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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

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Posted: 13 years ago

It is time for some truth.
Since the current track of this show is focusing on the exposure of Shyam's crime done towards Anjali I feel to know all of your Point of Views about this track.
I have seen many posts wishing justice for Anjali and many posts holding Anjali responsible for what happened to her.
So can you please me some honest replies.I know some people here hate Arnav and some people hate Khushi.But let's keep aside this hatred for a while and concentrate on Anjali.

Do you feel from inside that Anjali is a mother figure to Arnav?
Anjali herself told Shyam that she and Arnav never discussed their past openly.
Tell me is there any topic which you do not discuss with your mother openly?
Tell me do your mother shed tears in front of you despite of knowing that you will get badly hurt by those tears?
Tell me do your mother ask you to leave her room just after you came back home after being kidnapped?
Tell me do your mother lie to you or does she teach you not to lie?
Tell me do your mother buy clothes by your hard earned money when you have only two clothes?

Now coming to Anjali's justice.
Do you think Anjali should get a justice for trusting shyam?
Then what about Arnav?He should also get a justice.He trusted Anjali.But Anjali lied to him.
Do you think we should have sympathy for Anjali as she lost her child?
Will you ever try to kill your child?
Will you go on a hunger strike just the day after you loose your kid?
Will you make Kheer for your husband just the day after you loose your child?
Will you completely forget about your child and keep wearing transparent sarees?

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Afya

@Afya

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think Anjali is a mother figure for Arnav. He cares for her and loves her unconditionally like he would if his mother was alive. He takes cares of her. He feels responsible for her. He makes sure she is happy. I believe in his love for Anjali. I think it's pure and clean.

Can't say the same for Anjali though. I think she is extremely selfish and cares more about herself than anyone else really. Her love for Arnav is conditional. Her love is closely linked to him providing for her and pampering her. She uses Arnav truly. She is not evil but an emotionally and financially insecure person and a very selfish one too.

Does she love him the way he loves her? Of course not!

Is her love as true as his? Of course not!

Just realised, I haven't answered your other questions. Or may be I did.

''She is extremely selfish and cares more about herself than anyone else really.''

That also includes her child.

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.Brooke.

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Posted: 13 years ago

For Arnav yes Anjali is a mother figure as he was so closed to her mother and what happened on that day to his mother and sister.He always loved and take care for her .He just want happiness for her which is every brothers' dream.But Anjali can be a mother or sister only when it suits her.If she is happy then her bro can be happy if she is sad then everyone should be sad.She is selfish by nature.She did not listen to Arnav when he was telling about Shyam.A mother always give a chance to her kids to tell her what they want.But forget every thing which he had done for her over the years.If she has blind faith in Shyam then she also has trust in her chote.How could he done wrong with her.Last night she did not hesitate for a sec of giving him money which does not belong to her or her hubby.At least when spending money she now should think twice Arnav does not like Shyam so how can I give his money to him.

Khushi does not seen like a married woman of a rich man.Same clothes they were short shirts before now long anarkalis,same earrings no necklace,ring etc.Dressea are all old ones even the red saree of diwali and blouse of haldi.Khushi was belong to poor family so she wears ordinary clothes now belongs to a rich family still no improvement in her dressing.

Justice to Anjali yes no one can imagine of committing such a grave crime.But what about justice to Khushi who is a victim for more than a year of harassment,cheating and causing her father to death bed.

And Arnav whoes property was stolen God knows about the current status of it,took advantage of his wife and kidnapped him and attempt to murder him.

Are not these consider as crimes and victims need justice as they are sufferers for longer than Anjali

Justice delayed means justice denied.

This Anjali will slap Shyam of killing of unborn but she was all forgiving when he tried to kill her brother.Why now she is selfish when it comes to her happiness.That poor baby belonged to Shyam also but yes this time she needs justice and punishment for Shyam

This shows the incinsistency of the character one all loving caring, forgiving then self centered ,mean and cheat.

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Posted: 13 years ago

I keep aside my dislike for arnav,anjali and their bond and say that except the inital 2-3 months of IPK anjali has never been a motherly figure to arnav.

That anjali had this calm aura around her,remember her in the first episode on the stage?She didn't smile or touch excessively,didn't try too hard to be adorable,just in her own small ways tried making arnav happy.

This one pouts like a baby,her voice is like a baby and if her kid wouldn't have died,anjali would have competed with her baby in the attention department.

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Mihrimah Ahmed

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Posted: 13 years ago

ya I agree to ur points as those have logic...but think in Arnav's POV...according to him Anjali is his motherly figure..we have seen from very beginning how Arnav values her, what is her place in his life...he respects and admires Anjali as his mother...

yes Anjali did lot of things which r simply niether forgettable nor forgivable...I hated n cursed her during those days

but its also true she suffered the most n going to suffer after knowing the truth...she lost her child,has been trusting a creep husband since 5 years,loves him madly and he's cheating on her,killed her unborn baby,poured fake love n lot more...I'm not emphathized but as a girl I feel sympathy for her

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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tamy267
ya I agree to ur points as those have logic...but think in Arnav's POV...according to him Anjali is his motherly figure..we have seen from very beginning how Arnav values her, what is her place in his life...he respects and admires Anjali as his mother...
yes Anjali did lot of things which r simply niether forgettable nor forgivable...I hated n cursed her during those days
but its also true she suffered the most n going to suffer after knowing the truth...she lost her child,has been trusting a creep husband since 5 years,loves him madly and he's cheating on her,killed her unborn baby,poured fake love n lot more...I'm not emphathized but as a girl I feel sympathy for her

I said in the first para that this post is neither about Arnav nor about Khushi.

Again I am asking you how did Anjali suffered the most when she herself attempted to kill the baby?
If she was so madly in love with Shyam then why she did not leave with him when Arnav threw away Shyam.
Please give some logical answers to my question.

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Archu

@cocoatree

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Posted: 13 years ago

well very good post👍🏼

yes..After all she is selfish

Never she consoles herself as a best sis but no ?

someway she betrayed him badly

she had a thin layer of adorable n selfishness

when it comes to arnav he is always a good sister .. but for me she really doesn't deserve him.

actually both arnav n anjali r in blind bonding towards themselves ..i can't say they r true beocz indeed she betrayed him badly..so i can't accept her..Better i feel very bad for arnav n khushi.

How can a big hole can sealed by small hole ???

My POV is eventhough Arnav's love .affection .pure to her..but its not fully from Anjali's side😊

The point She considered as mother of arnav in which way..mother ll sacrifice n shows true love..but not in case of anjali..After all she knows that becoz of shyam raizadas happiness fades away..how can we considered her as a mother ?? Althought their emotional touch up.talk. pain in b/w these r not fulfilled in somewhere it left a clincher i felt..Canit' understand her trust towards shyam😕

Anjali indeed a good sister but her selfishness erased it

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-SI-

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Posted: 13 years ago

All I can say is this woman is the most stupidest woman in serial history... Anjali needs therapy... BAS!!

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Su_Somerholic

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Posted: 13 years ago

There was a time when I used to adore Anjali but now I totally hate her.

I don't understand that woman at all!!! She claims to love her husband, yet when he was insulted, she didn't move out with him, instead continued to stay at her brother's house and blackmail him. She claims to love her Chottey, yet she gives zero importance to him and makes sure he bends to all her wishes. When her baby died, instead of grieving his death, she resorted to blackmailing to bring back her husband.

I find her the most selfish character in IPK. If she's happy, then everyone should be happy, but if she's suffering, she'll make sure rest of the family suffers with her.

Coming to your first question- "Do you feel from inside that Anjali is a mother figure to Arnav?"-

Oh and did I mention NO??

Instead its Arnav who has become a parental figure to her.

On a side note, can someone please ask her not to pout, smile/cry excessively, and cling to Arnav. Her attempts at looking adorable are failing badly. She looks creepy now. 😕

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Mihrimah Ahmed

@ShadeOfWhite

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

I said in the first para that this post is neither about Arnav nor about Khushi.

Again I am asking you how did Anjali suffered the most when she herself attempted to kill the baby?
If she was so madly in love with Shyam then why she did not leave with him when Arnav threw away Shyam.
Please give some logical answers to my question.

she was not at all being herself when she attempted to kill her baby..n about going with Shyam when he was thrown out I guess she was hell shocked that she couldnt even react in the situation

as I told u, I hated her that time...but ya nothing can justify her delusional and kiddish behavior..that was a different Anjali we saw not the Anjali we r used to

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