I have seen many person like buaji...they are not bad but they just wanted to hold what had been taught or seen by them in their life till now...
If you ask explaination how it will harm the baby by doing this they will be unable to answer...it is all their believe...even worse...if you only have 1 kid after so many years of marriage. ..some will be reluctant to invite those people to participate in rituals of the ceremony. ..can you imagine our jalil society that still exist and we are part of it. 😕
Thanks to cv for bringing up this issue now with modern girls thought