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Posted: 9 years ago

Hey Folks,

How is all of you?

Hope all izz well...Myself Parm brings to you *took  Dev Team permission*
 
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Words have the power to both destroy and heal. When words are both true and kind, they can change our world. (Buddha)
 


Did you ever write an article, upload a video on Youtube, make a signature by putting all of yourself and your passion and you get as an answer: insults and criticism? Unfortunately it is something that happens but how did you react?

 

The first thing that probably happens to you when you read a comment unkind is to want to respond immediately and giving vent to the frustration that caused that comment. But I believe it's wrong. You do not need to react impulsively, first think and then act.


You need to be able to distinguish the type of comment that you face.
Usually you can find two types of criticism:

1) Constructive criticism: often benefit your work. Accept constructive criticism is a sign of maturity.


2) Insults: they are difficult to manage; you must report them with the button report.

The first type is identified because, instead of a complaint, there are suggestions and options that offer an alternative to your point of view.
If you think the criticism is valid, agrees with the solutions that member propose. This will help you improve your work, your articles or otherwise. Giving importance to the opinions of a member, discuss and find a solution together is a way to show your readers that you really keep them, especially to their opinions.
And don't forget to thank: If the criticism is constructive, praise the one who moved it. You'll find a great commenter.

 

And about the second category of criticism: This is part of the game: more people are, it's more likely that someone will envy you with any particular logical reason.

 Resigned: there are people who find it rewarding to create havoc; they feel almost like a need. What is incredible is that this requirement is satisfied going after people who they do not know, hiding behind the computer monitor. Behind the screens, they are confident of being able to act as they see it.

You do not need to respond to provocation with other insults, this is just what want those who insult you.

 

Give a smart answer: you may respond in a funny way and deflate the debate immediately. Make him/her realize that the insults do not make you neither hot nor cold.

 

So in shorts:

 

- Be able to distinguish between criticism and insult

 

- Be ready to admit your faults

 

-Try to keep yourself Cool Cool Thanda ThandaROFL

 

 

Question:

 

1- How do you behave when you read unkind comment?

 

2- What is meaning of Comment&Criticism for you?

 

3-Have you experienced an impolite situation? If yes, what did you do?

 

4- When the criticism improve and when damage?

 

Big smileHave FunBig smile

 

Take CareWink

 

Regards

Parm

 

from the behalf of

A/S Section Dev Team

Posted: 9 years ago
Cool.. Why in Youtube ? In IF itself, in few reality show forum, people cross the line of Criticism and tend to insult / humor the celebrity for no apparent reason..

Anyways.. Answer to ur questions..

1. Constructive criticism always comes with a suggestion like you mentioned.. So unkind comments can be taken in a positive way if it's CC.. But for me, people who try to insult others to no end, and then call themselves Constructive Critic, must be shown their position at least once.. I have faced a bunch of this category members in Bigg Boss Season 4 forum Big smile.. And after a point, you have to tell them what kind of hypocrite and bunch of losers they are Big smile Gandhigiri doesnt work always ! Big smile

2. Comment - Normal discussion .. Agreeing or disagreeing and putting ur pov .. Pointin out flaws or praising .. Criticism - A small difference, the same comment comes with a suggestion if you find a flaw.. Big smile

3. Oh OMG I have faced a LOT ROFL Well in real life, I tend to leave the place / let the other person speak the krap until they are done LOL.. And then I shrug it off my shoulder ROFL In virtual world, if it's OTT, I fight by replying in a funny manner Big smile M sure my Mod friends wont be very happy with that ROFL

4. Well Criticism always comes with a suggestion.. Hence it helps in improvement.. And comments which dont come with suggestion and which are only bashful, of course can never help in improvement.. And that always does damage LOL

Thanks ! Nice topic ! <3
Posted: 9 years ago

Question:

 

1- How do you behave when you read unkind comment?

Nothing.  does it even matter how do i behave when i read a comment which seems unkind? LOLIF has changed alot in the duration of 6-7 years. i think most of us seems to be used to unkind comments by now which people keep showering on us. LOL

2- What is meaning of Comment&Criticism for you?

 Ii'll answer this question after a while. Kinda busy now!

3-Have you experienced an impolite situation? If yes, what did you do?

 LOL.. This has to be bestest question of them all. Not once, not twice but like everyday. I'd been gone through so much in the past with people bashing all around .. sometimes, it use to annoy me but then i got to see real faces of them people whom i liked once. So it's fine, kabhi kabhi you need to have one phatka to stand on your feet hhaha.. LOL  What did i do? hmm.. kuch nahi, but  the people who back stabbed me, i'll not leave them very soon.. what goes around comes around.' i believe in this quote hahha.  dkehte hain.

4- When the criticism improve and when damage?

Humans don't like crticismLOL hai na? after all, its human nature. But crticism always helps you in getting better. You get to know the flaws in you and in your thinking.. hence, you'll try to think from others perspective.

Posted: 9 years ago
@Sano: ROFLROFLLike the phrase in your dabbaROFL
 
@prerna4rishav: thanks for liking the topic :)
 
Posted: 9 years ago
 
 Question:

 

1- How do you behave when you read unkind comment?

 It depends where it is..to be honest I'll be more willing to go all out on YT rather than IF because I know in IF there will be immediate repercussions to my actions rather in YT, I doubt google's owner will come out and scold me for bashing another.  But for the most part at the beginning when I joined IF, I use to fight withe everyone who would instigate, now seems like tables have turned and I like to sit back and laugh at the fights and perhaps put in my "2 cents" along the wayWink

2- What is meaning of Comment&Criticism for you?

 Comment - reaction

Criticism - looking at another (or your own) work in a manner for ways for improvement
 
 
3-Have you experienced an impolite situation? If yes, what did you do?

 yes i did experience an impolite situation, I normally reply back to the person on a later day with an apathetic tone.  It really doesn't help to show that they've gotten the best/worst of you...let them know that they don't matter to you and they are very small for doing what they did... best revenge ever. the end.

4- When the criticism improve and when damage?

 Criticism is like medicine..it is necessary but also overdosing can cause harm

Posted: 9 years ago

1- How do you behave when you read unkind comment?

It doesn't bother me...I move on and try and do the best I can.

2- What is meaning of Comment&Criticism for you?

Suggestions are something I can fit it because there are many TV actors/Bollywood that I havent done yet and I should really try and make different variety...criticism has happened but it's made me improve a lot better ;)

3-Have you experienced an impolite situation? If yes, what did you do?

I have to do a avi request and I keep getting PMs lol reminding me...I keep saying I will do it but phir bhi she keeps saying yaar please avi bana de na...I love getting requests but I just wish members would have patience lol.

 

4- When the criticism improve and when damage?

It helps you knowing what you can improve on...you can't be praised all the time now...it's best to have a bit of both worlds ;)

Posted: 9 years ago
Interesting topic and thanks for the link Meli Smile

Question:

 

1- How do you behave when you read unkind comment?

At first i would get annoyed, then i would laugh. Laugh is because i try to see

the other side of the comments which normally seem hilarious LOL cause there cannot be unkind comment Wink its called Criticism for meBig smile But 70% i do get

angry as we do something with so much effort but other just come and give unkind comment

not seeing the effort we had put in.

 

2- What is meaning of Comment&Criticism for you?

For me comment means some sort of explanation or opinion where we are trying to express

our thoughts or attitude or trying to explain our observation on something, while

Criticism is evaluating or interpreting others work and being not satisfied with it.


 

3-Have you experienced an impolite situation? If yes, what did you do?

Of course..  no chance of escaping such situations LOL everyone faces it. In real life
i stay and fight up and argue if i think i am correct but if i feel the other person is right,
i would still stay and hear them out though i wud be gritting my teeth at that time OuchLOL
In virtual. ... since i got to know IF world, i back out. I immediately leave the place
which annoys the other person more and sometimes i do regret for just leaving
not wanting to stand up. Confused

 

4- When the criticism improve and when damage?

Umm will be back to edit for this Smile

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