Thoughts on RK...and my past

I made this post over in frustration thread however not everyone visits that thread. For some reason, maybe selfish, I want more people to read my thoughts.

Originally posted by: rahmona_pakswe

I am incredibly frustrated with RK (this is about RK and NOT Vivian, he is playing RK tremendously well). RK's behaviour towards Madhu is hard to digest. I can not find one reason that justifies his behaviour. I can't go "he's so hot it's ok if he treats women badly", "he was abandoned by his father it's ok to be rude towards everyone", "oh poor him...he was so alone growing up it's ok if he lash out on every walking talking person". Just because you had a difficult past does not give you the right to behave badly.

Maybe his treatment of Madhu reminds me of my own past which might be the reason why I get so emotional. My ex-husbands never hit me but their words and behaviour hit me emotionally harder than anything. I try to detach myself while watching the show but sometimes it hits a nerve and it hurts like hell!!!

The only way I could forgive RK will be through redemption. That doesn't mean he has to become lovesick puppy making moon eyes at Madhu. He should keep his personality but add a bit of humanity.

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Awesome post Mona! I agree with you! 👍🏼

Great post! It is disgusting to see ppl supporting such emotionally abusive relationship!

we all are agree with you that's the reason of mine to stop watching this show how cvs think that RK character which they are portray is forgive able to any women i m not married but i understand that no women can tolerate this type of psycho guys i want to say that cvs are sick
they totally spoil or destroy madhubala  story rk character i am big fan of Vivian d Sena from PKYEK only because of his performance and because of RK character i stop watching this show. i don't believe that any women has such power a husband humiliate her that much and after that second day she is on job or doing job with that husband
i believe that fiction films too has some subject but what in this show don't understand.

its becoming unbearable to even read the WU much less watch it...I do not see the justification either...the picture being painted of RK is actually terrible...

nice post Mona...

Mona I can say I have seen such abusive relationsip of frnd...she with no self respect forgave her husband tons of times...to be tortured mentally...physically at his hand...and still with him Edited by Silentsoul - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: utopia88

Awesome post Mona! I agree with you! 👍🏼

RK needs to repent! He betrayed Madhu! He needs to let go of his huge ego. Hopefully Madhu won't go back to RK too easily. I'm also sorry that you had to deal with emotional abuse in real life. 😊

Abusers do not repent!!! Ask Mona ...did her 2 ex husbands repent? Did they change???

As for you ask yourself this question:

At the cost of countless girls in real life being influenced into thinking characters like RK repent and change, do you want CVs to show RK repenting? Just because Vivian is so good lucking and both him and Drashti Dhami are such good actors and the ways the scenes are shown of them togather, it looks good. Is it worth it?
Think of the damage.

Originally posted by: rahmona_pakswe

I made this post over in frustration thread however not everyone visits that thread. For some reason, maybe selfish, I want more people to read my thoughts.




Disclaimer: I will NOT tolerate bashing or mocking in my topic. I don't bash or mock others and I expect the same from you. Healthy and mature discussions are accepted with open arms. Thanks!

Dear Mods if I have broken any rule please close the topic.

Honey I am so sorry for you for what you went through. There are countless girls and women who endure this and much worse.

Did YOUR ex husbands repent and change??? No they didn't. So why are you still expecting this? Even in a serial? Don't you think showing RK as repenting and Madhu living with him happily ever after sends out the wrong  msg that men like him change? Think of the countless young naive impressionable girls who will think that their love and support with change a man like this and that he will love them back. Abusers do not change.

Please read my thread, and the number of forum members who agree with you that RK is an abuser and a psychopath 😊

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/3525939

Sorry to hear about your experience...