19. Respect
Thank you Ruby for keeping my space everyday, have been very busy lately... so would like to take a break from the question hour segment for sometime... thank you all for attempting those silly ones... and giving such cute replies...
Sana and Payal... you both rock !!!!
Do you (Arnav) take (Khushi) to be your lawful wedded wife? I do. --HE DID ALREADY!!!
Will you love, respect and honor her throughout your years together? I WILL. PROMISED HIM!!! And WE KNOW HE WILL!!!
(Bride repeats the same vows.) --- GOES THE SAME WITH HER TOO!!!
Do you promise to love and cherish her - OMG they ABSOLUTELY DO!!! After the kidnapping track ... they realized that they cannot live/breathe without each other! They are in love and they are going keep us aaawwiinggg n oooiiinnggg!!!! So much to look out for... as for the love n cherishing part...we will never be satisfied with whatever is shown!!! At least am not: P ... I want them to keep loving n keep cherishing each other!!! ... i know am crazy ... crazy to such an extent that i want a "happily Ever After" and NOT a "happy Ending" !!!
In sickness and in health,-- YES HE DOES!!! time after time ... even when he hated her he couldn't let things hurt her... he tried holding her hand b4 she fell - the office meet , he protected her from getting hit by the car-the rain scene .. He rushed to the site that was under construction when he learnt that khushi had not returned home!!! He made sure she was aright b4 he left the gupta's house, he took hold of her again when she was abt to faint in the mandir, soo many to mention... U guys know it better..
(Bride repeats the same vows.)
Khushi on the other hand helped him out when she came to know abt his diabetes... She fed him with her favorite jalebis :) ... she took care of his health when his voice crashed ... she spent a sleepless night taking care of him when he got he collapsed for the second time!!! ---- N yeah they were n Still be together in sickness n health!!!
For richer for poorer - this is the best i do in the case of ARSHI!!! The great ASR always had problems with the "aukaat" ... and now... He helped buaji with the ration money when he stayed there... when he learnt that the gupta's couldn't pay the rent... he simply jumped in to save their skin!!! "the Aukaat" thingy which ASR was running after b4 he met khushi has no longer got to anything to do with the Arnav now ... He had come a long way since then...
(Bride repeats the same vows.)
For khushi the status never mattered... she never loved arnav for money or his riches... they ARE and WILL still be in together for richer n poorer!!!
for better for worse - soo much to pen down if I start with this ...lemme do with some of the situations here ... At present ... In the case of Arnav he gave khushi a solid proof when he stood by her side for the first time -during shyam's confrontation... " khushi meri patni " -- she was overjoyed by this mere words n needed nothing much ... she surrendered realizing his love for her the first time ever ... when dadi refused to let in khushi , he made a point to hold on to her n made sure that he will not enter where his wife is not allowed to !!! Once again when dadi complained of khushi for seeing the pictures of their past... Arnav entered the scene with a bang on statement... That she has all the rights n can do whatever she wants in the RM...
(Bride repeats the same vows.)
Khushi promised him that everything wud be alrite even b4 he shared his past with her!! ... The "Aaja piya"wali night if u remember... she stated clearly that she just wants him to be happy n cannot see him sad... she also said that he need not explain what is bothering him !!.. She made sure to make him understand that she will stand by his side no matter what!!! ... N today she made a promise to him again that she will be by his side for the better n for the worse!!!
And forsaking all others, keep yourself only unto her, for so long as you both shall live? THEY DO...
Anji had forced arnav soo many times to wear the pajamas but he never did... He agreed when khushi made plans in making him wear... forsaking all the others u see... by which I do not mean that he cared less for his di ... it's just that now khushi has become his life's centre !!! Over to the Engagement day - Arnav's eyes shifts from his di to khushi completely ... what else is needed huh??
(Bride repeats the same vows.)
We clearly saw how khushi defended Arnav when buaji misunderstood the reason behind him marrying khushi!!! ... She defended him the second time when there came a discussion abt him not being ready to tie the raksha dhaga!!...
Do you mutually promise in the presence of your friends and family that you will at all times and in all circumstances, conduct yourselves toward one another as becomes Husband and Wife? THEY DID n WE WITNESSED!!!
(ARNAV)do you pledge to love (KHUSHI) and throughout your years together to be honest, faithful, and kind to her. Do you pledge to give to her the same happiness she gives to you, to react to her as only you can, and to respect her for whom she is, not who you want her to be? THEY DO!!!
ARNAV: PHONE CONVO!!! When he said dadiji was going to visit the Guptas to khushi over the phone ... he sounded a bit loud ... later understood her situation n lowered his voice saying that everything wud go on just fine as he is coming along!!! That just said it all about the kindness. The happiness he wanted to give her... "I LOVE U JUST THE WAY U R KHUSHI" -- Declaration!! Proof that he respects for what she is!!! Another vow done!!!
(Bride repeats the same vows.)
KHUSHI: PHONE CONVO!!! Again when she invited him for a date she ordered him with rights to come over ... she hangs the phone ... later calls him n asks him sweetly whether its k for him to come!!! How sweet n how caring!!!
"HUM AAPKO BADAL NA NAHI CHAHTE" --- Declaration!! Proof that she respects n loves him for what he is!!!
The Vows Fulfilled!!!
(THEIR DECLARATION by phrases)
With all my heart I take you to be my wife. I will love you through the good and the bad, through the joy and the sorrow. I will try to be understanding, and to trust in you completely. I will make you a part of me and in turn, become a part of you. Together we will face all of life's experiences and share one another's dreams and goals. We will be equal partners in an open, honest relationship throughout the years.
(KHUSHI repeats the same vows.)
Rings: (EXCHANGE)
"With this ring I thee wed." ---- MARRIED ALREADY!!!
"With this ring I pledge my love."---- IN LOVE ALREADY!!!
"With this ring I pledge my commitment."COMMITTED TO EACH OTHER ALREADY!!
And now Ladies and Gentlemen, I have the pleasure of presenting to you Mr. and Mrs. ARNAV SINGH RAIZADA, Husband and Wife!!!"
NOTE: THIS IS FOR THOSE WHO NEEDED A GRAND WEDDING!!! PLZ REMEMBER THEY ARE MARRIED ALREADY!!! THEIR HEARTS UNITED!!! DESTINED TO BE ONE!!! NOTHING ELSE MATTERS!!!
LET'S TAKE THEIR WEDDING BE IT GRAND OR SIMPLE!!! CHEERS!!!
Originally posted by: UltimateBarun
SP u can play an extra advertisement and make the break a little longer ...I'd prefer that rather than watching the 1 minute unnecessary obvious (suspense) entry from different angles with a spooky background music...Its like you are trying to show Gabbar's entry when we already know that its Kaalia walking in,,, btw he was hilarious when he cried,,,,,I couldn't control my laughter!!!!
Originally posted by: akshuta06
really aabhas deserves award coz currntly he is one best villan on tv
I think the bad luck of TRPs in the show is because of the absence of mamaji and laxshmiji... please bring them back!
Originally posted by: reema.gcpatra
I liked today's episode. I hope Arnav will soon find out conspiracy of Dadi and shayam. Show is better now- I wish someone could slap dadi too anyways ASR gave her enough through his words.Love Husband -wife understanding , Shayam Anjali should learn from Arnav khushi that love is to support each other not just worship each other
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