NEUTRAL-post to all please read thanks!!!

Hi all lately as we know so many things are going on here. I am usually  the type of person who stays out of politics and taking sides I leave that to the moderators and sorry hope not stepping on anyone's toes.

This is hardforumn to manage I understand that and we alldo and I know U all are trying U'rbest and want all of us to get along. U tell Us to ignore well some of usdo (I knowI do) U tell to PM if things or out of hand(I do) and others as well. 

Now when I joined here I joined thinking this is a place to post opinions and talk sensibly about  ideas. Sure we will not agree? and why should we? that would make no sense. Its a place to state ideas. Anyhow I am not talking regarding posts staying open or not that hasbeen overtalked.

Like Supreme I want to see peace as well, however, is easy to say this and than it goes out the other ear!!!

Anyhow not all are going to get along nor have same thinking and that is ok. Yet to putdown another person's thinking is wrong letsbe adults here please.

Now why I havedecided to post is that I see sa re ga ma pa turning into not a site where we talk on our participants its more like a site dedicated to particular singers such as Vineet ordebo(some maydisagree ) yet majority of posts are about these two and so little on the others. Well that does notbother me its the attacks I see!!!

Yes they were the top two. However, many people liked and supported others. I guess these two groups are the most voilatle and have the most attention.  Regardless this is sa re ga ma pa site and a new show is starting so lets talk on that its tiresome to hear the same thing. Its tiresome hearing attacks on Vineet ordebo so lets stop it!!!(again how many listen we will see) this is what hascaused so many too leave or get upset.!!!

There are other reasons these seem tobe the main though!!!!

THiIS IS TO BOTH GROUPS:

This goes toboth groups: U like Vineet great U likedebo great!! there are others who may like neither !!! also justbecasue someone says something about Vineetdoes not mean automaticially theylikedebo and if someone doesnot likedebo mean they love vineet.  Remember we have nihira, hema, paresh and so on supporters please respect that. So plesase leave generalizations out thanks!!!

There are  very nice and genuineclubs set up as well and hats off to those people!!!!!!!!11

THIS IS TO ALL:
Another thing many have opened up thesefanclubs. Well great there is where U may go and say how much love that person and the rest should stay away. Here I seeclubs say supporters only ok we respect that only supporters are someone who wants to say something nice since its aclub may since its positive. 

The irony is that those who tell haters to stay away are not using theseclubs to say how much they love their singer instead are using it has a place tobash other singers(who are real people) and more importantlybash other members!!!!! (who are people who post here!!!!)

I think in all seriousness some people want to get others mad otherwise why would some post so and so is horrible (U think all will agree and post lovely remarks there)

Moderators I know U'r job is tough and U'r trying hard and its hard to please all yet some people are on purpose trying to instigate people and that is why I am posting. I am not giving names that is not important. I just want to make a point and if any Of U relate to this than U need todo something to reform U'r selves.   If itdoes not pertain please ignore!!!!

Other thing please no attacking and I have adisclaimer: " I am not at all responsible at the actions of other members and what they may post  here  they are mature enough to log on they shouldbe mature enough to thinkbefore posting!!!

PEACE and I want to say to members pleasedonot let some people make U go away U have as nuch right as anyone to post here. We as a whole make this place what it is.

I hope this post is not in vain  and I have stated things very politely without mentioning names and just stating as a NEUTRAL PERSON what I see.

SO pleasedo not shoot the messenger thanks and post wisely!!!!
Edited by teenindia_usa - 18 years ago

TeenIndia,
All these things are not going to stop here. It will keep going like this, so forget about everything. I celeberated Debo's win for 2 days and after that I had not written a single comment praising Debo or bashing Vinit or anybody. Because we should move on. SRGMP final is finished and I think contestants also had moved on. Now everything is in their hands, whoever has talent will scucceed, but few people still trying to incite other and try to drag other in fight. I know mods job is a tough, but every job is tough and we have to do justice with our jobs. And specially if it is related with public then every action will be scrutinized, Appeasing one and punishing other is never a healthy act in public forum. You are correct, there are fans of every contestants in this forum, so we should respect everybody's sentiments.
I really lost hope for any thing better here. I saw some people forgot about SRGMP in last couple of weeks and stopped replying to other contestant's fans after discussing with moderators and mod's appeal, they stopped interfaring after. But still few people are moving scott free to write anything in any topic without thinking about the impact. They even did not spare a sticky topic opened by Mod.

Quazi and thanks yes most are mature and have moved on yet some are still tuck in the same place.
Edited by teenindia_usa - 18 years ago

I agree that all of us need to stop fighting
I agree with you hundred percent didi

thanks awww gudia and other's thanks

no need for the thanks didi
i truly do support your views
aur aap ek dum teekh kah rahi hain

yea i agree wit u teenindia_usa u go girl! finally sum1 wants to fighting n cryin bout da past. 👏

Thanks teenindia_usa. Did not know you can write such a big essay too 😛

Thanks again for the message......

Bhaskar u r around, look at what is happening in our section yaar... ppl going away, ppl insulting in sticky topics and what not

Originally posted by: seema_17

Bhaskar u r around, look at what is happening in our section yaar... ppl going away, ppl insulting in sticky topics and what not

Yes I am around now. And we all are trying to get some sanity. If you all stop posting in that topic it may actually help. otherwise very soon you all will find me going insane here 😉