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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ok i might be wrong but wasn't viraj shown to do house chores before and atleast prepare breakfast? What happened to him suddenly? He did live alone before too didn't he and everything was just perfect ... phir ab kia huwa that there is such big problem? 😕

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Posted: 13 years ago
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merey paas Viraaj ke barey mein sochney ka fursaat nahi hain granny...🤔..


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Posted: 13 years ago
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He has lost his wife.
He though that he is perfect and nothing wrong can happen to him so obviously he is frustated.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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So its just his frustration that is rendering him unable to do anything and make a mess of everything? Makes sense
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Posted: 13 years ago
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They never showed how he used to live alone before so we don't know if he always had it together.

Viraj lost his wife and this is how he can express his grief, the man isn't like normal thinking person so we can't expect him to express his sadness by crying. This behavior of Viraj is good cause he's not in control and there no one to impress or act like the perfect husband. Viraj grief is causing him to lose focus and not concentrate so that's why he's making all these mistakes.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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They did not show him keep a house may be but he did have a life before jhanvi in which everything was just as clean and perfect as he expected it to and he was shown to make breakfast if i am not wrong

I feel SnoWy said makes sense ... its his frustration, i highly doubt its grief ... He never thought anything can happen which he does not want to happen and hence he is frustrated ... but to each their own
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

They never showed how he used to live alone before so we don't know if he always had it together.

Viraj lost his wife and this is how he can express his grief, the man isn't like normal thinking person so we can't expect him to express his sadness by crying. This behavior of Viraj is good cause he's not in control and there no one to impress or act like the perfect husband. Viraj grief is causing him to lose focus and not concentrate so that's why he's making all these mistakes.

@Bold: i sooo agree!!!😃
and other part..totally agree..
my add ons: yes he is just unable to accept that something can go without his will..and against his will..he wanted eternal life span with his "Love" but he forgot that he doesn't rule the cycle of life...it's the Almighty who has the control of lives..he is just feeling sad and feeling empty..because of the void that is been created by her gone...it's like every place/corner of the house is reminding him of her..he is sad..he wants to cry..but there is high EGO...male ego rather..that he can't...he is helpless and thus he took alchohol infact he wanted to get rid of her memories so tried a suicidal attempt to finish his life once and for all...but he was so drunk he just couldn't do that either...ofc perfaction is destroyed..because...as he told her mom..."jhanvi taught me to to love..she taught me the importance of relations..she means a world to me" etc...
grief can come out in any form...anger, sadness, depression any form...and we are witnessing that only..and *there is NO surprise in his behavior* it's preety explainable to me...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Viraj has always been in control of everything in his life his work,.his employees in office and most importantly jhanvi at home.

Everybody is at his wish and command..with his employees in office he is taking out his frustration on them for small petty things..he has this domeeneering factor in him and whom he always dominate jhanvi is not there..he is out of focus and losing control of his life gradually..this irking him big time..

He is not grieving jhanvi but missing the perfection in his life..in him and one person is proving him he is not perfect ..jhanvi..thus viraj till date cursing blaming her for his situation...

He has superiority EGO in him ..neither he wont bow to anything nor accept he has done wrong with jhanvi , that he repents for it. and why he has lost her today..nope this wont come out of viraj mouth so i will say viraj still same better getting worst as he is not missing jhanvi but the control he had on her and how dare she leaves him..

Let him get a hint of jhanvi alive he will be worst ..his male EGO will doubled and we know the rest..

Nothing surprising or new in viraj actions after jhanvi gone from his life..viraj was control freak and will aways be..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think he is behaving like this becos he is unable to accept his defeat.
he always thought he won over jhanvi but with her death there is no one to follow his rules or stay like his slave. thus he lost to his own will power and is venting out his anger and frustation in the form of such behaviour.
it just cannot be grief as he still keeps on cursing her all the time.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Viraj is grieving Jhanvi's loss. He lost his wife who he believed to be his only companion. He is not able to accept her demise. So he is venting his emotions to lifeless things like Pot. I hope the track moves forward with people finding out his illness.

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