The reason for Anandi's Childish Behavior!!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Everyone is making a post so I will also make a post!! A colorful one!! 😆All the posts on BV are either about Ganga's Entry into BV or Anandi's No entry into AnSh Marriage……😆

Since at present I have not watched any of Ganga's scenes I shall keep my post only around Anandi's.😉

Anandi is acting childish!! She pretends to sleep or hides behind work or makes adrak juice with "how to do tutorials" and so on. We all feel its better she has a talk about it with Shiv and handles this delicate situation with grace and maturity. 😕

But my view on Anandi's behavior is that "She does not want to hurt Shiv". She knows how much he loves her and also how much he is enthusiastic about their emotional and physical relationship. Also she has gone through rejection in these areas and she knows how much painful it is. She does not want Shiv to feel the same so instead of telling him she is hiding from him. She is not ready for it at present because this marriage was again almost forced on her by her mother's dying wish. It is true that she likes Shiv and respects him immensely. It is also true that she will love him wholeheartedly and completely in the future, but now she just wants some time to gather her thoughts and make herself ready.

Jagya left her, Divorce finalized, DS made a proposal, Shiv accepted, Bhago made her promise to marry Shiv, Shiv's family agreed, Wedding was arranged, problems with Choti Ma earlier, problems with Sanchi now and such a Great Grand Wedding. The girl definitely needs some time to cool down. Top of it Collector Saab is zooming on with full josh.😆She knows if she asks for more time he may feel rejected or dejected and that is why she is trying to run away from him and his "Casanova's attempts" (pun intended)

Give her some time (only time as she has a great understanding husband already😆) and we all can see a beautiful AnSh marriage unfolding.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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It's a really colorfull post 😆
And yes it is true that she doesnt want to hurt Shiv and she couldnt figure out how to say her discomfortness to Shiv
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Posted: 12 years ago
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In middle shiv was ready to break the engagement, jagya wanted her back but she made everyone believe including shiv and choti maa that she has left her past behind. They are not showing nervousness but revulsion to be with shiv. I think anandi is proving saanchi and other ladies correct. She should have never married shiv.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree if she was not mentally prepared she would have told shiv before... She requested shiv to marry her, and now behaving stupidly.. She woulhave handled more maturely. One side she gives pravachan mei ghar walo se jhooth kaise bolu otherside she pretends with shiv... I wish sanchi comes to know this and gives her a piece of mind
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Posted: 12 years ago
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U r totally ryt...she doesn't hurt shiv bt slowly she z preparing herself nd 2dy she vl speak...so i dnt hv any prob vd cv,dy r dng gr8 nd showing real things...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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after lots of thinking what i think is anandi's bold behaviour is limited to only her professional life.
lets see...anandi never opened up her problems to sumitra or gehna regarding jagya...even after jagya rejected her, it was only after bhairon went to mumbai did they came to know the real situation...anandi has always been submissive in her personal life...jab wo bolti thi toh jagya sunta nahi tha aur phir bechari ne khud hi zubaan par tala laga diya...ab jab shiv aya toh anandi ne usse khol kar baat ki par that was becoz he was her professional partner aur engagement baad sayad anandi iss baad ko register hi nahi kar payi ki collector saab uske honewale pati hai kyuki shiv khud usse ek dost ke tarah behave aata tha...but now when anandi has accepted shiv as her husband her submissive( patni wala) behaviour has returned as she sees him as her husband...and let's not forget that anandi comes from a conservative family where never saw much open-ness between husband-wife thanks to dadisa
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes libs ! thank you!

There are alot reasons why she behaves that way.

She is strong only outside. She is very much broken from inside.
Shiv has done a LOT to improve that and she has moved on tremendously ...and she will continue to do that. Just the pace needs to be set.

Shiv's wanting to have physical intimacy triggered her submissive side--which was already coming to surface due to that SR Room and atmosphere.

They will solve this together :) no worries
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Posted: 12 years ago
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🤗sanju seeing u after long time do u remember me ??

btw watever u said is right am nw bored of similar kinda posts this forum needs some fun!!

ur post is very colorful and true ajee doesnt knw hw to xpress her fears !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i have a point of view - many mothers particularly in rural and uneducated classes teach their daughters that sex is what a man wants and a woman's lot is to 'give'. even in early christian teachings, spanish orthodox period and in england, girls were told that that is something that men want and a girl has to 'give', meaning that she has to pretend to go along. such teachings are real and happens in day to day life in india, that urban india today has men and women who have healthy interest in life is another matter altogether.

given that context anandi's behaviour 'yeh humse nahi hoga' is so much a part of that teaching that anandi has forgotten (may be never knew) that she could have also been a fun company to her husband instead of being a boring baggage with only lectures, ginger juice and tears. must be the most boring marriage, tears and then at night chase her around and carry her to bed and sleep on your own. so exciting that shiv can't wait for the next episode

choti ma and saanchi you were so right
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think we should wait for some time, CVs may clarify. Generally, BV CVs give very good explanation like why Anandi did not want to file a case against Jagya for bigamy. I hope this time also it is some good reason and not like pyar ek hi bar hota hai etc. Personally I did not like this track, but may be there is a reason to show this (other than dragging and to create drama).

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