Originally posted by: jyoti_l
Is wishing something
wrong?
Is desiring something
wrong?
Wishing or desiring something is wrong. everyone has a right to wish and achieve them too. the success / failure depends on the individual's efforts in succeeding it.
From Mona's
perspective: We have seen her as a selfless wife, a selfless mother, a self
less bahu, who does everything for her family. She does have many dreams or
wishes, but always want her family to be happy. As of now, we know she does not
wish for something. She knows Pradeep is always there for her, and she just
wishes for him to succeed.
i think as a ideal wife/mother/DIL her only wish will be the welfare of her family. she always wishes for her husband's success in his career and she tries to balance btw kids, in-laws and her husband. but at times it fails to spend the time with her husband. and i think it happens in every household.
ex. i can give my mom's. its the same case. but in this my mom is lucky that my father understands the situation. (No offense to anyone reg. this 😳) my grandparents wants my mom always around as they are elder of all, for solving issues, for going to hospital checkups etc.. the list grows if i go on 😆
so i don't find any thing wrong in Mona's case.
From Pradeep's perspective:
We have seen him as a man who loves him family, but sometimes gets angry with
his wife for not giving him proper time. Is he wrong in wishing that from her?
He wants success and
wants promotion to move ahead in his career, because he wants his family to
have comforts (I believe that this may be the reason, but he wants to succeed
as an individual also), is he wrong in desiring to move ahead in life?
No doubt Pradeep loves his family - his wife n kids. and reg anger and all gussa ussi pe nikaal the hain jisse hum sabse zyada pyaar karte hain (Sorry for my hindi. i think u understood that i'm too too bad in hindi 😉 ) he has full right to wish that he wants to spend time with his wife. but he must also understand the situation and act accordingly as he is the elder son and the also head of his family too. he wants to succeed in his career for his family. but i felt he lacks that confidence that he can achieve or to tell his boss (EX) that all the projects were his projects. and shows all that thing on his wife who calmly listens to all this as she understands her hubby.
i also felt at times he acts very selfish. (again no offense just this is what i feel 😳) when there was problem in his dad's place he was expecting her to accompany to the dinner. he would have accompanied her and then solved it infact. but again blame on Mona. he must appreciate her instead, for handling all such problems. he has a point but he is out of his thoughts. 😕
From Anushka's
perspective: This one is difficult, I know, because she is breaking a family. And
I really don't support her in that, but is she wrong is desiring a company for
herself? And if she looks for company in one of her old friends who, I think,
she has always loved, is she wrong in doing so?
Some people say there
are no boundaries in love, and if she wishes to be with him, is she wrong?
Hmm Anushka!!! well she wished career over marriage long time back. and after 12yrs she wants her love back which i think is very wrong. coz he has moved on in his life. it doesn't mean that she once loved him so she can get him back in his life again breaking his relations with his family. she can get any other better person than Pradeep.
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Some other questions
Why does one always
want what they don't have?
i think that's the human nature 😆. ri8 now not getting any proper answer for this. will think abt it. 😛
Does Anushka want Pradeep only because he is with Mona?
she (A) feels that she has done a mistake that she left Pradeep long back. and whenever she sees both of them together, her jealousy hints her to get him back. and also all the past events comes to mind reminding her that she is missing him so much.
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Fun question
(This question is
only to make discussion light, no offence intended. If someone finds this
offensive, please say so, I will remove it.)
If there comes a time
and there is a catfight between mona n anu, who do u think will have an upper
hand?😉
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
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🤣🤣 🤣 Catfight btw Mona n Anushka 🤣🤣🤣
i think Mona will win for sure. and i hope for it 😍
Hope you all take part in this discussion and make this forum alive
😳
its was a lovely DOTW. 👏
hope i didn't make it lengthy and boring answers 😳
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