides to walk out of home. Sandhya K pokes her head again asking what he is doing.Again we saw her father asking her to believe in Sooraj ie become Sandhya R and again Sandhya R will win over. We will see in this 15 days many situations where Sandhya K the ideal bahu will fight will Sandhya R the ideal wife and each time the final victory will go to Sandhya R. After some time only Sandhya R Soorajs shadow will remain completely overriding Sandhya K.

• It will not take Sandhya R long time to be a wife to Sooraj in every sense and in due time she will become a mother too. It is not because Bhabo wants a heir , but because she wants to give happiness to Sooraj.

• Oh yes she will become Sandhya Sooraj Rathi IPS. But just like the identity of Twilight or Sandhya  as a separate identity is an illusion the separate identity of Sandhya Sooraj Rathi IPS will also be an illusion. She will be just an expression of Sooraj Rathi. All her actions will have the stamp of life lessons he has imparted her. She will go up, up as she sees pride and love in his eyes for her. She in every sense will become Soorajs shadow even while being an IPS officer. Just like his love and support to her is unconditional, her surrender to him also will be unconditional

Ironically this was what Bhabo has always wanted. Sandhya having no separate identity. It was for this she tortured, coerced and humiliated the poor girl, but the son will manage to achieve the same by his respect , love and  support for her.

I would like to conclude this analysis by telling a man decides to love, respect, support and allow a woman to be herself and in return she gives herself away to him. In the process both of them dont lose anything but gain everything. In this era of divorces on the drop of a hat and every action is viewed through the prism of male chavunism and feminism the beautiful message DABH imparts is that Sooraj and Sandhya are not ready made products available in market. They are as imperfect as anyone of us. But the effort they put to make them perfect for each other is what sets them apart and if every couple put the right effort they also can make their marriage beautiful and successful.

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Edited by Tacker_Holic - 10 years ago

Edited by Tacker_Holic - 10 years ago

PP on behalf of entire dabhily

Edited by ramasuresh78 - 10 years ago

Thread is now open!

WoW wonderful thread Sonia...👏

Thank you to all who contributed, havent go through all yet, read some, the creations are really really good...well done friends ⭐️

Congrats to DABH for completing the remarkable two years...what a beautiful journey...never got hooked to a TV show like this...I wish the show more success and my wishes to all DABHians here too...coz no show survives without fans...proud to be a fan of this show 😳




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