Cope w Barun's break - knowing you are not alone

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Posted: 11 years ago
You've been dealt a shocking news. 

Deal with this change knowing its a process. Here is what you will go through

1. First reaction to any bad news is shock and disbelief.
Is it true? I am so shocked, is barun really quitting?
Is the PH shutting the show?
I can't believe this, the rumors are beyond comprehension

2. Then comes Denial
No, Barun can't do that to us.
No way the PH is messing with the story
Gosh what were they thinking? The show will be ruined without him.
How can they kill their baby?
This is not done, we will protest, we will fight this to the end

3. Then comes Anger
Blame the PH, they are responsible for it, they should have paid Barun more, they should have could have what have you
Blame Barun, he wanted to quit and leave tehs how, he was never into it after the movie, so on and so forth.
Look at this pathetic forum. They don't deserve Barun.
Look at the fans, are they even fans, ungrateful!!

4. Then comes Bargaining
Can we retain him till we get a happy ending?
Will he come back after his long break?
Can we not have Khushi fall in love with someone else?

5. Then comes Guilt
We were bad fans
We called him unprofessional
We should have been nicer to PH
We never appreciated him
We should have stopped the show after wedding
We should have never gotten attached to a show

6. Then comes Sadness/Depression
I am done with all shows
I can never love an onscreen character as I loved Sarun
I am so sad, i can't begin to express it in words

7. Finally, Acceptance and hope
Maybe this new storyline is not so bad afterall
The new guy is ok, i will wait for BS to return
Oh, guys, there is this other show and their Rabba Veys are so good, 
I am switching to this other mood boosting show

Now that you know what to expect from yourself, you are better prepared. 

I am no Deepak Chopra but these are the seven stages of grief. 
For some of the youngest members of the forum struggling with this news, and finding ways to share and deal with the move of their favorite star, you have a place to express it and move on. 

Take care Sarunians and all the best. And let Barun move to the next stage of his career with good memories, wish him luck. 

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.Euphoria. thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
My motto right now-


Edited by .Euphoria. - 11 years ago
7_sneha_7 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
A sensible one...good work...
Manasvy thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
Awesome SJ !! this will deffo help us!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
My. Only issue is. Why they had to kill such a beautiful story,
 
Sultan_Of_Swing thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
The question a majority of young people in this forum need to ask themselves- Is a show and a male lead so important that we are considering holding protests, hunger strikes and also organising group prayers.

People need to get a perspective, watching a TV show is a piece of entertainment, it's just that. Don't let it over rule your life.

There is more to life than Barun Sobti and IPK.

Please move on.


Edited to add- please reserve your protests and prayer for actual real serious issues in life. Trust me you will need them when you grow up to face all the challenges life throws at you.


And that's my 4000th post in IF, I probably need to get a lyfe.Edited by Naach_Basanti - 11 years ago
serialjunkie thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
everyone's allowed to feel bummed out. 
but only for a few days
life goes on. 
show must go on.

pacsun thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
** BIG LONG DEEP SIGH ***
 
Yes. Let's wish him luck, and try to move on.
 
I will though for sure miss the Forum.
 
 
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Posted: 11 years ago
Well said SJ!!

We will miss him, but everything is OK eventually... I for one am glad for all the beautiful Arshi moments and opportunity to interact with like minded people on IF :-)

Nancy
Edited by nancy_ipkknd - 11 years ago
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A show is not more than our lives.. we all have our lives.. IPK was a very very good show.. In fact it would be hard to find another show as good as IPK.. BS and SI hav etheir own lives.. BS is leaving good for him..

Lets forget and move on.. Young ppl in this forum will have their own real Rabba Ves😳 ..

There will be other shows and wonderful things in our lives.. so let IPK go ... Accept the reality