y'day i was watching earlier episodes of KS.(i keep record jai-bani's part n love to watch it in my free time). i noticed that after being married to bani, no matter in which situation and to whom he actually loved, there was a first spark of love n liking for bani in jai's eyes when the duo share the private and silent moment in their bedroom.
we know tht intially when the serial started there were some sort of tension btw the two. the first impression of jai on bani was that he has been very tough, egoistic, stubbern and insensitive but straight forward while the impression of bani on jai was that she has been simple, straight forward, mature and caring for her sister. then they gradually came to know each other through different incidenence and on different occassion as 3 sisters were initially staying at jai's out house and then jai brought them to his own walia mension. eventually bani had noticed that jai is very soft, sensitive, and caring n loving by nature. while there hasn't any change of bani's impression on jai. jai always respect bani for these characteristics.
they put a deep trust n respect in each other. that's why bani hold an important position in jai's office and jai told everyone in his house not to insult n misbehave with 3 sisters in any way.
then lots of twist n turns and heart break in jai n bani's life. situation was normal btw the duo untill bani took pia's place in "lagna mandap". situation went bad after this but still under control. when jai came to their room in drunkun but stable condition with broken heart, he felt bani's helping hand. he like this gesture of bani from bottom of his heart. after that when bani used his name to save sheetal's child, he told her that u always think about yr sister, your family and their feelings but have u ever damn try to think about this man (now her husband) who is completely shattered n betrayed by her sis n her best friend's action. this show that he wanted bani to understand his condition, to feel for him as he started to like her but never told her on her face coz men cant express their feelings very easily which women shows.
but then bani got married pia pushkar in walia mension, situation went worse. jai's anger blast...but i m pretty sure that jai started to like bani from one corner of his heart. his present condition stop him to commit thisin front of bani and its natural. he needs time to bring original jai backwhose heart fill with full of love n not hatred. its bani's turn now to bring back that jai as she has that capability to win hearts of people. everybody alongwith bani should try for this n we have a beautiful love story of jai-bani.
this is my point of view.
lov, surahi